Show Your Shine!

Recognition is the fourth and largest cornerstone in practicing appreciation. It is important to recognize and give thanks to the people who help make our world a better place. Who do you know that helps make a difference in your life? No matter how large or small, acknowledge and show appreciation.

There are many ways to show appreciation. Sincere verbal communication with appropriate body language expressed with a genuine sense of gratitude is one way. Even if it is difficult to express your appreciation, most team members will appreciate the effort and the attempt at saying thanks. It can be as simple as saying, "Hey great job on....thanks!

When offering verbal praise to a team member, it is best to be very specific about the actions or qualities that you express appreciation for. Direct eye contact also helps create a feeling of sincerity.

Words of appreciation for coworkers should be centered on positive appraisals of their work ethics, commitment to the company or other professional qualities if they are of the opposite sex. This ensures that professional decorum remains intact in the workplace and shows that you respect the integrity of your coworkers.

Appreciation letters or cards are another option for expressing gratitude, especially if you are more comfortable expressing yourself with written words. Generic, store bought cards should never be given as-is. Taking the time to write a personal message and a few words of encouragement from the heart, will make the gesture seem sincere. A thank you email just isn't the same, nothing beats a handwritten note.

Pulling your own weight in the office is one of the most sincere expressions of appreciation and respect in the workplace.

Picking up the tab for lunch or bringing in something homemade to share is another option for expressing your appreciation. A plate of cookies, fudge, or other sweets is always welcome. You can also opt for a veggie tray or fresh fruit basket if most of the office is dieting or at least attempting to. :)

These are some ways you can show gratitude and appreciation. Unspoken gratitude and appreciation is a wasted opportunity.

"To laugh often and much;

to win the respect of intelligent people

and the affection of children;

to earn the appreciation of honest critics

and endure the betrayal of false friends;

to appreciate beauty;

to find the best in others;

to leave the world a bit better,

whether by a healthy child,

a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;

to know even one life has breathed easier

because you have lived.

This is to have succeeded."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson