AHW MINISTRIES NEWSLETTER
About His Work with Janet November 2011
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ACQUIRING OVERSHADOWS THANKSGIVING
To me, Thanksgiving ushers in an end-of-year season of thanking God for our many blessings, celebrating our biggest blessing-the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ-and setting purposeful goals for the next year. I pondered and prayed about our local Christian radio station playing Christmas music all day October 31. Were they countering Halloween or getting a head start on the Christmas shopping frenzy? Most of my FB friends chose the first explanation, and I agreed. Then followed the infringement of Thanksgiving Day with the preempting of "Black Friday" starting in some stores at 9:00 PM on Thanksgiving Thursday! Many people said a quick "Thank you God for this meal" they were gulping down early to be the first in line that night for the "can't miss bargains." When I mentioned at our Thanksgiving dinner table that I found that sad, there were questions as to what I saw wrong with it. Here are my answers: - Instead of focusing an entire day on thanking God for providing all we need (something we should do every day) there's a rush to acquire more than we need.
- Store workers no longer enjoy an entire holiday off. While shoppers are trampling each other for the "only while supply lasts deals," store employees have had to skip dessert to get back to work.
- How long will it be before after-Christmas sales start Christmas afternoon?
In Exodus 16:4, the Lord said to Moses regarding the food He was providing for the Israelites, "I will rain down bread from heaven for you. The people are to go out each day and gather enough for that day. In this way I will test them and see whether they will follow my instructions." Later in Scripture we learn that those who gathered and horded more than they needed lost everything. I think there is a lesson there for all of us. I would love to hear from you regarding what your family is doing to avoid the commercialization of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Enjoy what the Lord has given you this Christmas season, be generous with your time, pray for wisdom and discernment in your acquisitions, and above all, share with everyone you meet the greatest gift of all this Christmas that has no price tag: eternal life through believing in Jesus Christ, the Son of God. Merry Christmas dear friends, family, and fellow workers for Christ!
About His Work,
Janet
PS Read "Meet An Author" at the end of this newsletter for an opportunity to win a free copy of Jocelyn C. Green's Faith Deployed...Again.
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FEATURED WOMAN TO WOMAN MENTORING MINISTRY TESTIMONY
Dear Janet,
Our church is Princeton Community Church in Pennington, NJ. We have offered two Coffees and have found the experience to be a God-sized blessing for all involved!
I have attached a copy of our most recent Newsletter for your enjoyment. Also, a picture of us (L-R) Lorna, Victoria, Gabriela and myself. Deb Masterson, our Newsletter Shepherdess was not available.
Our Potluck Celebration was wonderful! Every woman shared how God's movements were revealed as they walked by faith through each week. Their stories reflected moments and situations where no person could have influenced the amazing events.
We are so grateful to Father, Son and Holy Spirit for giving us this ministry opportunity. Your obedience to His call on your life in this area is blessing from west coast to east coast.
For some of the women at our church, mentoring relationships are new. For others, it is their second Coffee as mentor or mentee. The most wonderful aspect has been the shared blessing of pointing one another to Christ in their faith walk. God has this wonderous economy. He knows just what we need. The mentoring relationships present us an opportunity to give, as well as to receive, whether you are the spiritually "older" woman or the "younger".
If ever you are in our area, we would be delighted to have you as our guest.
You have given a great gift to women who desire to walk as Titus 2 women of God.
Sincerely, Deborah Olivier Relations Shepherdess
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"GRAMMIE'S CORNER"
Grandparents Night @ AWANA's
Thanksgiving week, Grampa Dave and I had a wonderful evening observing what our grandkids experience at AWANAS.
If your children or grandchildren are not participating in this wonderful program, I highly recommend it. It's free, but what the children learn is priceless.
Each child receives a CD of the Scriptures they memorize put to music. The CD also includes a song of the books of the New Testament. When our grandkids are in the car, they love singing these songs, and it warms our heart to hear 3 � year-old Sienna (1st one on the left) sing the 27 books of the NT and then say "Again, please."
We all remember Scriptures we learned as children and the "felt board" Bible stories. Don't think your kids are too young to start learning about the Bible. The younger they are, the easier it is for them, and the longer they will have to enjoy the blessings of knowing Jesus!
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PRAYING FOR YOUR PRODIGAL DAUGHTER  NOW AN E-BOOK READ "Thoughts on Applying 1 Thessalonians to Parenting" by Janel Thompson, our daughter-in-law.
A Praying Mother Receives Hope!
I have just finished your book about prodigal daughters. God has been so faithful during this entire nightmare/ ordeal!!
I have not seen my daughter (Rhonda, age 37) in nearly two years. We have been e-mailing over the last couple of months. Your book has helped me do with renewed vigor what God has directed me to do: Pray for her and just love her.
Thank you so much for writing "Praying For Your Prodigal Daughter" and sharing your experiences. I have received much comfort and support from you by way of this book.
I cannot tell you what your book has meant to me over the past three months. I read portions out of it nearly every day and am clinging to your words.It has been a constant encouragement to me during these very dark days. --Linda, a Praying Mother
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Mentoring Moment
"You don't learn to praise in a day. But you can begin today, and practice tomorrow. . . until it becomes part of you." Erwin Lutzer
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Meet An Author
November
was National Military Family Month
Author Jocelyn Green is a friend and fellow author whom I admire for her passion and versatile writing skills. I dearly identify with this topic since our son has a military family.
