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Perspectus 

October 2011

In this issue
President's Message
JLB Mission Statement
General Meeting Info
Board Notes
General News & Information
JLB Needs YOU!
Sustainer News
Did you Know?
Condolences
Marketplace
Contact Us
JLB Board

President
Julie Warman

Executive Vice President
Colleen Seminara

President Elect
TBD

Recording Secretary
Patty Gonzalez

Communications Vice President
Pam Chrzanowski

Financial Vice President
Angela Hall
 
Community Vice President
Lynsey Zimdahl

Membership Vice President
Sarah Snyder

Sustainer Vice President
Marsha Gresens
 
Sustainer Vice President
Sandra Keller
 
Strategic Plan Chair
Amy Hawley

Parliamentarian
Julie Mooney

Perspectus Editor
Melissa Rebl Rodemeyer
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Mission
The Junior League of Buffalo, Inc. is an organization of women committed to promoting volunteerism, developing the potential of women, and improving the community through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers.  Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable. 
President's Message    
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Dear Members,

 

Lots of exciting things happening all around us this month!

 

The October General Membership meeting will be held at the Northwest Buffalo Community Center on October 18.  This will provide all of us with a great opportunity to see first hand where our Life Coach program will be housed this year.  Going forward, so many of our activities and resources will be dedicated to impacting our Community Issue.  I encourage everyone to take a closer look at the community around them and begin to think about ways in which we can impact Female Heads of Households Living in Poverty.  We welcome your ideas, insights, and suggestions on ways the Junior League of Buffalo can further its involvement with this issue.

 

In an effort to solidify our commitment to this issue, at the October meeting of the Board of Directors, a change in our Community Assistance and Small Grants process was recommended and enacted so that a minimum of two recipients that directly impact our issue will be selected. 

 

Additionally, your Community Council has been at the forefront of strategically planning the integration of its committees to more effectively impact our issue.  Roundtables, Community Research and Development, and Do It In a Day have all been working together to join forces and coordinate efforts around our impact issue.  Although we have a long way to go, this is an incredible start to our new initiative. There are still opportunities to get involved in the Life Coach Program.  Whether you are an Active, Provisional, or Sustainer, you are welcomed to participate.  Mentoring sessions are held a few Saturday mornings a month.  Please contact Kate Mori for further details.

 

The National Trust for Historic Preservation Conference will soon be in full swing, and many of our members will be helping out with Candlelight Tours and assisting Visit Buffalo Niagara with visitor bag preparation.  According to one of the volunteer directors, Junior League members will be helping to fully staff at least two houses on the Candlelight Tour!  This is a perfect example of the Junior League of Buffalo supporting a significant part of our mission:  "Improving the community through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers."

 

I look forward to seeing everyone on October 18 for our first voting meeting of the year!

 

Warm Regards~

Julie

General Meeting Info  
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The October General Meeting will be Tuesday, October 18 at the Northwest Community Center--home of the Life Coach Program.  The meeting will begin promptly at 6:45 p.m.

 

The Northwest Community Center
155 Lawn Avenue
Buffalo, NY  14207

Click here for a map. 

 

Board Notes    
The Board of Directors met Tuesday, October 4, 2011.

 

The Board:

 

1.  Agreed to the earmarking of two of the Community Assistance Small Grant awards toward non-profit organizations that directly engage and support the JLB's Community Impact focus area of Families-At-Risk:  Female heads of households

 

2.  Reviewed Memo of Understanding between Life Coach and JLB for project

 

3.  Approved a non-requirement, one year fundraiser of Buffalo Dining Cards

 

4.  Approved reinstatement of language requiring six Show House shifts and the sale of ten Show House tickets as requirements for Provisionals

 

5.  Discussed presence during National Preservation Conference in October, specifically with Darwin Martin House

 

 

The Board received reports from:

 

1.  Communication Council -   Historian/Archivist, Liz Ingold, is beginning her task of getting a handle on all material at HQ to be organized; waiting on response from Network Solutions to obtain remote access to our database and email for Jill and Julie. 

