Possibilities Newsletter
February 2008
In This Issue
Online Writing Course
Quote, podcast, research and handout of the month
Book Writing and Publishing Boot Camp
Bill's speaking schedule
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Greetings!

Welcome to another of my monthly newsletters. As usual, if you find this isn't worth your time or is unwanted, please immediately go to the bottom and click the unsubscribe option. You will be taken off the list and I offer my apologies in advance for the unwanted intrusion. We are all busy enough and get enough emails and I don't want to add to that burden for you.

As you will see when you read my selection for Book of the Year, I am excited about brain plasticity. This is the relatively recent discovery that human brains are very adaptable. After reading the book I will discuss below, I have been doing two new things. One is that I am learning a new left-handed technique in playing piano. I am self-taught and had developed a relatively simple left-handed method, but it was holding me back. I have tried to change it, but it is hard. I read that for a time after exercising, the brain is more available for new learnings and pasticity, and that one has to persist for about six weeks past the initial resistance because the brain gets grooved into the old pattern. Barely a week and a half later, my left hand is getting more adept at the new pattern, much faster than I expected. Another new habit I have instituted is writing in cursive, a skill I learned back in Catholic grade school, but which has all but disappeared from my abilities due to computers. My brain already feels more flexible and I feel sharper. Cool stuff.

I have been reading about the significant number of Iraq war vets who are killing themselves. Moved to do something that might help even one of these vets who are suffering from trauma, I created some short videos about dealing with and getting over trauma and posted them on YouTube. Please let anyone you know who could benefit from them know about them (and rate them if you like them so they will rise to the top when people are searching for the subject of trauma). Visit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkmOg1iCD3Y. You'll see two more of these trauma videos of mine in the panel on the right.
-Bill
Quote, Funny Podcast, Cool Research and Handout of the Month

Quote of the Month: "The stars would love to influence your future but they are powerless against your well-established patterns of behavior." -Horoscope in The Onion


Funny Podcast of the Month: Ask a Ninja (askaninja.com or through iTunes). Two guys with a video camera and an Apple computer decide to create a video podcast in their NYC apartment. Looking for a hook, they get a ninja costume and the rest is history. I laugh and am amazed at every episode. Ninjas rule! (I am ninja, he is ninja, she is ninja too . . . I hear that theme song quite regularly in my head now ater watching a bunch of episodes in a row).

Cool Research of the Month: Shifting perceptions as weight-loss and fitness strategy

Alia Crum and Ellen Langer from the Harvard Psychology department did an experiment in which they matched two groups of hotel room cleaners (84 subjects spread across seven hotels). These housekeepers get many hours of exercise per day (cleaning on average 15 rooms per day, each taking 20-30 minutes to clean; they are pressured to finish the cleaning task quickly), but do not typically think of themselves as doing exercise. The experimenters told the cleaners from four hotels that they were getting the amount of exercise the surgeon general recommends to maintain a healthy lifestyle and the ones from the other hotels were not told anything. When the researchers returned to measure the results a mere four weeks later, they found that the women who had been told they were exercising enough had lost an average of two pounds, that their blood pressure was almost 10% lower as a group and that they were significantly healthier in measures of body fat percentage, body mass index, and waist-to-hip ratio. No such changes were noted in the control group. It's not clear whether the housekeepers who were told they were exercising enough instituted other changes that facilitated the healthier outcomes or those results were mainly due to a shift in perception. In any case, that is an amazing result for such a short follow-up.

Source: Crum, A. & Langer, E. (2007) "Mindset Matters: Exercise as a Placebo," Psychological Science, 18, 2.


Handout of the Month:
As usual, you have my permission to copy this handout and distribute it. If you want to  use it in commercial activities (i.e., anything from which you make money), contact me for special permission.

What You Attend to Typically Expands in Your Life
Bill O'Hanlon, M.S., Possibilities, 223 N. Guadalupe #278, Santa Fe, NM 87501
PossiBill@aol.com, www.billohanlon.com


This era has been called "The Age of Attention," since so many things are vying for our attention (television, radio, the Internet, video games, movies, family, work, etc.). Your attention can be a powerful force and it behooves you to manage it wisely. Where you put your attention often expands that area in your awareness and in your life.

Many years ago, there was a rumor going around in a certain Western state that there was some pollutant in the air that was causing pockmarks on car windhsields. A panic set in and investigations were begun. The investigators measured pckmarks on windhields in the state in which the rumors were rampant and in a state with a similar climate and level of pollution in which there was no concern. They found the exact same number of packmarks per square inch in both states. The difference was that once people heard the rumor, they noticed the pockmarks for the first time or they noticed them much more. This same phenomenon can be used in a positive way in your life.

