South Sound Parent to Parent
The Connection   for
families of children and adults with special needs
P2P November
 2011

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Rally Information

Dear Friends and Families of South Sound P2P,

 

We have reached a critical point in funding cuts.  Please read below, get involved and let your voices be heard. 

 

November 28th - Don't Cut Our Lifeline Rally

On November 28th The Arc of Washington State has reserved the Capitol Steps for a rally, partnering with many other human services advocates from around the state. The first rally begins at 10:00 a.m. where we will hear from the people whose lives will change drastically from these cuts, as well as from people presenting other options. We will rally
at the steps and then later march around the Capitol. At 1:00 go get some lunch, stop by your legislators office, share your stories, but don't think we are finished. At 7:00 pm we will hold a candlelight vigil on the steps under Governor Gregoire's window (no wax candles, only battery operated ones). Please try to attend at least one of the day's events. Other human services advocates are having a march from Sylvester Park in downtown Olympia up to the Capitol for a rally being held on the steps in the afternoon, they would love to have us join them. Whether you can come and be involved in activities for the whole day or just part of it, please plan to attend and invite everyone you know to join you. We must make our voices heard!

Rally Information 
  
       

Kim Smith

Executive Director and Lead FRC

 


"If we don't stand up for children, then we don't stand for much."
Marian Wright Edelman  

P2P Groups and Events

 Play

 Support Groups
Support Group Information
                                                                                                       

November

 

*11/1 Autism Support Group - P2P @ 6:00 p.m.

 

*11/3 ICC Meeting - P2P @ 1:00 p.m. 

 

*11/5 Financial Planning Workshop - P2P @ 9:00 a.m. - noon 

 

*11/10 Sibshops - P2P from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m.

 

*11/13 Mom to Mom Cookie Exchange - P2P @ 1:00 p.m. 

 

*11/15 Down Syndrome Support Group - P2P @ 6:30 p.m. 

 

December  

 

*12/1 ICC Meeting - P2P @ 1:00 p.m.

 

*12/6 Autism Support Group - P2P @ 6:00 p.m.

 

*12/9 Sibshops - P2P from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m. 

  

**On line Autism Support Group - anytime you can reach your computer!  Please email Elaine Rinker at erinker@ssp2p.org for your personal invitation! 

 

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P2P Events/Activities

 

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Financial Planning Workshop

 

Please join us on Saturday November 5th from 9:00 to 12:00 at Parent to Parent for a financial planning and wellness workshop.  We will have presenters to answer your questions.  See below for information about one of our presenters:

  Zale Crawford, Senior Financial Planner with MetLife's Financial Planning Division, will be presentinginformation to 
        consider about the "Financial Considerations Needed When Raising a Special Needs Child". Zale will answer such questions as:                  

*How can you plan for your and your child's future and not jeapordize potential government benefits?                             

*Are your assets positioned and titled the proper way?                                                 *Are your assets designed with the proper distribution strategy?                                     *Are you prepared to have your child taken care of both physically and financially if you're unable?   

He will talk about the most common mistakes when planning for your and your child's future, and some simple strategies to correct them. 

Our second presenter will be Karen Mattson from Washington State Employees Credit Union.  She will discuss
Financial Wellness as part of your overall heath.  Stressed caused by debt and/or other financial issues can manifest itself in physical illness, family conflict, loss of productivity at work and general decline in your enjoyment of life.  Financial Stress Management is a workshop that will give  you will tangible tools to managing common stressors and avoid the pitfalls that keep us in that destructive cycle.  Financial freedom begins here!

To sign up for this workshop, please contact Kim Smith at P2P, 352-1126 ext. 108 or ksmith@ssp2p.org

We can seat 25 so please call early to reserve your spot.

Pussinboots 

Sensory Friendly Movie

Saturday, November 19th

 

Please join us for the sensory friendly movie showing of Puss in Boots at the Yelm Cinemas!  For
more information about what a "sensory friendly" movie entails, please go to P2P Events page.
  Events Page 

Fundraisers/Donation

    Used clothes

Clothing Drive! 

 

Parent to Parent will gladly take all of your used clothes, shoes, belts and purses!  When you're cleaning out your closets, please remember to bring your "no longer needed" items to P2P.  We'll give you a tax receipt and P2P receives $.15 per pounds from the ARC of Washington.  Every little bit helps us continue to provide services, so please remember us in your cleaning efforts!   


