First Presbyterian Church
First Press           an online newsletter               February, 2012
Dear Members and Friends:

 

Our February newsletter is being re-mailed to you today due to the omission of the opening paragraph in Rev. Semmes' article and an error in the financial report for December. We apologize for any confusion, but hope you will enjoy this revised edition of First Press.

From the Pastors' Desks

More than 2,000 people from 500 churches known as the "Fellowship of Presbyterians" (FOP) witnessed the birth of a new faction within our denomination last month called the Evangelical Covenant Order (ECO). Formed as a reaction to last year's decision by our denomination to permit gay elders, the group will not be splitting away from the PC(USA), however (the pastors of those 500 churches surely wouldn't want to part with their cushy denominational pensions!).

 

Its website says the FOP began a year ago as a "conversation between seven PC(USA) pastors who wanted to find new ways to encourage each other in common faith, ministry, and mission. These pastors were concerned about the health of the PC(USA) as a denomination, where membership has dropped steadily over 40 years and ongoing disputes over theology and bureaucracy create a culture of contention more than vitality. They talked of reclaiming a covenanted biblical community, where unity is derived from a shared mission to make disciples of Jesus Christ, not from structural affiliation, and where young leaders are nurtured to speak the gospel into a rapidly-changing world. The pastors issued a nationwide call to others oflikemind[emphasis mine] who envisioned a new future for congregations to connect and grow while sharing a Presbyterian, Reformed, Evangelical heritage."

 

It saddens me that these folk would believe the rest of our denomination isn't up to the same challenge they say is theirs: "to build flourishing churches that make disciples of Jesus Christ." It saddens me they would only want those of "like mind" in their midst instead of a diverse assortment of people from whom to learn and with whom to grow in faith. It saddens me that any group of Christians would dare to believe they have cornered the market on how to address the ethical, moral and religious issues of our day, issues we all care about and seek to solve. It saddens me that representatives of 500 PC(USA) churches would feel compelled to isolate themselves using ideological commonalities rather than press on with the biblical directive to work through theological differences in Christian community (koinonia).

 

If I'm honest, I tell you I am weary of my denomination being castigated for what it is and belittled for what it isn't. I am weary of being told with sugar-coated words that I'm not as religious or as faithful or as serious about my faith as those who interpret scripture differently than I do. And I am tired of being told my denomination is dying on the vine and perpetually headed in the wrong direction. Does it have problems? Yes. Are they solvable? Absolutely.

 

The wonderfully articulate British child analyst Adam Phillips wrote once that "the best way to understand any system is to ask what it needs to exclude in order to make it work." It is ironic how this recent clarion call to exclusion, revealed last week in Florida, is cast in terms of repentance, a cinching up of the drawbridge of fellowship made to sound so freshly and radically faithful. We should remember that castles imprison as well as they protect. Therefore, exclude not, lest ye be excluded.

 

As your pastor, I want you to know that, regardless of your theological views or particular interpretation of scripture, there is a place here at First Presbyterian Church for you. None of us has exclusive access to the truth. We are all called, equipped and sent by a God who depends upon us to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ the best way we know how, which is to struggle together in faith, to listen as much as we speak and to live the love of Jesus Christ for all to see.

This is my denomination. I'm not going to turn my back on it simply because I don't see eye to eye with other Presbyterians on every issue.

 

I hope you won't, either. 

 

John's signature

          If you ask Nolan Waller, he might tell you about the time he hiked deep into the woods at Camp Hopewell to offer me a job as Director of Christian Education for First Presbyterian Church, Oxford. I didn't know much about being a DCE, but the good and patient members of this congregation offered excellent on-the-job training. At the time, the church was beginning the search process for an associate pastor and mine was a temporary position. I saw it as an opportunity to take a break from school and figure out what God wanted me to do with my life. There were some pivotal moments during those 18 months that helped me begin to discern a call to ordained ministry and I am eternally grateful to this congregation for taking a risk on an inexperienced college kid.