Find a focus
Decide an area of your life you would like to have expand. It might be more exercise, better eating, more time with your family, more leisure time, more creative work, more reading, being more responsible about spending money or something else entirely.

Record activity or attention to that area
Get a little notebook and carry it around with you for a week or two. Whenever you get a chance, as soon as possible after you notice it, write down anything you have done related to that area. If you have to wait until evening to jot it down, do that. At the end of the week, notice whether this area has expanded in your life.

Add a small amount each day to this area
Commit to spending as little as five minutes each day doing something related to this area. Commit to doing this for small time periods, such as a week or two. You can always continue it if it is working, but commiting to too long a time period may be a set up for failure.

In spare moments, think about this area
While waiting for an appointment, while riding the bus or subway to work, while waiting for the bath to fill, while waiting for the kids to get bundled up and into the car, use these moments to focus briefly on what you would like to do or have done in this area.
Book Writing and Publishing Boot Camp: Spaces available
Bill and his books

I have just started writing my 29th book. By now, I have figured out how to get myself to write, to write well (and fast) and to get my books published. I like helping others to bypass the years of mistakes and frustrations I experienced learning all that and have coached others to get published and get advances as high as $100,000 for their first book. So, if you are having trouble getting yourself to write that book you know you need to, or you want to know how to get it published, consider coming to my Boot Camp, where I'll give you everything you need to get your book written and sold. There are still seven spaces available for the March 3-7, 2008 Writing and Publishing Boot Camp. I probably won't be offering another one of these until later in 2009 (perhaps the fall), so if this is for you . . .

To learn more, visit: www.getyourbookwritten.com/publishingcourse/SantaFe.html
My First Audiobook
Lazy Man's Guide cover image
For years people have been asking me if there were any audio versions of any of my books. Now there is. My first audio book has just been completed (hot off the presses; or should I say hot off the digital recorder?) You can listen to it on your computer, create a CD to listen to in your car or CD player or listen to it on your iPod. Such a deal at $15.

Buy audio download of Lazy Man's Guide to Success
 
Bill O'Hanlon workshop schedule
223 N. Guadalupe #278, Santa Fe, NM 87501 USA;
PossiBill@aol.com; www.billohanlon.com
Instructions for reading this itinerary: Under the month you will find the date(s) of each workshop, the title and location of the workshop. On the second line is the sponsor's name and contact information. If you are interested in attending a particular workshop, please contact the sponsor of that workshop for a brochure or to register. Thank you!

February 2008
15-Metaphors Be With You: Using Stories, Rituals, Analogies and Other Metaphorical Methods in Changework; San Diego, CA
Alliant University, San Diego, CA, ED1Desk@yahoo.com

18-22-Dissolving Resistance: Effectively Handling Hostile, Resistant and Demanding Clients; Marco Island, FL
New England Educational Institute, 92 Elm St., Pittsfield, MA 01201, educate@neei.org; www.neei.org

March 2008
3-7-Book Writing and Publishing Boot Camp; Santa Fe, NM [7 spaces available]
Possibilities,see details at http://www.getyourbookwritten.com/publishingcourse/SantaFe.html
13-The Secrets of Successful Public Speaking (Creativity Day seminar); Psychotherapy Networker Symposium;  Washington, DC
14-Getting Clear About Spirituality in Therapy, Parts 1 &2; Psychotherapy Networker Symposium; Washington, DC
16-Diversifying Your Worklife: How to Publish Your Book and Get on the Circuit; Psychotherapy Networker Symposium; Washington, DC
Psychotherapy Network, 5135 MacArthur Blvd., N.W., Washington, DC 20016; www.psychotherapynetworker.org; info@PsychNetworker.org
27-Post-Traumatic Success: Recovery from Life's Traumas and Tragedies; Amarillo, TX
Eric C. Wallace, Amarillo College, wallace-ec@actx.edu
28-[Short sessions] Dissolving resistance and ambivalence with your most challenging clients; Motivation 101: Never try to teach a pig to sing; Creative ways to contain and decrease resistance; Las Vegas, NV
Richard Fields, US Journal Training, 3201 SW 15th St. Deerfield Beach, FL 33442, http://www.usjt.com/

