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Dear ,
Note of Caution: In an effort not to sensationalize these events, GLSEN
is refraining from posting this statement to our social networking
sites, including Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, etc. We ask that you please
take the same caution to reduce the risk of future tragedies.
Recently, there has been heightened media attention surrounding the
suicides in New Jersey, Texas, California, Indiana, and Minnesota of
several youth who were known to be bullied relentlessly because of their
actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity.
These horrific stories across the country reflect on school bullying
culture and how it can lead to tragedy. Such cases are not new, but
actually do reveal an important trend: the public is becoming more
informed and in tune to the realities that adversely affect our youth. However, it is now up to the public to not just be aware, but to be
active in changing this reality.
Groups like the Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN),
Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), and The Trevor Project have been working to educate the public on this issue,
and, more importantly create ways for us to put an end to these tragedies. Through policy efforts to pass legislation like the Safe Schools Improvement Act (HR2262 and S3739), the Claim Your Rights
campaign, designed to encourage data collection on incidents that can
lead to effective laws, and grassroots programs like suicide helplines
such as the Trevor Lifeline - which received more than 29,000 calls from
youth looking for help in 2009 alone, safe schools educational
opportunities for teachers and school personnel, and support for
students themselves in Gay-Straight Alliances (GSAs) these three groups
are offering a 360-degree approach changing the culture of bullying that
is connected to many of these youth suicides. The end to bullying and creating a culture of respect for all isn't a
one-step or one-sided effort. It is critical that concerned friends,
family and community members know they have the power to take action to
help at-risk youth right now. Studies show that when a young lesbian,
gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning (LGBTQ) person knows there is
an affirming teacher, school nurse, clergy member or parent they can
trust, they are much more likely to turn to them for help when they are
bullied or depressed. Similarly, when a school or community has a
Gay-Straight Alliance or other affirming and accepting group, young
people are less likely to feel isolated and can turn to peers and
faculty advisors when they need help. Knowing the warning signs and how
to help someone who is suicidal are also key to preventing a suicide
crisis.
The horrible instances of school bullying that have led young people to
take their own lives reflect the growing need for a change in our
culture to value the differences of our youth. That cultural shift must
begin now, in communities, schools, and at home by recognizing and
addressing the needs of LGBTQ youth, and letting them know they are not
alone. It is now up to all of us to make sure it happens.
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RESOURCES
In Crisis If you or someone you know is in crisis and is considering suicide call
the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or the
Trevor Lifeline at 1-866-488-7386.
Suicide Prevention The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) is the
leading national not-for-profit organization exclusively dedicated to
understanding and preventing suicide through research, education and
advocacy, and to reaching out to people with mental disorders and those
impacted by suicide.
The Trevor Project is the national provider of life saving resources to LGBTQ youth and their families.
The National Association of School Psychologists represents
school psychology and supports school psychologists to enhance the
learning and mental health of all children and youth.
Media and Suicide Research indicates that the way suicide is reported in the media can
contribute to additional suicides and suicide attempts. The following
resources provide guidelines on how to talk about the issue in an
effective and responsible manner.
Dealing with Bullying and Harassment GLSEN, The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network strives to assure
that each member of every school community is valued and respected
regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression.
Safe Schools Improvement Act
The current House version of the SSIA (H.R. 2262) has 120 bipartisan cosponsors, including three subcommittee leaders. Learn more about the House bill. The current Senate version of the SSIA (S. 3739) has 12 cosponsors on the first ever version of SSIA in the Senate. Learn more about the Senate bill. |
| The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network strives to assure that each member of every school community is valued and respected regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. | |
| Please Note: This electonic message from GLSEN Connecticut contains information and opinions deemed relevant to ending anti-LGBT bias in schools and other items which may be of interest to the LBGT community and its valued allies. Not all opinions expressed are those of GLSEN Connecticut. | |
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