        Well...I'm back! No one from the Personnel Ministry Team hiked out into the wilderness to offer me the position, but the story of how I came to be here is definitely one that only God could have imagined. I've come with a few more years of experience both in life and in ministry. While I don't have a much experience in interim ministry, I do want to address some questions and misconceptions that stem from that word "interim." First of all, I am here full-time. I am not dividing my time between the church and Camp Hopewell, nor have I taken a leave of absence to help out at the church. Secondly, some of you have asked when and if we can make this a permanent relationship. While our new form of government offers lots of options for the future of this relationship, let's just slow down and take a deep breath. You have just said goodbye to an associate pastor. I have just begun to actively seek God's new direction for me. An interim period is a time of discernment. Let's take our time and see where God leads the congregation of First Presbyterian Church, Oxford, and the Kelly family. For now, I assure you that I am where I feel called to be. I look forward to getting to know you and doing ministry alongside you in the days ahead. Thank you for your warm welcome. It's good to be back.

 

Blessings & peace,

Worship

Lectionary Texts for February

February 5 - Isaiah 40:21-31; Psalm 147:1-11, 20c; 1 Corinthians 9:16-23; Mark 1:29-39

February 12 - 2 Kings 5:1-14; Psalm 30; 1 Corinthians 9:24-27; Mark 1:40-45

February 19 - 2 Kings 2:1-12; Psalm 50:1-6; 2 Corinthians 4:3-6; Mark 9:2-9

February 26 - Genesis 9:8-17; Psalm 25:1-10; 1 Peter 3:18-22; Mark 1:9-15

 

 

  

Worship Schedule

8:30 am Worship (communion)

9:30 am Fellowship

9:45 am Sunday School

11:00 am Worship 

 

Summary of the Stated Session Meeting - January 9, 2012 

The Session of First Presbyterian Church met on Monday, January 9, 2012, at 5:30 pm in the Session Room. Fourteen Elders were present.

 

The Moderator read from Philippians 2 and Listening to your Life by Frederick Buechner.

 

The following minutes were approved as amended: Stated Meeting December 12, 2011.

 

The Session heard and approved the following request: Wedding of Aaron Barrett and Kendyl Mygatt, October 20, 2012.

 

Order of the Day - Election of Clerk: Motion was made to elect Jennifer Watts clerk of the Session; Elected by acclamation.

 

Ministry Team reports are, as follows:

 

Personnel:

2011Christmas giving for the church staff totaled approximately $4,000.

 

Finance:

The preliminary 2011 year-end report was reviewed. Elder Ray noted that pledges are down from last year with 157 pledges this year while 184 pledges were received last year; however, pledges are still being received and Finance projects $700,000 in pledges for 2012. The Capital Fund Committee will meet with RSI representative Joel Mikell on January 25, 2012.

 

Worship:

The 2012 summer worship schedule was discussed. From May 27, 2012, to August 5, 2012, there will be one worship service, at 10:00 a.m. Lunch will be served on June 3, June 10, June 17, June 24, July 22, July 29, and August 5. There will be one service on Labor Day weekend, September 2, 2012.

 

Amended Motion made and passed unanimously to approve a distance variance waiver regarding alcohol sales between First Presbyterian Church and Taylor's Pub consistent with a prior variance given to Petra which stops at existing structure.

 

Motion to expand the co-op nursery by use of the FPC 3-4 year old room was unanimously approved.

 

Amended Motion to set aside up to $8,000 for the use of the anniversary committee was unanimously approved.

 

Motion to budget $500.00 in the 2012 operating budget for Matt Bowman was unanimously approved.

 

2012 Presbytery dates are February 7th at Greenwood Presbyterian Church, May 1st, and October 2nd at Camp Hopewell. Elders Ann DeVoe and Ben Pettis will serve as Presbytery representatives for 2012.

 

Reverend Jonathan Scanlon was thanked for his service to First Presbyterian Church.

 

The next Stated Session meeting will be February 13, 2012, at 5:30 pm in the Session Room.

Clcik on the link below to view the Finance Update:

February Financial Statement

Mission News

Empty Bowls Fundraiser

to benefit Oxford Food Panty

Thursday, Feb. 9

11 am - 1:00 pm

O-U United Methodist Church

Your $15 donation includes soup,

bread, water and a ceramic bowl

made by a local artist.

  

The Pantry is presently serving 70 homebound clients and needs volunteer substitutes to deliver groceries on the second Tuesday of the month in the afternoon. Please call Ann O'Dell for more information or to volunteer your time at 234-2907.

 

Mark your calendar for the annual Run for Hope, benefiting Camp Hopewell and the Camp for Children and Youth with Diabetes on Saturday, February 25. You can register by going to www.oxfordrun4hope.comor contact Allyson Ashmore or Lynn Sloan for more information or to sign up as a volunteer.  

