by Sugandhi Iyer
Whenever we enter a new job, or relationship, we sense the possibility of joy in that and so we make efforts to pursue the situation.
What happens when we start to feel an ebb or reduction in the joy experienced? There is an effort to maintain the joy and save the situation, and then when everything fails, there is an effort to back out of the situation and save ourselves.
We have all experienced this again and again in life. You start with a fresh mind and fresh outlook and then things seem to deteriorate, and then there is a hasty retreat.
Some people (who I call brave soldiers) try to stay in the situation for a long time, fighting against all odds to make it work.
Then there are some people who are so sensitive that they run at the sign of any trouble.
It is important to find a balance between the two.
There is no need to keep fighting to save something. Sometimes it is just best to let go. Now letting go, and letting it all go are different.
Letting go is the state of being away, or detached from the situation so that any healing that has to happen, has a chance to happen.
Letting it all go is the state of "getting rid of". Salvaging something from a situation where you have let it all go, is more difficult. Most reactions that come from the place of letting it all go, are traumatized and so special attention has to be given to clearing and healing.
We have to accept who we are at any point. Only when we accept who we are right now, can we make efforts to change and become who we would like to be.
Manifestation always matches who you are. You cannot fool the Universe. What is contained in your heart manifests. There is no two ways about that.
So work on what is contained within you. Observe, intend, and manifest! And in all situations, retain the original joy that you entered it with. For it is the joy that carries things to smooth and beautiful conclusions, or should I say beginnings?
When you feel a depletion of joy, it is okay to back off, refuel and then re-enter situations with a new perspective. The best way to do this would be with quiet calmness, but some times such quiet calmness is not possible when faced with huge triggers.
Each person has his or her level of tolerence for situations. Example, you may be very patient in some situations, but maybe for some others you don't feel that level of patience. That's okay, as you may be working sub-consciously to change the energy of that situation. Such a situation is your weakest point, but also your strongest aide. It enables you to become so much more of who you are when you have dealt with that situation in whatever way it seems most beneficial to you.
Manifestation completely depends upon your awareness and how soon you understand energy and how to change its direction.
Just like the breeze blowing in the sky, energy too has its messages for you. It's great to know how to read this Universe's messages.
Love and Light!