South Sound Parent to Parent
The Connection   for
families of children and adults with special needs
P2P October
2011
 Fall

Dear Friends and Families of South Sound P2P,

 

I think we have finally reached our Fall weather!  Sensational Saturday was a blast, if not a bit wet.  We have activities coming up that should be a lot of fun so please check out the newsletter and our web page.  We will have a financial planning workshop in November, so please take a look at the information as you plan ahead.   

As the holidays rapidly descend, please contact P2P if you know a family who could use a little extra help.   

Stay dry and enjoy the changing leaves! 

 
       

Kim Smith

Executive Director and Lead FRC

 


"If we don't stand up for children, then we don't stand for much."
Marian Wright Edelman  

P2P Groups and Events

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 Support Groups
Support Group Information
                                               
                                   

October

 

*10/4 Autism Support Group - P2P @ 6:00 p.m.

 

*10/6 Interagency Coordinating Council Meeting - P2P @ 1:00 p.m.  

 

*10/14 Sibshops - P2P from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m.  

 

*10/18 Down Syndrome Support Group - P2P @ 6:30 p.m.

 

*10/25 Mom to Mom Support Group - P2P @ 6:30 p.m.

 

November

 

*11/1 Autism Support Group - P2P @ 6:00 p.m.

 

*11/10 Sibshops - P2P from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m.

 

 

**On line Autism Support Group - anytime you can reach your computer!  Please email Elaine Rinker at erinker@ssp2p.org for your personal invitation! 

 

Fall draws near  

P2P Events/Activities

 

  

  Buddy Walk

South Sound Up With Down Syndrome Support Group Buddy Walk 2011

 Buddy Walk will take place on Saturday October 1st.  Click on the site for more information!  Buddy Walk   

    

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Hunter Farms Pumpkin Patch

 

Join us for a fun afternoon at Hunter Farms on October 16th from 1:00 to 3:00!   

 

We will meet at the front gate for signing in.  P2P will pay for the ride to the pumpkin patch, the slide and for one pumpkin per child (that they can carry themselves).   

 

This event is for Thurston and Mason P2P families.  Let's hope for a crisp, clear day! 

  

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Financial Planning Workshop

 

Please join us on Saturday November 5th from 9:00 to 12:00 at Parent to Parent for a financial planning workshop.  We will have presenters to answer your questions.   See below for information about one of our presenters:

  Zale Crawford, Senior Financial Planner with MetLife's Financial Planning Division, will be presentinginformation to 
        consider about the "Financial Considerations Needed When Raising a Special Needs Child". Zale will answer such questions as:                  

  How can you plan for your and your child's future and not jeapordize potential government benefits?                           
  Are your assets positioned and titled the proper way?                                                                           
   Are your assets designed with the proper distribution strategy?                                                             
 Are you prepared to have your child taken care of both physically and financially if you're unable?                                   
He will talk about the most common mistakes when planning for your and your child's future, and some simple strategies to correct them.  

             

We would like to have 20-25 participants so we will take people on a first come, first serve basis.  Please contact Kim Smith to reserve your spot (352-1126 ext 108 or ksmith@ssp2p.org)                                                                                                                   

Fundraisers/Donations

     

 

 Panda Express

 

Enjoy Dinner Out & Raise Money for  

 

South Sound Parent to Parent

 

Date:  October 15, 2011

Time:  11:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Location: Trosper & Little Rock Panda Express

Take a break from cooking and head out to Panda Express in Tumwater!  Download, cut out and present the flyer from 11:00a.m to 8:00 p.m. and 20% of your purchase will be donated to SSP2P!

Thanks for supporting P2P!

Panda Flyer 

 

 

 

 

 

Donations

 

Donations to South Sound P2P


We NeeYour Help!!!

 

South Sound Parent to Parent is NOW accepting donations via Pay Pal

 

Please click on the link below to see our donation page!

  

Parent to Parent News

 

 

sibshopsSibshops is Back!  