Christian Education
Adult Sunday School Continues in February

Adult Bible Study - Conference Room 101, Sanctuary Building, led by Hale Freeland. The class is studying "Questions posed to us by Christ."
 
Alton Bryant Class - Fellowship Hall Parlor, led by Nolan Waller. The class uses The Present Word curriculum, and will study wisdom literature in the Bible (Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, etc.).
 
Men's Bible Class - Session Room, Sanctuary Building, 2nd floor, led by Max Williams. Their study will be Journey through the Bible: (Exodus - Deuteronomy).
 
Men's Class II - Conference Room 102, Sanctuary Building, led by Trey Byars and John Abernathy. They continue to study Luke for Everyone.
 
2, 3, 4s (for young adults in their 20s, 30s and 40s) - Beanland Room, Education Building, 1st floor. They use the Feasting on the Word curriculum which follows the lectionary.
 
The Wired Word - Fellowship Hall, led by John Semmes. Each week, the class considers a news event from a Christian perspective.
 
Women of Faith - Annex Building, led by Kathryn Elliott and Ann DeVoe. This class studies books related to building faith and the spiritual life.
Children's and PYF News
 
"Follow the Leader" is the theme for the annual PYC retreats this winter. The Jr. High retreat is February 17-19 and the Sr. High retreat is March 2-4. Registration forms have been sent to the youth families, but if you have not received one yet, extra forms are available in the church office. The fee is only $60 for the entire weekend and completed forms and monies must be returned to the church office. If you have any further questions about the retreat please feel free to contact me.

Daniel Howie
Et cetera...

 

New Member Class Just Weeks Away!
 

If you would like to join our family of faith, or are seriously considering doing so, a new member class will be held Sunday, March 18 from 3:00-6:00 pm in Fellowship Hall. Childcare is available upon request.

 

Circles for FebruaryPresbyterian Women Logo

 

Alma Shaw Circle will meet Tuesday, February 21 at 9:45 am.

Louise Sneed, 200 O'Hara Drive

 

Barbara Conlee Mize Circle will meet Tuesday, February 14 at 6:30 pm.

 

Carroll Barr Circle will meet Tuesday, February 21 at 7:00 pm.

Dorothy Lou Aldridge, 132 Lakeway

 

Gerry Duvall Circle will meet Tuesday, February 21 at noon in Fellowship Hall.

 

Lula Gregory Circle will meet Tuesday, February 21 at 9:45 am.

Linda Jennings, 6242 Charleston Court

 

Marjorie Lewis Circle will meet Monday, February 20 at 2:30 pm in Fellowship Hall.

 

The PW Coordinating Team will meet Tuesday, February 28 at 1:00 pm in the Parlor.

  

Prayer Shawl Ministry

Monday, February 6 at 1:00 pm

Conference Room 101

  

FPC Book Club

Tuesday, February 14 at 1:30 pm

Conference Room 101

This month's book is, Lanterns on the Levee

by William Alexander

 

Wednesdays Together

Begins February 29

5:30 - Dinner

6:15 - Programming

 

We extend sympathy to:

 

Justin Cluck, whose father, Dale Cluck, died January 15, 2012.

 

Art Smith, whose aunt, Marguerite Webb, died January 19, 2012.

 

Bette Butler, Monte Wood and Jerry Wood, whose sister-in-law, Suzanne Wood, died January 23, 2012. 


Memorials and Honoraria

~ with gratitude for contributions to First Presbyterian Church ~

 
           
           

 

 

In Memory Of:

 

 

 

Nellie P. Hollowell

Stan Partridge

 

Fannie Elliott

J. J. Jones

Ed Kelley

Fannie Elliott

Fannie Elliott

Virginia McMurray

Dorothy Adele Orr King

Fannie Elliott

Fannie Elliott

Anna Dell Pettit

Rosalie Bryant Neilson

Jean and Richard Robertson

Fannie Elliott

J. J. Jones

Lamar Bullard

Fannie Elliott

Fannie Elliott

Rena Everett

Emma Curry

Mary Kay and Les McDowell

Fannie Elliott

Nila and Max Williams

Tommy Elliott

Skip Gleason

Fannie Elliott

Linda Partridge

H. M. Ray

Mickey Hayward

Fannie Elliott

Linda Partridge

Annie Mae Smith

Fannie Elliott

Fannie Elliott

Bill Russell

Fannie Elliott

 


 