 

2.  Membership Council - Provisional Committee:  Final count - 47 new members; ODI:  No applications submitted for November session.  Some interest has been expressed for February session.

 

3.  Financial Council - Casino night is coming along; Needs a venue; No more members are needed in this placement.   

 

4.  Community Council - CRD committee will work closely with all other community council groups to stay on top of our efforts and to align efforts of Roundtables, Public Policy, and Membership training teams.

 

5. Sustainer - Holiday House Tour sponsored by the Burlington/Hamilton Junior League in Ontario, Canada.  Event is November 11-13, 2011.

 

 

Click here to link to Board Minutes from August and September.  

General News & Information   
Membership Bits

Submitted by Sarah Snyder

 

What is an Organizational Development Institute (ODI)?

 

Organizational Development Institutes, or ODIs, are programs that provide Junior League members with mission-based training in key areas critical to the healthy functioning of a League.  At ODIs, delegates learn... 

 

...innovative approaches to developing Junior League members as effective volunteer leaders in their communities

 

...powerful ways to design community programs and partnerships that have significant impact

 

...strategies for sustainable and diversified fund development

 

...keys to building strong internal operational controls

 

...developing an effective nominating process to strengthen the Leagues leadership base

 

We are still accepting applications for the November 4-6 session in Orlando, Florida.  Please email Sarah Snyder as soon as possible. 

 

 

Provisional Class - The recruitment period has ended for the 2011-2012 League Year,  and we have 47 fabulous new women ready and excited to get started!  Please be sure to introduce yourself and welcome all of these ladies at the next general meeting.

 

 

AJLI Website

By now everyone should have received an email from AJLI announcing the All Member Email (AME).  For those of you who have not logged into the member portion of the AJLI website, your unique member ID number is provided for you on the bottom of that email.  You can then log in and register using that member ID.  If you have questions, please contact Sarah Snyder.
   

2011 Fall Leadership Conference:  A rewarding experience in Baltimore 

Submitted by Ruthann Foley  

 

Recently, I had the privilege of accompanying our President, Julie Warman, to the AJLI Fall Leadership Conference.  It was truly an amazing experience for me to be able to speak to Presidents, President-Elects, delegates, and AJLI Leaders from around the World.   

 

The first seminar I attended was minutes after my arrival at the Hyatt Regency Baltimore.  This seminar was mainly for League Presidents.  It gave them insights into conducting an engaging meeting--good to know if you happen to belong to a League where General meetings are neither well-attended, nor engaging.  This is not the case in our League.  You will hear or see me use that term, "Not in our League" many times this year.  The more I am able to interact with other Leagues, the more I know we are doing many things correctly in the Junior League of Buffalo.  Pat yourselves on the back, Ladies.  After dinner, we were treated to a tour of the Baltimore Aquarium, sponsored by the Junior League of Baltimore, who was celebrating 100 years of service to the community.

 

In all, I attended nine seminars, the most informative, to me at least, was the Breakout meeting, "Engaging Millennials."  The Millennial Generation is comprised of 15 to 29 year olds.  Many of our current members fall into this category.  This Generation is widely believed to be the most educated, most multi-cultured generation in U.S. history.  But, strangely enough, they have the highest unemployment rate in the country, 37%. In another seemingly contradictory finding, they have a $200 billion spending power and additionally influence between $300 billion to $400 billion.  Their motto might be "Believe, Belong, Create."  They are very well connected to their peers via the newest technology.  They cannot wait to get started and are impatient to finish one project so they can more on to the next.  They would rather text a quick 4-word to someone than sit and write an e-mail.  They need to be doing, rather than planning.  They need to feel they've accomplished something within a short amount of time, or they are "out of here."   This means that in the future, Junior League meetings must be concise and motivational, which is exactly the title of my next favorite breakout meeting conducted by Vicky Clark.