 

Sibshops is a time to get together with other kids who have siblings (brother or sister) with special needs. 
We

have fun activities, pizza, and great talk times. Most importantly, we have a safe place where young people can talk about their feelings, get advice and feel comfortable in knowing that they are not alone in the challenges and joys involved in having a brother or sister with special needs.   

 

Sylvia Heiser is the facilitator and she has years of experience working with young people!

 

We are looking for more participants!  Beginning in October, we will  meet on the

2nd Friday of each month at Parent to Parent from 6:00 to 7:30 p.m.  If you need information, please email Sylvia at sheiser@ssp2p.org or call and leave a message for her at Parent to Parent. (360)352-1126 ext. 106 ~ See you at Sibshops! 

 

 

 

 

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 Transition

 

Please contact Karen Huggins if you need assistance with IEP meetings or Transition Planning from school to work or other community resources.

 

 

Karen can be reached at 352-1126 ext. 111 or khuggins@ssp2p.org.   

 

 

 

Legislative Corner  

Capitol  

Federal Funding for Special Education

 

It's nice to know that there are at least 2 Congressman out there who want to make good on the promise that Congress made nearly 40 years ago to fund the IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) at 40%, which would greatly reduce the stress of funding special education for states and school districts. A Senator from Iowa, Tom Harkin, and a Representative from Colorado, Jared Polis, both plan to introduce bills into Congress that would increase federal funding for special education by about 24%. Of course, funding means that the money has to come from somewhere. Under Senator Harkin's plan, the money would come from increasing the taxes on cigarettes and small cigars. Representative Polis suggests cutting spending on what he believes to be wasteful and unnecessary Pentagon defense programs. Either way, our students with developmental disabilities would win and school districts could take a much needed sigh of relief!


 

~Karen Huggins        

  

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Featured Article

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                                                                               The Learners

 

     Hello Everyone,

 

     During the course of my past eight years being involved with disabilities, especially on a personal level, I have encountered some puzzling things. I have often noticed a breakdown on all fronts of my children's life plan. Not a complete breakdown, but holes, some of them gaping and others just a bit transparent. Most of them are out of my control, which makes it so difficult to deal with, especially when I dedicate to better my children's lives. There are many areas of concern, from education to medical, on through to later living. Everything is so overwhelming, especially in the early years when it comes at you from every direction. That's why it's so important to become a learner.

     I love and often use the phrase, "I can plant a seed!" usually for some ridiculous situation I have influenced someone in my direction. But in this particular case I like to use a seed as a comparison for our children. When you plants seeds, in the beginning they require more work. They need the proper amounts of food, water and sunlight to get started. This helps establish a good root foundation for a strong and fruitful life. We should have some say in our seeds we plant, don't you think?

     I remember when I first got sent on my journey, I was like this vacant scared person, being handed all this information, care plans, and course of action "stuff." I listened to what they all had to say, but it didn't stick with me at that time. It was just too much, and most of it I really didn't understand. I didn't know an I.E.P. from my ABC's. I needed to be told what to do, and how to do it, because I didn't know how myself. And I did just that. But as I started to get my sea legs under me and learn about my children and the system, I began to question things. Probably like most people, I don't like being told to do something just because someone says so. I like to think about why and make sure I understand the instructions and their purpose. (Plus I have a big mouth anyway.) I want you all to realize that what I eventually did was to discover that I had a voice, and when I used it I began to see that I had some influence. What I said and the input I had could be very powerful in a room of teachers, Dr's and PhD's... and I was just little ol' Mr. G.

     Both of my son's have Fragile X disorder. Early on in their lives, they were diagnosed with a disorder called Kabuki Syndrome. It was based on what doctors thought they saw in my kid's appearance and level of delay at the time since there is no genetic marker or blood test. It didn't feel right to me, I knew there was something, but not that. After fighting for a second and third opinion they were diagnosed with Fragile X, and a blood test confirmed it.

