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Note From Dineen
Note From Lynn
Small Groups!
The Soul Saver

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Greetings!

 

God is doing some pretty cool stuff in the S.U.M. ministry. Many of you are reading this newsletter for the very first time. We want to welcome you to this amazing community of believers who are standing for their marriages and trusting God for the salvation of their unbelieving spouse.

 

We so wish you could see the perspective from our side and perhaps you do, because what Lynn and I are seeing just blows us away. 

 

God is getting the word out. The spiritually mismatched are being called to come out and find hope, strength and encouragement with others walking the same journey. We are no longer delegated to the shadows. And as we are stepping out, we're discovering that there are so many more of us out there than we realized.

 

In fact, I just found out there are more mismatched men than women in my own home church. God is even calling to the hearts of men to speak out and share their journey, because His message to all of us is universal.

 

"You are not alone."

 

You see, God never does anything small. He's a God of the big stuff, the impossible stuff. He likes to show up and show off! Why? Because He loves us so much, completely understands our ache over our unbelievers (He felt it so keenly, He sent His Son Jesus!), and wants to provide for our every need.

 

Just like it says in Philippians 4:19: And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.

 
God's desire is to meet our needs and help us realize a faith and marriage that thrives. Are you ready to let Him take the lead?

 

Standing with you!
Dineen & Lynn 

 

A Note From Dineen

 Dineen 

 

We Are Called!

 

She stood on my doorstep, wearing her red Teen Challenge poncho and a matching notebook in her hand. This young woman honestly shared that she used to do meth and had lost her little boy. She and her husband joined Teen Challenge together and she now has her son back.

 

I asked about her husband. She said he left the program.

 

The amazing thing here (besides that fact that Christ helped this young mom turn her life around and get her family back) is that I'd only returned home fifteen minutes prior from a morning event at my church.

 

The women's ministry had planned a "Meet the Author" event. I'd agreed a bit reluctantly to do this because I didn't want it to be about me. That morning blessed me beyond belief because I discovered these dear women wanted to support and encourage me in this writing and ministry journey. They were delighted to share it with me! What a blessing.

 

So, I had the privilege of spending my morning talking about our book and ministry and now, here stood this dear young woman who most likely walked the path of being spiritually mismatched.

 

This ministry I love so dearly now stood on my doorstep. God whispered to my heart to donate my tithe from my book sales that morning to this organization that I also am very happy to support whenever I can. And to give this precious Christian woman a copy of our book. I committed to pray for her that week and gave her a hug.

 

I had tears in my eyes as did she. That was no accident that we met. No, that was God's divine timing to bring encouragement to one and a reminder to another (me!) that we just never know when God will call us into action.

 

At church, our neighborhood, our doorsteps. And especially in our own homes.

 

We forget so often that our first place to serve is at home. I think this is especially true for us who are spiritually mismatched. At times we feel like our service to God is limited and we fall into this lie of thinking that if our spouse just believed, we could do so much more. But God has already called us to a very critical place of service in His kingdom.

 

Your own home.

 

If your spouse has rejected God, you are the closest influence of Christ to him or her. If you have children, they need to see their believing parent living their faith everyday to understand Who God is and how He works in our lives. There are lost souls right under your roof that God is calling you to be the aroma and presence of Christ to (2 Cor 2:14-16).

 

You are already a missionary in action. God has called you to a very special and unique place. Seek Him for guidance in how to serve in that place and embrace this calling as a unique blessing to help another find reconciliation with God (2 Cor. 5:19). 

 

Praying and believing,

Dineen

 

 

A Note From Lynn
Lynn 
 
Don't Forget the Resources!
 
We just want to make sure our new readers are up to speed on all the freebies we have available on our WinningHimWithoutWords.com site. We have a Resources page set up just for your use.
 
There are free downloads about praying for your marriage, praying for your husband, power Scriptures for marriage, romance, and words of affirmation.
 
There are teaching videos about dealing with conflict, raising kids in a SUM, taking kids to church, and handling media choices in the home.
 
All these materials are there for you to use. Please take advantage of these resources. That's what they're there for!

Hugs!
Lynn 

 

 

Children In Church

  

A little boy was attending his first wedding.
After the service, his cousin asked him,
"How many women can a man marry?"
"Sixteen," the boy responded.
His cousin was amazed that he had an answer so quickly.
"How do you know that?"
"Easy," the little boy said.
"All you have to do is add it up, like the pastor said,
4 better, 4 worse, 4 richer, 4 poorer."

 

More Small Groups are Forming!

Looking for a small group in your area? Go HERE to see what's available near you.

OR, how about starting a small group of your own? Pray about it and seek God first. If He's leading you in that direction, contact us and we'll tell you how to get started and send you the materials to do it! 

And a big SHOUT OUT!!! to all our small group leaders: Cindi Valli, Sue Conklin, Martha Bush, Jen Day, Liz Rench and Christine Write. We absolutely adore these dear sisters in Christ and their hearts to bring hope to others in mismatched marriages. 

 

The Soul Saver has Arrived!
 
I just found out The Soul Saver is already available! I'm so excited about this book for our community because it's Lexie Baltimore's story about fighting a supernatural battle to save her marriage and her husband's soul. 
 
I put something very special in this book just for you, so tune in to our blog starting April 30th for that unveiling and a very special interview with Lexie too! And I'll be sharing the story behind this story, of how God put this story on my heart to write and how close I came to giving up.
 
And finally, I will be giving away a copy of The Soul Saver with each post so be sure to stop by and leave a comment for a chance to read Lexie's story. 
Hugs!
Dineen 

 

From Lynn & Dineen

 

 

Thrive in love!

 

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