April 2008
3-Dissolving resistance with your most challenging clients; Chicago, IL
Illiinois Mental Health Counselor's Association, P.O. Box 706, Dekalb, IL 60115; imhca@imhca.org; www.imhca.org
8-Using Positive Psychology in Changework; Change 101: The seven ways occurs in therapy and life; Thriving Through Crisis:  Turning Post-Traumatic Stress into Post-Traumatic Success; Santa Fe, NM
Dan Barmettler, MA, Institute for Integral Development, P.O. Box 2172, Colorado Springs, CO 80901, www.institutefortraining.com; iidevo@aol.com
10-Dealing Effectively with Your Most Challenging Clients; Richmond, VA
Henry Morris Ph.D, hemorris@verizon.net; Richmond Chapter of the Virginia Society for Clinical Social Work and the VCU School of Social Work
11-Resolving Trauma Without Drama; Virginia Beach, VA
Ed Hendrickson, VAMFT,1109 N. Howard St., Alexandria, VA 22304,  edhendrickson@comcast.net
18-Resolving Trauma Without Drama; St. Louis, MO
Bill Bumberry, St. John's Mercy Medical Center, 615 S. New Ballas Rd., St. Louis, MO 63141, billbumberry@charter.net

May 2008
8/9-The Science of Happiness: Using Positive Psychology Research In Psychotherapy and Changework; LONDON, ENGLAND
The Brief Therapy Practice, solutions@brieftherapy.org.uk
10-Geography of Possibilities; BARCELONA, SPAIN

11-From Positive Psychology to Practical Interventions+ Meetings with a Remarkable Man-Milton H. Erickson, M.D.; BARCELONA, SPAIN
Carlos Vergara, hazalgodistinto@gmail.com; http://www.posibilidades.info/
28-Topic to be arranged; Los Angeles, CA
Writer's Digest/Book Expo America conference; Greg Hatfield, Greg.Hatfield@fwpubs.com, F+W Publications, 4700 East Galbraith Road, Cincinnati, OH 45236, (513) 531-2690, Ext. 1393, www.fwpublications.com
29-The Seven Ways People Change in Therapy and Life; Inclusive Therapy: A simple and powerful method of dissolving resistance in clients; Brief Therapy as a spiritual method; Seattle, WA; Seattle, WA

Dan Barmettler, MA, Institute for Integral Development, P.O. Box 2172, Colorado Springs, CO 80901, www.institutefortraining.com; iidevo@aol.com

June 2008
9/10-Positive Psychology: Practical Applications in Clinical Work; MONTERREY, MEXICO

M.C. Mónica González, Cuerpo Académico en Psicología Social, Facultad de Psicología, Universidad Autónoma de Nuevo León; monygzz77@yahoo.com
18-22-Hypnosis Small Group Intensive; Truchas, NM [One space available]
Carol Kennedy, carol_kennedy@ml.com


August 2008
11-15-Positive Psychology: Practical Applications in Clinical Work, Cape Cod, MA
New England Educational Institute, 92 Elm St., Pittsfield, MA 01201, educate@neei.org; www.neei.org

September 2008
5-The Science of Happiness: Using Positive Psychology Research In Psychotherapy and Changework ; San Diego, CA (American Psychotherapy Association Annual Conference)
American Psychotherapy Association, 2750 E. Sunshine, Springfield, MO 68504, 800.423.9737, conference@americanpsychotherapy.com, www.americanpsychotherapy.com


My Favorite Book of the Year (so far)
The Brain That Changes Itself by Norman Doidge, M.D. (Penguin)
I know it's early in the year for making such a determination, but boy this was a great book. This is a non-fiction book, but I found myself staying awake late at night to read more, like I sometimes do with a great novel.

Well-written and engaging, filled with not only good science, but stories of the scientists and experiments that have created a ses change in how brains are viewed.

What I was so excited about is that this book brings together the latest research finding in the area of brain plasticity and these findings could give everyone a sense of hope and possibility: people/kids diagnosed with autism and ADHD, older people facing loss of memory or coginitive functioning, people who have had strokes, neurological injuries, amputations, and so on.

For many years, scientists were convinced that the brain was mappable and the structure stayed pretty stable after infancy. Many of these brain scientists fought hard against accepting the accumulating evidence that the brain, while it has its limits, is regularly changing structure and functions, sometimes even daily, but in the end, the plasticity advocates won out due to the overwhelming data/evidence they found.

What I got from the book is that if there is something neurological or cognitive that you want to change, exercise (for the next day or so there are more neuronal growth factors operating in your brain and nervous system), then deliberately do something designed to challenge pervious ingrained neurological patterns or cognitive grooves.

If I knew someone with a cognitive or neurological challenge, I would read this book and work out a strategy to help them. A truly possibility-filled and inspiring book.

Get this book at Amazon.com

[Note: Thanks to newsletter reader Rachel Hott, of the NLP Center of New York, for recommending this and ruining a few nights sleep for me (just kidding Rachel, it was worth it). Visit her site at: www.nlptraining.com]