Please enjoy this interview and the first person to share with us a family who would benefit from this book will receive a free copy from Jocelyn.
Interview with Jocelyn C. Green, author of Faith Deployed: Daily Encouragement for Military Wives
and
Faith Deployed....Again: More Daily Encouragement for Military Wives
1. Could you share with us the inspiration behind "Faith Deployed...Again" and what readers can expect from it?
The inspiration for Faith Deployed . . . Again was the same as the inspiration for the first book I wrote for military wives, Faith Deployed. Put simply, military wives need encouragement, and the best source is God's Word.
As a former Coast Guard wife, I was so desperate for biblical encouragement that spoke directly to me. To have an opportunity to collect this type of encouragement from twenty-eight other military wives from every branch of service and have it published by Moody is an incredible gift. I never once lacked motivation to work on this project.
2. The title of your sequel is "Faith Deployed...Again." What is the significance behind the phrase "Faith Deployed," and can the phrase (and the book itself) have meaning for those who aren't military wives, as well?
I think of "faith deployed" as a faith called into action. Whether your military family experiences deployments or not, military life requires that we all deploy our faith in order to respond biblically to each trial we face. While this book was written by and for military wives, using illustrations from the military lifestyle, anyone who reads the book will come away with a deeper understanding of God's Word and how it applies to trials we face.
Military wives will be likely to get the most out of it, since it speaks directly to their unique lifestyle, but I have heard from many civilians, and men, who have also benefitted from reading it.
3. But if the troops are coming home soon from Afghanistan, do we still really need this book?
Yes, we do. Faith Deployed...Again was created to encourage military wives during all the seasons of a career, regardless of where they stand in the deployment cycle.
Military wives of all branches, all over the globe, are hungry for spiritual nourishment. That need isn't going to disappear when troops come home. In fact, only one of the book's eight sections is devoted to deployments. There are plenty of other challenges in the military lifestyle even without having a husband deployed to a combat zone.
As a Coast Guard wife, my husband never fought in a war, but I still desperately needed the hope that comes only from God's Word. The biblical concepts illustrated in this book will strengthen and encourage military wives during times of both peace and war.
4. The rates of post-traumatic stress disorder and traumatic brain injury among soldiers and veterans are increasing at an alarming rate. How does this affect the spouses and children of these veterans?
The spouses and children make adjustments to how they interact with the veteran, and how they live in their own home. Emotional detachment is very common among vets with PTSD, so the wife and children often crave a connection that their husband/father simply isn't able to give at this stage. This means they feel lonely, and sometimes emotionally abandoned. They might be angry and resentful that he changed so much because of his combat experience, or they could genuinely grieve the loss of the way their family used to be.
Several of our writers in Faith Deployed...Again are married to veterans with PTSD, and share their insights in the book. I also highly recommend the Combat Trauma Healing Manual for veterans, and for the wives, When War Comes Home: Christ-centered Healing for Wives of Combat Veterans.
5. What are some practical ways that individuals can support military wives?
- Quite often, if you just say "what can I do for you?" or "I'm here to help you" the wife may be overwhelmed enough to not even know what to ask for. Give her some ideas, perhaps in the form of a coupon booklet for free babysitting, homemade cookies, a coffee date, running errands, an hour or two of housework, etc.
- Find out what's broken and fix it. Computer problems are a big deal, especially since so many couples rely on email or Web cams to communicate. If the car is broken down, offer to give rides.
- Mow the lawn, pull weeds, other yard work- cleaning out gutters-those seasonal tasks that the deployed spouse may have typically done.
- Bring a meal over so that's one less thing a stressed out spouse would have to think about.
- Visiting is a great mood lifter, but ask first. And if you get a couple negative responses, don't take it personally.
- Drop off a basket of favorite foods and/or a movie rental you know she's been wanting to see. (Other ideas for a military wife care package can be found here:
- Pray for her!
6. Why is it critical to pay special attention to supporting the military wife?
If the military wife is supported, she will have much more ability to support her husband and her children in a way only she can. If she is too stressed out, her entire family will feel it. Her kids will suffer, she may resent her husband's service, and if she tells him as much, he will be distracted from his duties. If he is thinking about the trials for his family back home, he will have a much harder time giving undivided attention to his mission. Also, if the wife isn't getting support from appropriate sources, she will be more prone to confide in a man other than her husband who makes her feel special - which is the start of an emotional affair. When we support a military spouse, we support the entire family.
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Speaking 2011
December 14 Women's Christmas Dinner
"Enjoying CHRISTmas" Crouch Community Church, Garden Valley Idaho
Contact:Merrily Mosman 208-462-2206 Speaking 2012Plan Now to Attend LifeWay's "YOU Lead - Training Women in Ministry"
May 17-18
Central Valley Baptist Church
Meridian, ID
or
October 11-12
North Long Beach Christian Fellowship
I'll teach on "Mentoring" and "The Team That Jesus Built"
"YOU Lead" is a 2-day Women's Leadership Training event preceding
"Living Proof Live"
with Beth Moore Make plans to attend both.
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