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Purim in Persia is on March 7th,  reservations are now open. Please join us for a Purim party you will not forget!

We are happy to announce the  Ronnie Baras Comic Hypnotist Show at the Purim in Persia party. 

Please email Rabbimendel@jewishfairlawn.org with your reservations.
 
Complimentary admission for Partners in Pride - reservations required.
Please note that the Purim banquet this year is by reservation only
, there will be no admission at the door.
We look forward to welcoming you personally.

The Women's Circle enjoyed an evening of decorating masks and delicious desserts. To view pictures of this event click here.
Upcoming at Bris Avrohom of Fair Lawn

This Sunday, Feb. 26th begins the third semester at Hebrew school. To learn more visit www.fairlawnhebrewschool.com  
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InfinityClass on Infinity
Sunday, Feb. 26th @ 4pm, join us for a mathematical exploration of the Practice, History and Symbolism behind its Mysterious form and how it relates to the Kabbalistic definition of Infinity.
Presented by Dr. Sofya Nayer, professor of Mathematics at City University, and Rabbi Mendel Zaltzman, director at Bris Avrohom of Fair Lawn. 

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Coffee and Kabbalah
Join Elke Zaltzman every Wednesday morning @11am for a dose of Kabbalah. 
 

  

   

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Torah Studies Class
Join Rabbi Mendel, every Tuesday evening at 8pm, for a fascinating discussion on the weekly Torah portion. 
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A Biselleh Humor
A woman accompanied her husband to the doctor's office. Following her husband's checkup, the doctor called the wife into his office to speak with her privately. He said, "Your husband is suffering from a very severe stress disorder. If you don't do the following, your husband will surely deteriorate and die."

"Each morning," instructed the doctor, "fix him a healthy breakfast.  Be pleasant at all times. For lunch make him a nutritious meal.  For dinner prepare an especially nice meal for him. Have the dinner waiting for him on the table, hot, as he arrives home from work. Don't burden him with chores.  Don't discuss your problems with him; it will only make his stress worse. No nagging is allowed.  You must also compliment him at least five-six times a day, telling him how brilliant and talented he is. And most importantly, never disagree with him." 

"If you can do this for the next 10 months to a year," the doctor said, "I think your husband will regain his health completely."

On the way home, the husband asked his wife, "What did the doctor say?"

"He said you're going to die," she replied.
 
Weekly e-Torah

 

And in the beginning, G-d was homeless, and so G-d asked His people to set Him up with some digs.Where does it say that? Well, nowhere, actually. But it does say that G-d instructed Moses to tell the people, "They shall make for Me a Sanctuary, that I may dwell among them."  

Now the question is, was G-d really homeless? Wasn't He already dwelling with the people? Why, it was just the other week that we read of the revelation at Sinai, where G-d came down from heaven to earth. So why suddenly the need for a Sanctuary for Him?  

The answer is that there is a fundamental difference between Sinai and the Sanctuary. Sinai represents a revelation thrust upon the people from above. G-d initiated and activated that encounter. In this experience, the Jewish people were somewhat passive. All the thunder and lightning, physically and spiritually, came at them from on high.


The Sanctuary, however, had to be built by the people themselves. They had to take the initiative. From the fundraising campaign to collect the raw materials needed for the sanctuary, down to the nuts and bolts of construction, the 
Mishkan was a human-made edifice.

At Sinai the heavens opened for the greatest sound-and-light show on earth, leaving a nation mesmerized and awe-inspired. But they themselves were passive recipients of this unique, never-to-be-repeated gift from above.


To build a Sanctuary took a whole building campaign. Men and women, young and old, everybody rolled up their sleeves. It took weeks and months of hard labor, meaningful contributions by every individual, planning and programming, designing and then actually building a holy house for G-d. We made it happen. And thereby, it was the people who brought G-d down to earth.


Apparently it was important for the Jews to appreciate the value G-d attaches to self-help and to DIY projects of a spiritual nature. It is not good enough to sit around waiting for the extraordinary revelations, those once-in-a-lifetime supernal visits the good L-rd might bestow upon us. It is necessary for us to create the infrastructure, to take the building blocks in our hands and "make me a Sanctuary."

 

True revelation is rare. While there certainly are those special moments when we witness the unmistakable presence of G-d in our lives, we cannot wait for lightning to strike. We need to build our personal sanctuaries for G-d in order to embrace Him and bring Him into our homes and families.  

The Rebbe of Kotzk was once asked by his teacher, "Where is G-d?" He answered, "Wherever you let Him in." 

-by Rabbi Yossi Goldman