
by
Barbara
Fagan
For years, people have challenged me to write a book. From my early days of coaching young business professionals, to coaching coaches and to facilitating leaders, there is one piece of consistent feedback that I have always received: Where did you come up with that metaphor?
It all goes back to when I was a kid, and before educators understood the impact of dyslexia in learning. When I was in the first grade I would actually break into a sweat (imagine a first grader sweating). I would worry all day about the moment I would be sitting in my reading circle with others taking turns reading aloud. Does this sound familiar to you? Soon, my teachers began to identify that I had a problem. My parents, like most parents, wanted to understand why their brilliant daughter was having such a hard time learning to read. So off I went to the eye doctor, the hearing doctor and the child counselors. No one could explain the problem. I began to think, I am stupid.
Eventually, I discovered a very effective strategy. If I could use a picture or an example that I could relate to and remember, then through association I could retain information. These skills grew and grew over the years. As a professional, I was drawn to marketing and strategic thinking, which is where I could make it all up. As I developed my skills as a coach and worked in many different business environments with professionals in different roles, and levels of professional development, I
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by Lou Dozier
Co-Founder & Executive VP
What is Intentionality?
We live in the most exciting time in world history. Right now. This is the time when spiritual traditions and scientific findings have stopped opposing one another and have become sister studies. The quantum physicists, the chaos theorists and the biologists of today are the mystics of the twenty-first century, proving the timeless truths those mystics and spiritual leaders have been teaching us since the beginning of time. Its happening through hard scientific evidence.
Modern science proves that everything in our world is comprised of energy -- everything! What appears to be solid your house, car, dog, even your body at the quantum level is 99.99999 percent energy or light. All energy vibrates (vibrational) and we call that frequency. What this truly means is that youll never create high-energy results from a low-energy vessel.
Like Attracts Like
Are you ready to give up the age old belief that life is a struggle? You have probably heard of the Law of Attraction. Films like What the Bleep or The Secret talk about this law. I found myself excited by both, and yet felt that this might easily be construed as wishful, magical thinking. The law simply states that like vibrations are attracted to each other, and dissimilar vibrations repel. So, youll never attract prosperity in your life if youre constantly sending out vibration waves of poverty and lack.
Now, I am no scientist so am not able to report chapter and verse how this works. However, I am clear that I can choose to approach and create my life from this purposeful context. I would love to be able to sit in a meditative pose, simply imagine my fabulous life and poof it just happens! Unfortunately (or perhaps fortunately) thats not how it occurs. I would also assert that most of us dont really want to live mediocre lives. However, it is so easy to simply stay in our comfort zone and keep doing what weve always been doing and getting what weve always gotten.
Doing Things Differently
Our current level of results including our appearance, bank account, house, car, relationships, joy or lack of, etc., are simply a mirror of what we have been putting out. Now, a mirror doesnt judge, doesnt say its good or bad, doesnt edit or delete it just reflects back what is put forth. Most of what we have been putting out is unconscious unintentional, if you will. Therefore, if we want our lives to be different, then we must be willing to get out of our comfort zone and do things differently.
I stand in the belief that every human being matters, makes a difference, is a unique contribution and is authentically magnificent. We all deserve to live the life we love.
Living Life Intentionally requires being now what we envision for ourselves and our lives. Stay tuned for more
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by Penny Herman-Polayes
Guest Contributor
One of the core elements that support business to run effectively is the accountability
level of the members. The same can be true in other groups: families, volunteers,
organizations or sports teams. Since accountability is so important, lets examine what accountability is and look at why so many struggle with being accountable.
Accountability is being the source of everything, choosing to act and owning ones results, with no reasons, stories or excuses. Simply put -- accountability is being able to account for the choices you have made or are making that has you experiencing the results that you have. Accountability is about choice.
Its easy to be accountable when things are good -- like completing the report ahead of time or bringing the project in early. We can puff-out our chest and let everyone know what choices we made to assist us in being ahead of the game. However, unforeseen circumstances (that were out of our control) often come up and get in our way of accomplishing what we said we would do. This can lead to a round of The Blame Game. This game allows us to use those circumstances as excuses for causing us, for example, to arrive at work late, to miss
an appointment or not get the report completed by the deadline. When we go into this mindset, we go into react and defend mode, another place on the game board. Then we draw the card that allows us to become the victim of our circumstances. As the victim, we get to react and defend. Whereas those who move to the accountable people place on the board,
choose to create and act, and are always the winner.
Victims feel that they have no choice and are powerless to see any other
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