Limeberry 

  

Please treat yourself to a treat at Limeberry in Tumwater (5729 Littlerock Rd SW
Ste 105)
or Lacey (8825 Tallon Ln NE
Ste E)
on Thursday, November 10th from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm.  
They serve a variety of yummy frozen yogurts and all of the toppings one can dream of!  20% of your total goes directly to P2P.  You do NOT need a coupon.  Thank you for supporting P2P!!

 

 

Donations

 

Donations to South Sound P2P


We NeeYour Help!!!

 

South Sound Parent to Parent is NOW accepting donations via Pay Pal

 

Please click on the link below to see our donation page!

  

Parent to Parent News

 

 

sibshopsSibshops is Back!   

  

Our first Sibshops was a huge success with 9 young people participating (ages 6-12).  We hope this will be a dynamic and growing group, so please join us for the next Sibshops at P2P on November 10th at 6:00 p.m.  If you have any questions, please call Sylvia at
(360)352-1126 ext. 106 ~ See you at Sibshops!
 
helping hands

Helping Parent Program
 
 

 Being a parent of a child with a disability can be hard work!  Personal support from
another parent who has a child with similar needs can be helpful in coping with these
challenging experiences and feelings.
Helping Parents are trained to listen and their experiences have taught them to
understand.
Helping Parent volunteers have completed a training program and are available to provide
support and information.

If you are interested in becoming a Helping
Parent volunteer or would like to be matched
up with a Helping Parent, please contact
 
Sylvia Heiser, (360) 352-1126 ext 106.  

Your experiences can be valuable help to
other parents of children with special needs.

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Parent to Parent Online Support Group
 
P2P is excited to start a new online support group for parents, grandparents, caregivers and so on who just need to talk, find resources, vent, share and find support with each other.  We know it's hard to get out for groups sometimes so we hope to offer and new way for people to connect.  The group will feature everything from working effectively with schools to legislative issues to bartering for items you may need or have that need to be traded for something someone else may need or have!  Anything goes, any topic can be listed.  We want this to be a very supportive environment and look forward to launching it on November 1st.  The group will be private, so please contact facilitators Kim Smith (ksmith@ssp2p.org) or Matt Graffagnino (mgraffagnino@ssp2p.org) for your personal invitation!   

 

  

 

Legislative Corner  

Capitol  

A Special Session

 

On November 28th, 2011 the Washington State Legislature will reconvene for a special session to cut another 2 billion dollars from our state's budget.  The reason is simple.  There is simply not enough revenue coming into the state to cover the budget that was enacted earlier this year.  Unfortunately, health and human services will be taking the brunt of these cuts due to the fact that 70% of the state's budget is protected by federal rules or constitutional requirements.  The state's poorest and most vulnerable citizens are at risk of losing vital services such as pharmacy coverage, routine dental care, and day programs for adults with developmental disabilities.  Even funding for Parent to Parent is on the chopping block.  Our only hope of preventing these cuts is to come up with ideas to create more revenue.  If you have such an idea, consider writing a letter to the editor of your local newspaper.  The Arc makes this easy for you to do.  Simply go to http://capwiz.com/arcwa/home and click on the "Media Guide" tab.  Choose five newspapers to send to, then write your message and click send.  Remind people that it is important for legislators look at revenue options, because an all-cuts budget would be devastating to those who rely on the state for their very survival.  Work with other advocates and make your voice heard.  

 

~Karen Huggins        

  

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Featured Article

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The Bittersweet Now

 

Hello Everyone,

     I have some great news to tell you all.  My oldest son Matty's development is coming along great! I also have some slightly troubling news; Matty's development is coming along great! You'll see what I'm saying in a minute.....

     I have some good and bad news to report;  the good news is that Matty said a full sentence clear as a bell, the bad news was he told the dog to "shut her pie hole or she was gonna go outside."(GASP) Great news! Matty's starting to make lots of independent decisions. Unfortunately, they include not listening to me. Sweet!  Matty is exploring the backyard and all it has to offer, like high tree branches and the fence to climb.  He's using appropriate phrases and words for situations like filling in the proper cuss word when I spill my coffee on the counter.  He's becoming more of a master of his domain too, telling me "No!"  and then doing what I asked him to do anyway, usually by the third time. Oh, sometimes I just call his name and he says, "NO!" before he even knows what I'm gonna ask. Love that one.