 

Many of us know Vicky Clark from the inspirational and exciting meetings she conducts.  She has been in Buffalo several times, and if you ever get a chance to sit in on one of her talks, by all means, do!  She gave us many ideas for thinking out of the box in conducting meetings.  Meeting agendas should not be a rehash of what has already happened, but about "how do we get from where we are to where we what to go."  Leaguers should not be forced to sit and listen, but be engaged in a conversation.  Theater-type rows do not encourage this type of meeting. Think of other patterns of seating which may encourage dialogue and still maintain order.  This will keep Millennials engaged and the Boomers awake!  This and many more thought-provoking ideas were discussed.

 

As stated above, I attended nine breakout seminars.  If you wish to know more about any of them, please feel free to contact me, Ruthann Foley. 

 

   
How I Gained New Understanding
Submitted by Brooke Smith

As we begin our new community impact and start to focus on women living in poverty, it struck me as appropriate to make an attempt to better understand the demographic that we, as a Junior League, will begin braiding our time and talents with.

 

I am excited to share with you a book I read over the last few weeks, A Framework for Understanding Poverty by Ruby K. Payne, Ph.D. (aha! Process, Inc. revised 2005).  She is the leading U.S. expert on the mindsets of those living in poverty, in the middle class, and the wealthy. The cover of the book shares with the inquiring reader, "People in poverty face challenges virtually unknown to those in the middle class or the wealthy.  These challenges are both obvious and hidden.  The reality of being poor brings out a survival mentality, and turns attention away from opportunities that are taken for granted by everyone else."

 

Dr. Payne begins her book by exploring resources that a person who struggles with poverty may have, or lack, when needing to make a decision.  She uses scenarios to help reveal the difficulties parents living in poverty might have in supporting a child at school functions, whether because they work early or late and/or have other children to care for.  She also talks about concerns that children living in poverty are often faced with:  problems like hunger, legal issues (e.g., eviction, bankruptcy), domestic violence, or an addicted parent.

 

Dr. Payne explains that an effective education is the key to getting out of, and staying out of, generational poverty (as opposed to situational poverty generated by illness, job change, etc.).  Individuals leave poverty for one of four reasons: a goal or vision of something they want to be or have; a situation that is so painful that anything would be better; someone who "sponsors" them (e.g., an educator, spouse, mentor, or role model) who shows them a different way, or who convinces them that they could live differently; or a specific talent or ability that provides an opportunity for them (61).  Enter the Junior League!!

 

Dr. Payne kindly reminds the reader that being in poverty is rarely about a lack of intelligence, nor ability.  Many individuals remain in poverty because they don't know there is a choice--and if they do know there is a choice, they may have no one to teach them the hidden rules, or to provide them needed resources.

 

Another amazing insight that Dr. Payne points out is how a child living poverty reacts to being disciplined.  Dr. Payne's approach to a successful discipline plan for students in poverty is to teach a separate set of behaviors.  She states that, "many of the behaviors that students bring to school are necessary to help them survive outside of school" (77).  Chapter seven is an overview of several strategies that Dr. Payne feels can be used successfully with children living in poverty.  She advocates the use of structure and choice, behavior analysis, participation of the student, the language of negotiation, using metaphor stories, and teaching hidden rules.  An important component of the chapter is a list of behaviors related to poverty and interventions that a teacher or mentor could use in response to the behavior.  Another important section of the chapter discusses an adult being aware of the use(s) of child voice, adult voice, and parent voice (83 - 84).

 

I challenge each of you to take some time to read Dr. Payne's book as we begin writing this new chapter in our own League history book.  Some of the women we are partnering with are children themselves who have to navigate an increasingly scary and complex world.  Let's do us all a favor--before we lunge into their environment--and educate ourselves with the hope of stopping prejudice and ending any pre-conceived notions we may have (with or without knowing so) about the challenges and incredible strengths of women who struggle in poverty--women with whom we are about to connect on a very deep level.