 News from the Pews

 

February Member Birthdays & Anniversaries

Birthdays

1 -  Jimmy Treloar

2 -  Luke Westmoreland

3 -  Gail Hercules

4 -  William Elliott, Tommy Smith, Annie Grace White, Kate Embry

6 -  Michael Abraham, Joan Westmoreland, Elizabeth Sherman

7 -  Cynthia Freeland, Ann Dickins, John Callery

8 -  Trey Byars, Roy Selvidge, Sr., Jim Jetton

9 -  Carolyn Hopkins, Keith Mansel

10 - Bob Pekala, Hayden Williams

11 - Spencer Huggins, Donna Ruth Roberts

12 - Darren Ashmore, Maxine Blackburn

13 - Michael Blackburn, Kylea Boutwell, Vicki Stevens

17 - Tad Wilkes

18 - Catherine Field, Nancy Bass, Leslie Orrell

19 - Shirley Crawford, Jennifer Parker, Angela Manley

20 - Will Lewis

22 - Tim Angle, Tom Lindley, Max Hill

23 - Joel Weems, John Hartwell

24 - Sallie Abernathy, Bryan McCartney, Anne Rogers

25 - Lyon Chadwick, Katherine Estes, Ralph White, Keith Boran, Mary Williams, Radford Walker

26 - Riley Mullen

27 - Barry Rose

28 - Sean McCurdy, Sara Beth Hobbs

 

Anniversaries

February 4 -   Kathy and John Neff

February 15 - Gale and Richard Gurner

February 17 - Patsy and Jay Eads

February 20 - Debbie and Ken Boutwell


 

Each month in our FPC newsletter, we will enjoy special celebratory words from members of our church.  Some writers will be children; others may be members who are 6th and 7th generation FPC family; and others may be members who share their thoughts about our church. 
 

A FLASH OF HISTORY...AND WHAT IS A SESSION ANYWAY?

 

                                    by Carole Haney, Anniversary Chair

  

          As we approach the 175th birthday celebrations on July 14-15, 2012, I thought I would share a few excerpts directly recorded from the early history of our church. These are recorded in a booklet entitled "The History of the First Presbyterian Church of Oxford, Mississippi" by Maud Morrow Brown (1952). The following is taken directly from her book and, in many cases directly from Session documentation.

 

          "Lafayette County, Mississippi, was a part of the Chickasaw Cession of 1834 and was organized as a county in February, 1836. Under the terms of the treaty certain of the lands involved were granted by letters patent from the United States Government to individual Indians. Section 21 was thus grated to Ho-Ka, an Indian woman. In June, 1836, Ho-Ka sold this land to Messrs. Chisolm, Martin, and Craig for $800.00. In July of that year these three men sold '50 acres more or less' of this section 21 to the Board of Police of Lafayette county 'as a place on which to locate a seat of justice.' This 'seat of justice' was soon the town of Oxford.

 

          "In this town one year later, on July 15, 1837, a group gathered in a carpenter's shop to organize a Presbyterian church.

 

          "The following account is copied from the first session book:

                   'Oxford, Lafayette County, Mississippi, July 15th, 1837. Agreeably to a Notice previously given a meeting was held in this place on Saturday the 15th day of July, A.D. 1837, for the purpose of organizing a Presbyterian church.

 

                   Preachers Present:

                             Rev'd. Daniel L. Gray

                             Rev'd. Samuel Hurd

                             Rev'd. Jesse Stratton

                             Rev'd. Thos. Davis

 

          "A sermon was delivered by Mr. Gray from 1st Kings, 18th Chapter 21st verse, 'How long halt ye between two opinions?'

         

          "The Confession of Faith being explained by Mr. Gray a call was then made for those who had been members previously of the Presbyterian church elsewhere to come forward that they might be recognized and have their names recorded as members....'"

 

          It was then noted that after some "practical remarks" by the Rev. D. L. Gray on the duties and necessities of Elders in the church, the members elected five Ruling Elders "almost unanimously."

 

          Continuing in the spring, 1838, it was noted, "In accordance with the ...direction of the session, Mr. Craig provided the little leather bound book in which the proceedings of the session, written with a quill pen in ink now faded, are recorded through April 15, 1878. It contains also the approval with some reservations of the Presbyteries to which it was submitted.