     He is honing his gross motor skills like a champ, especially when using his vise grip on the TV remote when I ask him to hand it over.  The legs are starting to work well too!  I'm recalling the time when he pulled me into the downtown fountain soaking me when I told him it was time to go home and he needed to take my hand. Fine motor you ask? Acing it! Doorknobs are way easy to turn now, allowing access to the great outdoors.  Socially his sense of humor is great, telling me I smell in line at the grocery store in front of everyone (I DON'T SMELL!), usually causing a round of laughter at my expense which just fuels his fire. Let's not even get into the bathroom humor and ALL that comes with that!

     And inquisitive I tell ya, asking so many questions like, "Where are you going? What are you doing? Is that blue?" Often to perfect strangers....wearing red. At least he may be coming out of his Little Einstein obsession. I heard him call one of the characters an idiot the other day. (I happen to agree with that comment and didn't interject.) Who knew my boy was so fashion conscious? Apparently the other kids at school wear their clothes inside out and backwards too, and I'm not hip enough to get that.   Bathroom training is so on schedule, invite me over and you'll see because as soon as we walk in the door he will immediately announce he has to go potty, "Hi how are you?, What's that? I gotta go potty!" I just smile and say "The roast smells delicious." It goes on and on and on and on......

     The bottom line is that every day he is becoming more and more like a typical boy and I am so amazingly grateful. And that my friends, is great news to report!

               

  

Matt Graffagnino

 

    

Volunteers

Volunteers

Volunteer Needs

 

 Making new child files

Making new family packets

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If you can help, please call Kim Smith at 352-1126, ext. 108.  Thank you!
 

 

Thank You

Team  

Thank you to Mixx 96 for sponsoring the Creative Office Olympics.  Our amazing team of four raced their way to victory on trikes, office chairs and in a packing box.  Family, friends, staff and board members turned out as the cheering section as the "P2P Dream Girls and Mr J" took 1st Place!  What great fun and what an excellent way to continue to increase awareness about South Sound Parent to Parent in our community!  Thanks to everyone who participated! 

 

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Thank you to Hunter Farms for the great P2P Pumpkin Patch family day.  We had 99 people attend for a great time in the pumpkin patch!

 

Panda Express 

Thank you to Panda Express for the fund raiser and for the families who had a bite to eat.  Every dollar counts for P2P! 

  

 
Community Events and Activities

 

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Public Forum on the Impact of DSHS Cuts
How quality services impact
the lives of people with disabilities
 
Wednesday
 
November 16, 2011
7:00 p.m.
River Ridge Covenant Church
7945 Steilacoom Road
Olympia, WA 98503
We're all in this together!

A planned agenda with Presentations about the Impact of DSHS/ADSA
Budget Cuts on People with Disabilities

Sponsored by:

Career Quest
CARR
CEA
Community Resources
EFI
ESP
Kokua
Lacey Group Home
Morningside
Parent to Parent
Senior Services
St. Mike's CCS
WISE

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Growing UP Wild 

 

is Project Wild's new early education program builds on children's sense of wonder about nature, and invites them to explore wildlife and the world around them.

 

Nov. 5, 2011 at Nisqually National Wildlife Refuge from 9 am - 3:30 pm.  $35 registration fee.  Session ID #38936

Please register if you plan on attending.  If you can think of someone that might be interested please share this information.

 

If you have any questions or concerns please contact Dianna Avery.  (contact information below)

 

Dianna Avery,

Teaching & Learning Admin. Secretary

ESD 113/6005 Tyee Drive SW/Tumwater, WA 98512

Desk *360-464-6717   Fax *360-464-6917   

 

Reach Your Dreams!

Financial Education Classes  

"This class has changed how I view money and spending. While I enjoy

spending, I NOW enjoy saving and the benefit of it. It has impacted my

daily habits and greatly improved my quality of life."

~ 2011 Class participant

 

Topics Covered:

Goal-setting, Spending Plan, Banking, Borrowing, Savings & Investing, Credit Reports/Scores and Repairs, Insurance, Home Ownership Basics, and Budgeting  

Why take these classes?

 *These classes are FREE!

 *Receive a Free Credit Report and credit score.

 *Get a handle on your finances to keep more money in your pocket!

 *Get paid a $50 stipend after attending all classes on time.  

Registration Information:

When:

Tuesday and Thursday evenings, 5:30-7:30PM

November 1, 3, 8, 10, 15, 17, 22, and 29th  

Where: Downtown Olympia  

Cost: FREE!  

Registration Required: office@enterpriseforequity.org Or (360) 704-3375 ext. #2

  

The Open Door Autism Learning Center has launched an 'Ability to Pay Program'.