 

Poverty must be addressed at the community level and at the civic level.  In community, we as individuals and an organization can have the greatest impact in the present--and leave a powerful legacy to the future.  In community also happens to be right where we, the Junior League membership collectively and individually, have connections, influence, and an opportunity to make enduring change.  We want not only to help the women we will serve to navigate the system:  We want to work with them side-by-side to help to change it!

   
Are You a Member in Good Standing?

While checking the White Book for accuracy against the membership roll, it was noted that several members have failed to renew their membership.  Please review your records to insure that you have paid and are up to date.  Dues must be paid in order for a member to be listed in the book.  A late fee of $25 is assessed to members that have outstanding dues.
   
GLE Cover

NEW PRICE FOR Great Lake Effects

 

Purchase of Great Lake Effects is no longer a membership requirement, but it is still nice to keep the title in mind as a gift for someone special.  Please also consider donating it to other organizations with which you might work outside of League. 

 

The book has a great new price--$5.00!  The inventory of Great Lake Effects numbers approximately 1900.  Don't forget:  When they're gone, they're gone!    Copies can be purchased through Jill at headquarters during regular business hours.  All monies, either for new purchases or owed form previous purchases, should be submitted to Jill at headquarters either by check through the mail, by dropping off during business hours, or by leaving in one of two drop boxes--one located in the copy room or in the other next to the front door on the porch. 

JLB Needs YOU!          
Community Impact Service Opportunities
Submitted by Liza Keenan

LifeCoach Child Care Assistants 

Dates:  Saturday 10/8, Saturday 11/12, or Saturday 12/3

Time:  10 am - 12 pm

Place:  Northwest Buffalo Community Center

What:  Assist with child care activities for children while their mothers attend LifeCoach session

 

 We are still in need of a few more child care assistants for this Saturday, October 8

 

LifeCoach Site/Program Assistants

Dates:  Organizational work prior to 10/8 or 11/12 LifeCoach sessions

Time:  Approx 2 hours on your own flexible schedule

What:  Work with LifeCoach Site/Program coordinator to brainstorm and put together "take home" food or other goodies for mentees and their children prior to one of the LifeCoach sessions.

 

Please contact Liza Keenan with question, or if you are interested in any of these activities!  

   
Volunteers Needed for the National Trust Conference
Submitted by Julie Warman

The National Trust Conference is coming to Buffalo later this month. 
It is anticipated that 2000 visitors will be viewing our architectural wonders.  Our community is sprucing up for the event (today over 1000 mums will be planted in our Olmsted Parks), and hundreds of volunteers have been enlisted to help at various venues.  JLB has been asked to promote volunteering (see the weekly emails to date regarding the candle light tours), and we have a new opportunity to demonstrate our commitment to this event and the community.

A group of 20 volunteers is needed on Saturday, October 15 from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm to assist in the Conference/Registration Bag "Stuffing" Day (not to be confused with Thanksgiving!).  There are 2000 bags to be stuffed with conference information and flyers from participating groups.  The project will take place at the Hyatt Regency Board Room.  Reimbursement for parking (up to $5) and lunch will be provided.  Shifts are available 9 a.m - 12:00 pm; 12:00 pm - 3:00; and 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm. The deadline for submitting volunteers is 10/13, so please let Brooke Smith know ASAP via email or at 949-395-5059.  This is a great opportunity for you to wear your JLB t-shirts proudly while doing a much needed service.

For additional information on the conference, click here to read a recent article in The Buffalo News. 
   

Do It In a Day (DIIAD) Activities

 

October

 

PICK UP BUFFALO

Date:  10/15, 9 am - noon

Where:  Pearl Street Grille & Brewery rear parking lot

What:  Clean up Erie Hills Pocket Parks in downtown Buffalo, sponsored by Working for Downtown

  

 

National Trust's Candlelight Home Tour
Date:  10/20, 6:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Where:  Lincoln Parkway, Buffalo
Register online at www.preservationbuffaloniagara.org/join-volunteer/


Some will be stationed in houses, some outside, and some at museums.  We're working to have assignments and further instructions for you in the near future, so stay tuned!  

