There is the ordinary, then there is the semi-unique, then there is unique and then there is genuis.
Question is what are you? Or who are you?
I was speaking to someone who is interested in this guy and she likes him except that he seems to fail at whatever he does. He does not have the education that people like; you know the engineering, Masters, Phd, Law, the medical degree, etc., but she likes him.
Ofcourse me being a sucker for true love I don't believe that anything should be a wall between people, but when I looked at my friend's reservations about her financial future with this man, I could understand her point of view. In her belief system, a man with a proper educational background is important. This girl comes from a highly educated family and hence the reservations, even though the guy himself is a gem. Well she has to work on her belief system, and get the guy to bring out that something in him, which will help him succeed. I am not his coach so there is not much that I can do here but guide my friend, as a friend and not as a coach, which would really help get her working on her ability to see them both to success! I do make wishes for people, and it does happen, so I have wished well for them, and things will line up.
But in the context of this article, if someone does not have the pre-requisite degrees, what does he (includes she) need to make it big? Even when a person has his degrees, he is often limited by the scope of those degrees until he decides to get out of the box and change his thinking. In this world there is special quality that someone who has 'made it big' has, and that is a GENUIS mentality. It's what is called a big, expansive mind.
There are people who are born genuises and they do brilliantly inspite of not having the 'traditional qualifications' seen in this world as required to be successful. History has many examples of genuises and the good thing about this time in this world is that it gives you the ideal platform to allow your genuis to shine. There is nobody stopping you but you. There is no 'success police' out there monitoring how successful you get and preventing you from getting more successful. We are in the best times ever, living in the best countries ever (whichever country you live in is perfectly capable of supporting your success) and we can get into better times with our thoughts and intentions.
The key to do really well is to be a genuis in your field of choice and have lady luck as your best friend. Be a genuis in whatever field you adopt. But BE THAT GENUIS.
If you want to cook, make it great. If you want to sing, make it spectacular. Why settle for less?
The ability to be really good is within you. What you have to do is to bring it out into your belief system and make your vibrations so strong that anyone who comes across you should want to be your lover/spouse, your colleague, your friend, your wellwisher, your customer, your movie's producer, your agent, etc.
It's not about expecting from others and getting hurt when your expectations fail, but being your best and becoming better.
This is also not about beating yourself up for not being good enough, but thinking that you are the best.
You are beautiful, wonderful, special and really talented. When you go up on that stage to perform, when you write your book proposal, when you make a sales pitch, when you sing, when you run, when you start your business, and when you start your day, do you feel aligned with being the best and walking away with the contracts, the dates, the proposals? It does not matter what you want. You should feel that you deserve it.
Proper alignment is what earmarks the winners.
It is upto you to think that you are unique, feel unique and take off in the blue sky to fly freely, past the turbulent clouds and in open air, happy and confident that the marriage proposal is yours, that the contract is yours and also that you are fully capable of fulfilling all your responsibilities and obligations in the best manner possible without fearing hurt, rejection and loss. Get rid of the 'loss' energy now.
The Law of Attraction is not wishy-washy. It is very practical. All you have to do is say 'yes to life' and be the unique person the Divine always intended you to be! Being a genuis is about discovering the genuis in you because it is there.
Lots of love.
Sugandhi Iyer is the founder of Life Business Creations. 
