We all say goodbye many times throughout our lives. Goodbye to a best friend that moves away, or one that passes away. Goodbye to our youths and unfulfilled dreams hopes and desires. Goodbye to nasty habits that once brought us great satisfaction! But the one truth that always remains, is the love given and received, the lessons learned, and the character built during the course of our farewells. If that is what we choose to focus on.
It is a human pitfall that we tend to naturally focus on the pain of our losses, rather than the gifts given. The love between a husband and wife once shared, who are now divorced, lives on and penetrates out constantly recycling itself and consistently shaping us as people if we choose to allow it. In the end, only love remains, all else is an illusion. We are all human, we all make mistakes, it is through forgiveness of ourselves and others, that the flame of love given and received lives on. I recently attended a church service in which the pastor talked about goodbyes. He said we all have either just said goodbye, are saying goodbye, or about to say goodbye to something, someone, significant. It is all a part of life.
So my challenge for you this month is to shift your awareness, if you have not already done so, to focus on the beauty rather than the pain. Forgiveness rather than grudges. Life is constantly evolving, and it evolves through the energy of love, given and received in our lives and the lives of others. We can not evolve as humans, and therefore a planet, if we are blocking that circulation of love in our own lives.
This is my wish for all of you, in becoming "Perfectly You." FORGIVE!
Denise
Denise Platte, M.A
Founder PerfectlyYou.biz
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