Why do we say "This happened" or "That happened" and get stunned with what happens?
The reason is simple. Everything just happens. Things are just happening all the time.
But everything happens according to the energy in place.
It is energy that takes things through.
Let's say something happened. It could be anything, positive or negative. It all happened according to whatever formula was in place. I think I have spoken of this formula and how this formula is the only thing that you can change.
When you decide that you want to change this formula, then you regain your power. You get the chance to put into place energy that carries everything through smoothly.
You can sense this energy. If you are at all intuitive, you can sense it and then change it. How you change it depends entirely on the situation. Different situations need different handling, and the job of any person is to handle whatever has already been created and then swerve in the direction that one really wants to go.
So if you have a partner who has a certain personality, then you have to be able to see that this person is a certain energy and needs to be handled in a certain way until you get what you want. As you understand the positives and negatives of this person, you can also evaluate what methods will work and use them. The method could be anything that is required.
You are the alchemist who knows best what will work in a situation and what will not, and as you move your coins on this chessboard of life, you get to checkmate, with love ofcourse.
I personally know when I need help, and I ask for it. I understand what I am facing, and what energy needs to be put in place. I keep my eye on my goal and move towards it. Sometimes I may need to take a turn that is unexpected, but as I get skilled with working with the Law of Attraction, and energy, I have better results every time.
Just know that it is the energy that is making everything happen. If you want to change the outcomes, then change that energy.
For example if you want to run a project, you have to bring all the team participants and yourself into that space where things just take off. When you create and hold that energy in place, everything goes so well. This is true of relationships, and money. Everything just has a snowball effect. Your job is to generate that energy. Become skilled at that and you dont have to worry at all. It is celebration all the way.
Lots of love.