There are two types of desires.

 

The first type is easy and gets fulfilled with little effort on your part. It is so easy to fulfill that you know you have the capacity to do so anytime, and even if you don't fulfill it immediately, it does not bother you.

 

For example, eating ice cream. You know that you can go out and get ice cream anytime and so even if you decide not to, it does not make that much of a difference. You don't carry it into the next day, and the next saying to yourself "I could not buy ice cream, I need ice cream, I need to hire a manifestation coach to manifest ice cream." Though for some people with severe health and/or monetary issues, this otherwise easy desire could be difficult.

 

The second type of desire gets you all tied up in knots and becomes a hard stone in your heart. This type of desire questions your very self-worth and you feel as if you could keep trying and not get anywhere.

 

The reason you feel this way is because you don't feel equal to the desire. You don't feel as if it is within your capacity. These desires have all kinds of charges connected to them, electrocuting you whenever they come up in your mind.

 

Visualizing a successful outcome helps a lot if you are able to generate the feelings associated with already having it. It helps to be in a space where you know that you are equal and even higher in capacity to what is required of you to fulfill that desire. When you come to a place where you know that it is as easy as opening the door, walking in and claiming the price, that's when your mind relaxes enough to visualize a positive outcome, letting in good energy.

 

It takes practice, it takes patience, it takes skill, and it takes moving constantly into success energy.

 

When the mind gets used to loosing it finds it difficult to contemplate success. That is just how the mind is. However when it starts winning, nothing can stop it.

 

Why is that?

 

It's because your mind is just like recording material onto which information is written. The more it is exposed to negativity, the more it contemplates negativity, and the more it is exposed to positive information, the more it contemplates positive results.

 

Start to expose yourself to successful situations more and more, even if they are very small successes initially. And practice on those situations that make you feel as if you have easy control. Example, increase your productivity at work, donate a little more to charity, do things for people, smile a lot at people, work out, eat healthy food that increases your life force and is not toxic, nurture Mother Nature and your family.

 

All of these victories add up in your treasure chest which will increase the positive imprints in your mind. And we all know what happens when your vibrations are positive. You attract well being to you.

 

How does this tie up with the two types of desires discussed earlier?

 

As you increase your ability to record successes in your life, it increases your capacity to manifest your desires easily. Very few will remain in the category of 'difficult' desires carried around in your heart like a stone. Desires must be fluid in the heart area for them to manifest. The mind must be free of resistances, and when the mind is free, the heart opens up to allow the manifestation in.

 

It is pure survival mechanism. If your mind finds something to be an enemy, or hurtful to it or your self-worth, your heart slams the door shut tightly on your desire. It is a defense mechanism created to protect your mind.

 

When you work on getting your mind to release its resistances, your heart will open up for what you want to come in. Have'nt you noticed that it is in your most relaxed and joyous moments that good comes flowing in, and even that phone call that you never actually expected to come in, does happen?