What you want is waiting for you to get aligned to it.
Think about it this way-
You are here at point A, and you notice something that you decide you definitely 'don't' want.
From noticing what you don't want, you have a thought of what you really want, and it feels good to you.
For example, maybe one day you get into a restaurant where they serve you food that is not fresh. From this experience of bad food, you get a desire to eat better tasting/quality food. Your task now is to let go of the experience of the unfresh (is this a valid word? My spell check does not think so :-)) food, and move towards the food that you will really like to taste. You may discover another restaurant that you really like, or it could also be that the same restaurant starts to serve you what you like- great tasting food.
After all, anything is possible in this world of infinite possibilities. I see such things happen all the time in my line of work!
While thinking of the unfresh food, and talking and feeling bad about it, you cannot really start to give out the vibrations that you require to give out to have the experience of amazingly fresh tasting food because your vibrations don't match upto what you'd really like.
Your first job therefore is to let go of this contrasting experience and start to get aligned with the food that you know you will really like to have. Start to feel what it would feel like if you could taste and enjoy this amazing food. Sometimes even a small wish with some letting go, will allow the good stuff in.
Even though the above sounds simple enough, here is where the problem lies for many people.
Having tasted the contrast and identifying what they don't like, and from that discovering a desire for an improved situation, people find it difficult to let go of the contrasting experience and focus instead on the feelings they would really like to have, and that is of a vastly improved situation.
This is where you have to learn the ropes and skills of creation.
Your mind, and especially your sub-conscious mind, has to get trained and you then start to move towards what you want with rapid speed.
It happens quickly once your mind is trained to get out of what you don't want, and get into what you really want. You also need to 'see through' situations, and look at the truth of anything. Your perception of the situation has to change.
While holding onto a cup full of bad coffee and sipping from it, all the while feeling bad about it, you cannot make room for the good smelling and tasting coffee that is just waiting for you.
But first you must know that this amazing coffee is waiting for you. Just let go of the cup of bad coffee and make your way with total determination towards the cup of aromatic coffee waiting for you to take a sip.
Every wish and contrasting experience you've had till now resulted in your desires already being fulfilled, ready and waiting for you. While standing outside the space of the fulfilled desire, you cannot experience it. Get in with these fulfilled desires and start to enjoy them. No more waiting outside. After all when you see people dancing, you don't wait outside do you? Your natural tendency will be to get in and dance with your favorite partner. So do get in, and do enjoy your dance. Your partner and everything else is waiting.
Just get aligned to it. It's easy!
Lots of Love to you! 
Sugandhi Iyer is the founder of Life Business Creations. 
