A successful person spins gold out of straw all the time. Anything he (or she) touches turns into gold (the Midas story) and why is that?  It's because his vibrations scream success from the roof tops and people stand up and listen.

A successful person knows that he has the ability to get what he wants, and he also knows that he is empowered enough for that. He does not fear situations, and even if he does, he gets empowered enough to rise above these situations, so that the situations themselves change.

If you don't think that you are successful, then think again. Maybe you can introduce a bit of doubt into the thought that you are 'not successful'?

How do you start to feel successful?

Make a list of whatever you have been successful at, and feel pleasure as the memories of the successes creep up on you, making you feel really good. Boy were you successful!

I do understand that there may have been many situations of huge importance where you think that you failed, but it is up to you to take away their importance and make them feel really insignificant.

Here is a small example of what a successful person thinks like-

1. You see this really nice guy that you like, and you notice some women collecting around him, how does it make you feel? How you feel here shows whether you have a success mindset.  Do you feel confident like you could just bat your eyelashes and he would be yours?
2. Walk into a job interview and see others waiting for that job. How will you feel here? Will you feel as if you are but the natural choice for that job.

For a successful person, there is no competition, but just the natural feeling that you are great, and what you want is really yours. You can develop that vibe.

A success mindset coupled with wisdom and good nature makes everyone really happy as you think of the overall good of all concerned. It's a win-win situation for everyone.