 

Reduction in our fees can be applied for through a Fee Reduction Application, with reduction assigned based on the 

Current Poverty Level Guidelines.  See a copy of the most current Poverty Level guidelines on our website.

 

Eligible Applicants will be determined upon review of a submitted application.

*A family gross yearly income or (if file a long form), an adjusted yearly income of  200% or less of the  

                 current year's Federal Poverty Level.

200% of the Poverty Level will be eligible for a  22% discount off the weekly class fee

150% of the Poverty Level will be eligible for a 34% discount off the weekly class fee

100% of the Poverty Level will be eligible for a  44% discount off the weekly class fee

 80%  of the Poverty Level will be eligible for a  56% discount off the weekly class fee

 50%  of the Poverty Level will be eligible for a  67% discount off the weekly class fee

*There are no age restrictions

for more information see the attachment or go to our website,   www.opendoorautism.com 

  

Patty J. Gee, M. Ed, Public School Certificated SLP

Owner/Autism Therapist

The Open Door Autism Learning Center
1101 Eastside Street SE, Suite B
Olympia, WA  98501
360-888-0660
 www.opendoorautism.com 

www.facebook.com/pattyjgee


Providing social cognitive skill learning groups
for individuals with autism and asperger

  

Please Save the Date

A One Day Conference in

Each Region

 

Creatively Supporting Each Person's Desire to

Live a Full Life in the Community

 

Come to this conference to hear national and local leaders and to discuss:

National trends for supporting individuals given recent budget constraints, a changing workforce, and changing needs of people who are being supported

Implementing person centered approaches

Perspectives from individuals who receive supports from residential agencies

Ways to think outside the box, being creative, and working together

This one day conference is for:

individuals with intellectual disabilities and their families

people who support individuals in their own home and community (staff of residential providers)

people who work for the Division of Developmental Disabilities

other interested community members

Chose one day to attend in your local area. These conferences will be held in:

Region 1: November 7, 2011 in Moses Lake

Region 2: November 9, 2011 in Lynnwood

Region 3: November 8, 2011 in the Olympia area

There is no cost to attend this conference. Space is limited and registration will be required.

This conference is sponsored by:

The Division of Developmental Disabilities

Roads to Community Living Grant

More information will follow soon.   

 

Exploring Wetlands

Learn about the different kinds of wetlands around us and help build an estuary food web. Kids can make a food chain art project to take home, and adults will love their new hot/cold 16 oz. tumblers! November 5th, 2011, 2pm, WET Science Center, 500 Adams St. NE, Olympia. For more information, contact: Susie Vanderburg 360-528-5742
    Wet Science Center

New Additions to the Lending Program

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Books

*The Down Syndrome Nutrition Handbook:  A Guide to Promoting Healthy Lifestyles

 

*Early Intervention Games:  Fun, Joyful Ways to Develop Social and Motor Skills in Children with Autism Spectrum or Sensory Processing Disorder

 

*The Elephant in the Playroom:  Ordinary Parents write Intimately and Honestly about Raising Kids with Special Needs

 

Equipment

*The Listening Program (10 disc version with nature sounds) 


News from the Board 


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Our staff is doing a tremendous job fulfilling our agency's mission with integrity and heart during these financially challenging times.  As resources shrink for the families we serve stress and fear increase. Our staff handles this gracefully and positively by listening, brainstorming and problem solving together.  Through careful budgeting and spending practices the staff has stabilized our financial situation for the near future.  Parent to Parent is becoming a more familiar name out in the community thanks to everyone's outreach.  Our board is very proud of our staff's accomplishments and grateful that they touch so many families. 
  

 

 

 

Erika Krupp, Board President 

 

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(360)352-1126

Kim Smith, Executive Director and Lead FRC ext. 108

Sheila Kavanaugh, Office Manager ext. 101

Sylvia Heiser, Helping Parent Coordinator ext. 106

Matt Graffagnino, Outreach Coordinator ext. 105

Karen Huggins, Transition/IEP Support ext. 111

Lara Putnam, Office Support ext. 111

Shana Patterson, FRC (Olympia and Griffin) ext. 102

Elaine Rinker, FRC (Tumwater and Rochester) ext. 107

Jonita Snell, FRC (North Thurston, Tenino, Rainier, Yelm)  ext. 103

Shanelle Montano, FRC (North Thurston) ext.109

Chris Brandt, Custodian

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