     Now, the course of action as far as therapies and such go wouldn't necessarily change, but my ex- wife's family (the gene was discovered in her blood as well) was made aware of a genetic disorder that was most definitely going to repeat itself again. This new diagnosis allowed family members to get tested and know what they were potentially dealing with if they wanted children. Many family members were carriers or also affected. If I didn't speak up or question things," Kabuki Syndrome" would have continued to show its "unexplained" self.

     It is really important for us as caregivers to realize that we have a voice and with a little education and backbone we can be in the driver's seat, and not just a passenger. We need to stand up and not be afraid to question and believe in ourselves because, "If you don't believe in something, you will fall for anything."-(multiple variations and sources.) Be a learner!

     Here is the quote that influenced the title; it was given to me by my pal Nolan, an eleven year old boy who gives me hope for future generations. It's by Eric Hoffer. "In times of change the learners will inherit the earth, while the knowers will find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists."

 

Matt Graffagnino

 

    

Volunteers

Volunteers

Volunteer Needs

 

 Making new child files
Making new family packets
Copying

If you can help, please call Kim Smith at 352-1126, ext. 108.  Thank you!
 

 

Thank You

Thanks 

Thank you to all of the volunteers, vendors, entertainers and staff who helped to make Sensational Saturday a great event!   It was an awesome team effort!! 

 

  

 
Community Events and Activities

 

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Down Syndrome Dance Program


      Our Down's at Dance program is starting up again.  Classes are every Friday Sept 16 - Nov 4.  This session is 8 weeks.  Our class time is 4:00 - 4:45(and boy do you get a workout!) at Johansen

Olympia dance Center on Jefferson.  Participants need to be age 12 and up.  The cost is a bargain at $100 per session.  Financial assistance is available upon approval from South Puget Sound Up With Down Syndrome group.   Financial Scholarship forms are available at P2P office.

     Once again, we are fortunate to have our marvelous dance instructor, Barbara Rowe.  We just love all her energy and enthusiasm!

    You can register on line for the dance classes at

www.olympiadancecenter.com  or call 360-943-8011 

Looking forward to seeing you on the dance floor! 

    

SoundCareKids  

Grief Support for children, teens, and the adults who care for them 

   

Children, teens and their parents have found understanding and support at SoundCareKids for over 17 years.  Each week builds on the concepts, discussions, and activities of the week before, so attending support meetings during a session is recommended.  The Fall Session will include weeks focusing on grief during the holidays. Session topics include:

Week 1: Learning about grief and getting to know each other

Week 2: Exploring grief feelings and learning how to cope with them

Week 3: Sharing our stories

Week 4: Dealing with regret, guilt, and other unfinished business

Week 5: Identifying and adjusting to change

Week 6: Memories and Staying Connected

 

Meetings are on Thursdays, 6:15 to 7:45 in West Olympia.  Call Providence Hospice at (360) 493-5928 to request an information packet and to reserve your spot for the upcoming session that begins October 20th.

 
Growing UP Wild 

 

is Project Wild's new early education program builds on children's sense of wonder about nature, and invites them to explore wildlife and the world around them.

 

Nov. 5, 2011 at Nisqually National Wildlife Refuge from 9 am - 3:30 pm.  $35 registration fee.  Session ID #38936

Please register if you plan on attending.  If you can think of someone that might be interested please share this information.

 

If you have any questions or concerns please contact Dianna Avery.  (contact information below)

 

Dianna Avery,

Teaching & Learning Admin. Secretary

ESD 113/6005 Tyee Drive SW/Tumwater, WA 98512

Desk *360-464-6717   Fax *360-464-6917

 

 Dancing Dendrites 

    

Sometimes in our fast paced society kids get stuck in the "go -go -go mode".  In this class, parent and child will learn to shift gears and slow down.  We will use music, movement and sensory experience to learn relaxation skills for home, school and life.  We welcome all parents, caregivers and nannies.

Contact Brianna Cooper, Instructor at 360-596-9696 for more information.   