 

          "Since this history is based for the most part on sessional records, it may not be inappropriate to pause here a moment to speak of the session. The history of Presbyterian churches is largely determined by the character of their ruling elders. Pastors come and go, their influence waxes and wanes, but the session is an abiding factor....The character and personality of the group, their weight and influence in the community must be noted in any study of the church history.   

 

          "The first group who were elected were pioneer settlers in the little community, and the group was, as it has been ever since, made up of men of varying training and gifts. The arrival of the State University in the community gave assurance that from that time on there would continue to be in the session men of high intellectual training such as there had already been from the first. Associated with these, however, there were always also simple men of gentle spirit and a godliness and purity of life that daily left its impress on the community. Firmness and decision of character, fearlessness and aggressiveness when needed for the kingdom of God have been always notable. The writer has often thought, as from her early childhood she has seen the elders gather for the Lord's supper, that surely nowhere in the world could a group be assembled with more firmness written in their faces. Yet she has seen Col. Barr with his arm around Annie Fulton Hume when she, at five years old, would leave her parents to sit with him in church-but she had to behave! She has seen Dr. Isom wiping his eyes as he turned from the death bed of an old friend--, 'I'm her doctor and I can't do any more!' and Dr. Chandler gentle as a woman with a sick, fractious child. She has seen the long line of boys that Mr. Edgar Kimmons helped to education by caring for them in his own home where surely they got more value from his sweetness of spirit, fearlessness in pursuit of his duty, and blameless life than the University could ever give them. She has known Dr. Somerville with his mind and heart and hand always open to work for God. She calls no names of those still living but the torch is still aflame.

 

          "The influence of the session of this church on the pastors of the church is also not to be forgotten. The high spiritual ideals of the elders left their imprint on those who came to the pulpit. No man who was consecrated to the things of the spirit could fail to be uplifted and inspired by these contacts. Hence it has often happened that a young preacher who has come to the pastorate eager for organization and enlargement in material development in the church has gone away burning with zeal not only for these but for spiritual growth first of all.

 

          "And now we return to the records of these men in their dealings with the business of their King. This was mostly of three kinds as recorded in the early books: the reception or dismissal of members, the election of representatives to Presbytery or Synod, and the handling of discipline. The first of these is found in this history in the roll of members...; the second belongs rather to the history of Presbytery or Synod than to that of this church; the third forms an interesting phase in the development of the church but hardly needs a really detailed treatment in this history.

 

          "The record shows discipline enforced for various offenses: striking a man; profanity on the public square; intemperate use of intoxicating liquors; endeavoring to contract matrimonial alliances when a wife was living in Ohio; dancing or allowing the children to dance; absence without just cause from public worship.

 

          "The elders took their office seriously and frequently in greatly vexed questions asked elders from neighboring churches to sit with them. They often voted to admonish offenders and to try to bring them to penitence and to a resolve to abstain from offense in the future. In many cases the admonition brought the desired result and the case was closed; if however the offense had been flagrant and public, due announcement was made from the pulpit of the penitence of the offender.

 

          "Nor did the session spare themselves. Several instances are recorded in which one of the elders himself confessed to his brethren some failure on his part and his sorrow for it. Stern probity and righteousness were their ideals and they considered their office as shepherds of the flock a sacred trust to be tempered by mercy and patience toward the erring. No consideration, however, was allowed to out-weigh what they thought was best for the 'good name and standing of our beloved church.'"

 

          And so we have some recordings from the earliest history of our "beloved church"...175 years strong.

  

 _________________________

 

 

Youth contributions:

"Our church has been another home for me since we moved here. I love everybody here and I am so glad I have such a loving church."     Sophie Semmes

 

"First Presbyterian Church is like a second home to me. I love this church and would never change churches."                                                     Anonymous

 

"The Church has been my life every since I became close to everyone. They are like my second family. I don't know what I would do without the church."

                                                                                                Alli Hayward

 

FIRST DATES:

Men of the Church meet Tuesdays at 6:45 am for breakfast.

The Diaconate will meet Wednesday, February 8.

Piecemakers meet Wednesdays at 9:00 am and Saturday, February 11 at 1:00 pm in Fellowship Hall.

The Session will meet Monday, February 13 at 5:30 pm in the Session Room.

The Book Club will meet Tuesday, Feb. 14 at 1:30 pm in Conference Room 101.

This month's book is Lanterns on the Levee, by William Alexander.

The Grief Support Group will meet Tuesday, February 28 at 10:00 am at the home of Fannie Elliott.