In any life area that has mixed signals going on, you will find a plethora of vibrations all mixed in together. Some vibrations say - "I have it going really good. This is working out so well!"
While others say - "Oh boy, what's happening? The whole thing is not working at all. Why am I even wasting my time on this?"
To choose the strain of thoughts that ultimately support what you want to create, is your job as the creator of your life journey.
Your mind is like a child, or rather your sub-conscious mind is like a child and as your sub-conscious mind beams all of these messages into the Universe attracting situations to you, you can use your conscious mind to overrule or overwrite this sub-conscious mind because what is programmed into your sub-conscious is what is vibrated into the Universe and it is important to train this sub-conscious mind to get the results that you want.
It is this programming that you need to work on and change.
Coaching is about working on this program, and as you (we) cajole your sub-conscious into letting go of old thoughts and feed in new useful, loving and supportive thoughts, your vibrations change for the better and so does your reality. The whole energy changes around you.
It's all a new understanding, perspective and programming that goes into your sub-conscious so that change happens.
Your conscious mind can help in changing focus and awareness and help guide your sub-conscious to contain better beliefs and thoughts. The only problem is if your conscious mind gets too rigid and does not want to let your sub-conscious think differently. This happens to overly intellectual people and people who have experienced so many contrary situations (contrary to what they would have liked to experience) that allowing the sub-conscious mind to think differently seems to be a Herculean task.
In such cases, information needs to be fed in very logically and carefully because the mind needs to be totally convinced to release all doubts and fears. It is a case of trust, and as a person learns to trust, he/she lets go of old and rigid thought patterns that were just not sitting right. The old sub-conscious just created the same situation again and again, and the consequences get very clear to see and experience.
For example if there is a man or woman in your life who seems as if he/she is not treating you correctly, it's because this person is the projection of your sub-conscious mind and its beliefs. You may want one thing, but this sub-conscious mind projects another. As this sub-conscious mind is trained differently, change happens around you. You can also keep this in mind while dealing with other people because they too have the same issues. Their sub-conscious mind is also trained to think incorrectly thereby creating their experiences with you.
If you want change, and would like to experience the results of having different beliefs in your sub-conscious mind, then allow this sub-conscious mind to hold different beliefs and your life will certainly reflect that change. Work on your vibrations and from the mix of thought vibrations, choose and transmit correct and useful ones to the Universe and have it bring back good and happy situations to you.
Magnify the vibes that will support you and let go of those that don't. Let your sub-conscious project a different reality for you and take correct and happy actions.
The power lies with you to get this change to happen. Lots of love!
Sugandhi Iyer is the founder of Life Business Creations. 
