1. STEP ONE: Yesterday I brain coached a
young adult male who
has never "really" had a job....He's 28 years old.
He feared employment because each time he tried
he became so discouraged. (lacking real supports -
job coach when needed, cheerleaders to say well-
done!).
Brain coaching and walking alongside "Abled"
(not enabled) him to make the step to Voc Rehab. He
saw the presentation himself - I joined him with the
counselor for paperwork. It took me 1 year to get to
step one, he'd been on the street for 5 years!
He had tried over and over to succeed himself,
always falling back to sleeping on the street. A good
hearted preson eventually turning to self-medication
of drugs and alcohol. He has been drug free for 15
months.
Previous barriers included:
- If he did understand what the counselor was
saying, he forgot when he changed environments
(generalization).
- He couldn't fill out the paperwork and if he
managed to he forgot to turn it in. (sequencing)
- He was given so much information, he only
remembered the last thing said or maybe his brain
never heard it at all because it was overloaded or
could not receive it.
(memory/retention/auditory processing)
STEP TWO: Getting the interview -
getting the
job.
Ummm looks like we need more
heart2heart brain
coaching....
....appearance....speaking.....walking.....more than
just talking!
He smiled, "You're not a MEAN MOTHER, you're my STERN RUDDER.
(concrete understanding)
I don't ever want to sleep in dirty laundry rooms with trash bags for blankets again, it's too cold."
Jodee and Ann
Better Endings New Beginnings