Benedictine Sisters of St. Mary Monastery, Rock Island, Illinois
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October 2008
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Steps
Discerning your path in life
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 "Rookie Benedictine" Answers Questions
When Jackie Walsh (above, left) entered our Benedictine Sisters' community a few weeks ago, she became the third member in initial formation (Stefanie MacDonald, above right, became a Novice over the summer, while Sr. Claudia Scharf is in First Monastic Profession). Calling herself the "Rookie Benedictine," Jackie - at 50, 12 years older than our youngest member - has enjoyed getting to know the Sisters, the rhythm, the traditions and the personality of the community. Recently, she agreed to answer some questions for Steps.
Q. What has struck you most, so far, about life here with the Benedictines?
A. Shortly after my entrance ceremony, we learned my nephew had died unexpectedly. I went home to be with my family and help out. When I returned, everyone was so loving and supportive to me. I was really moved by that. I thought, "This is how my new family pulls together to help one another during a tragedy!"
Sister Phyllis (the prioress) had welcomed my entire family after the ceremony, saying, "You are part of our family now." That gives me so much comfort.
I have to say, I felt at home the first time I came here. The unconditional love and support from the Sisters has touched me more than I can say.
Q. How has it been to live with 50 other women?
A. I was used to living on my own and making my own decisions. Now everything's a conversation! (laughs) But it's like family life. You have other people to consider. You let one another know where you're going and when you'll be back. You share property.
Q. What do you do during the day?
A. I work part time as an administrative assistant for our retreat center, and let me tell you, it keeps me busy! Between prayers, meetings, set-up and tear-down for a recent program, I ran from 5 am to 9 pm one day. People who think all Sisters ever do is pray are mistaken. They go to work every day, whether here at the monastery or out at hospitals, parishes, colleges.
I will study Benedictinism, theology and other topics as assigned by Sr. Mary Core, my formation director. As a Postulant, I will spend this year studying with her while I continue working. Next year - the Canonical Novice year - will be spent in study only, with no outside work.
Q. How is this life different from your single life?
A. It feels balanced, despite the busyness. It all works because God is here, and we are all here to seek God. I had wondered what it would be like to go to Lauds, Noon Prayer, Vespers and Eucharist every day, but I love it.
Q. Do you think you're Benedictine at heart?
A. Well, I'm naturally quiet, which works well in Benedictine community life. I have always walked softly, closed doors quietly, put dishes on the counter gently. I've always been cognizant of those around me, and not wanted to disturb them.
Although I'm an introvert, I never intended to spend my life alone. I am happy being among my Sisters, praying, sharing and working. There's always someone to talk with, or watch a movie or work a puzzle with. I'm also happy that I have my own room, where I can go to be alone. It's the kind of balance I need.
Q. What's been hardest for you?
A. Being away from my friends has been hard. They can visit, but we can't hang out the way we used to, in each other's homes. This is my new life, and I love it. It will take some adjustment, but it's worth it to me. I have the family I was called to have.
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Sister stories... |
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Sister Martha Blessed with Big Family
The one thing young Martha Herzog knew
she would aspire to when she grew up was a large family. An only child
who had lost her mother as a toddler, Martha craved the companionship
and chaos of a large, bustling household.
"I planned to get married and have lots of children," laughs Sr.
Martha, who recently celebrated her 70th jubilee as a Sister of St.
Benedict. "But God had other plans. Instead, I entered this community,
and got lots of mothers and sisters."
Indeed, Sr. Martha got daughters, too, by way of the high school girls
who attended St. Mary Academy, the Sisters' college preparatory
boarding school, in Nauvoo, Illinois. In the kitchen and dining room,
Sr. Martha meted out board jobs while getting to know and love the
girls she supervised. Although the school closed in 1997, Sr. Martha
still hears from her many "daughters" nearly every day, by phone, mail
and visit.
"I went to the doctor recently and was told, 'It's a good thing you
entered the monastery, because you couldn't have carried a child,'" Sr.
Martha says. "I would have been broken-hearted. But here, I have had a
big family. I have the love of those girls, and the love of my Sisters.
I have been very, very happy."
Today, Sr. Martha serves the community in prayer ministry and in care of her Sisters. |
Benedictines are different. |
| Benedictine Sisters crave quiet ... and laughter.
Benedictine Sisters crave solitude ... and companionship. Benedictine Sisters drop everything three times a day to pray together.
Our ministries - from retreat work to social work, and education to art - never take us far from home.
For more information, contact Sister Bobbi Bussan (below) to learn more!
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| Join us for a visit! |
 To give you a chance to learn about Benedictine Sisters and our way of life, we welcome you for a visit. Call (309) 283-2300 or e-mail Sr. Bobbi to set up a good time. Or join us for a Benedictine Experience Weekend on one of the following weekends: Oct. 17-19, Dec. 5-7, Feb. 27-Mar 1, April 3-5. No matter when you come, there is no cost to you. We look forward to a morning, evening, weekend or week with you! And visit our Web site at www.smmsisters.org. |
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