 

 

November

Cocktails in Character (Literacy Volunteers)
Date:  11/1, 5:30 pm - 8:30 pm
Where:  Shea's Performing Arts Center

Volunteers needed to help set up and run auction, help at the ticket/registration table, and with several other tasks.
 
Mass Appeal, a high fashion event in the Elmwood Village
Date:  11/18, 5:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Where:  Lafayette Avenue Presbyterian Church, 875 Elmwood Avenue, Buffalo, NY, 14222
 
Fashion week comes to Buffalo!  Volunteers are needed for the 1st floor bar, ticket table, usher, security, and VIP section.  Volunteers should wear all black.    

 

** Please email Brooke Smith or call 949-395-5059 if you are interested in participating in any of these DIIAD activities. **     

Sustainer News            
Road Trip Anyone?
Submitted by Marsha Gresens

The Junior League of Hamilton Burlington has invited us to attend their 29th Annual Holiday House Tour of Distinctive Homes, which will run from Friday, November 11 through Sunday, November 13. 

Early bird tickets may be purchased online from October 1 - 15 for $20.  Advance tickets will be sold from October 16 - November 13 for $25.  Tickets will also be available at home doors for $30. 

Any Actives or Sustainers interested in attending this popular event as a group on November 11 (our Veterans' Day) may contact
Marsha Gresens by November 4 via email or at 810-9323.
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Carpooling will be arranged for those interested in going as a group, and lunch will be arranged following the tour.  Non-League relatives and friends are also welcomed. This is a great to opportunity to support our League friends in Canada and to investigate this project as a potential JLB fundraiser!   

For more information click here.
   
Sustainer Book Club
Submitted by Marsha Gresens

The October Bookmarks dinner meeting will be held at 6:00 p.m. on Tuesday, October 18 at the home of Liz Angelbeck at 175 Curley Drive in Orchard Park.  The book to be discussed is My Life in France by Julia Child with Alex Prud'homme.  To RSVP or to learn more about Book Club, please contact either Barbara Bukowski or Rosemary ZobelNew members are always welcomed.    

 

The schedule for the remainder of the year follows:  

 

November/December - The Winter of Our Discontent by John Steinbeck (Mary Beth Orsolits, hostess) 

 

January - Movie TBA

 

February - Mennonite in the Little Black Dress by Rdoda Janzen (Hostess, TBA)

 

March - Cutting for Stone by Abraham Vergese (Marsha Gresens, hostess) 

 

April/May - Major Pettigrew's Last Stand by Helen Simonson (Joan Taggert, hostess)

 

   
Happy Sustainers Accumulating Cash (HSAC)

Sustainers, intrigued by the Stock Market?  Puzzled by the ups and downs and the prognosticating about the recession?  Always wanted to buy and sell stocks, but weren't sure how to get started without losing your shirt?  Join the Sustainer investment group and be a part of a small group participating in the economic revival.  Now is the perfect time to get your feet wet for $50 month.  We invite guests to check us out at our November 7 meeting.  Please contact Janice Worobec, Presiding Partner, via email, or by phone at 874-1334.  You won't regret checking this out--limited partnership slots are available, so reserve your guest spot today!

Did you know?     

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Linda Francis Lee
 



Did you know Linda Francis Lee wrote a book called The Devil in the Junior League
Click here to read an interview about her real life in the Junior League and how she was inspired to write the novel.


Condolences 
Heartfelt condolences are being sent to Karolynne Cox (S '02), who lost her father Stanely Davis, on September 11.

Click here to see the notice in The Buffalo News.
   
Heartfelt condolences are being sent to Alisa LaPlante (Provisional Chair) and Gina LaPlante (DIIAD), who lost thier grandmother,  Dorothy LaPlante, on September 30. 

Click here to see the notice in The Buffalo News.
   
Heartfelt condolences are being sent to Anne Leary (S '86), who lost her father-in-law, Daniel A. Leary, Jr. of Farmington, CT, on October 3. 

Click here to see the notice in the Hartford Courant.
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