  

Emergency Preparedness Expo

Saturday, October 29, 2011, 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

St. Martin's University Worthington Center & Marcus Pavilion  5300 Pacific Avenue SE in Lacey.  

For more information, visit

 

Vivian Eason, Thurston County Emergency Management, (360) 786-5243

Are you, your family, your employer and co-workers prepared for the next natural or man-made disaster? Don't miss this free Emergency Preparedness Expo sponsored by Thurston County, the cities of Lacey, Olympia, Tumwater, Yelm, Rainier, Tenino and Bucoda, and St. Martin's University.

Preparedness information on topics such as Pandemic Flu, helping kids cope with disaster, and the iris scan child identification system will be available.  More than 50 informational displays and emergency supply vendors will be featured, with hourly drawings for door prizes.

 Infant Brain Imaging Study

The Infant Brain Imaging Study (IBIS) is funded to provide developmental assessment and monitoring to qualified infants with older siblings with ASD.  Qualified infants can join the study any time under 12 months of age.  The assessments are conducted at 6m, 12m, 18m (phone only), 24m and 36months and include developmental testing, neuroimaging (except at 18 and 36m when the assessments are only behavioral/developmental) and early autism diagnosis.

 

Participants are provided written reports describing their testing and diagnostic information and specific clinical referrals as appropriate to each individual.  Any and all travel costs are reimbursed.  Participants can come from anywhere in Washington, Oregon, Idaho, Alaska, Montana, Wyoming, Nevada, Utah and California.

 

Interested parties may call:  Annette Estes 206-543-7326

 

New Additions to the Lending Program

Dino
Books

*The Signing Family:  What Every Parent Should Know about Sign Communication

*Literacy and Your Deaf Child:  What Every Parent Should Know

*Children with Hearing Loss:  Developing Listening and Talking, Birth to Six

*Tiny Baby Signs

 

DVD

*Talk to Me!  A Parent's Guide to Baby Sign Language

 

Equipment

*Disc-o-sit

*Peanut Ball (small and large)

*Wedge Pillow 

*Bath bench seat

*Bumbo seat with tray

 

Toys 

*Sit to Stand Learning Walker

*Munchkin Mozart Magic Cube

*1,2,3 Crawl Along Snail

*Stride to Ride Dino 

 


News from the Board 

    lilyann

     Our First Sensational Saturday


    My daughter proudly displayed the moons painted on each cheek, her painted tile with river and sun, and her self-decorated, wearable button.  I scored a plate of brownies at the cake walk and indulged in home-baked treats from the donation-sales table.  This is a sampling of the craft activities and food tables at our first Sensational Saturday held last month in Tumwater.  The atmosphere was welcoming and warm despite the chilly weather.

    Parent to Parent and Kokua partnered in creating a vision of a fun fair fund raiser, then made it a reality through 7 months of intense planning, commitment and endurance.  We all learned a great deal in the process which will ease the way for an even better Sensational Saturday 2012.

    I thank everyone who contributed through in-kind donations, sponsorships, financial assistance, great ideas and hours of volunteer preparation and event-day involvement.  Also, a thank you to Peter G. Schmidt Elementary School for allowing us the use of their site.
 

 

 

Erika Krupp, Board President 

 

SSP2P Staff

(360)352-1126

Kim Smith, Executive Director and Lead FRC ext. 108

Sheila Kavanaugh, Office Manager ext. 101

Sylvia Heiser, Helping Parent Coordinator ext. 106

Matt Graffagnino, Outreach Coordinator ext. 105

Karen Huggins, Transition/IEP Support ext. 111

Lara Putnam, Office Support ext. 111

Shana Patterson, FRC (Olympia and Griffin) ext. 102

Elaine Rinker, FRC (Tumwater and Rochester) ext. 107

Jonita Snell, FRC (North Thurston, Tenino, Rainier, Yelm)  ext. 103

Shanelle Montano, FRC (North Thurston) ext.109

Chris Brandt, Custodian

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