Growing in an attitude of gratitude

By Prioress Sr. Phyllis McMurray, OSB

As we enter more fully into this season of Lent, we would do well to spend some time reflecting on God's grace in our lives in good times and in difficult times.  It is much easier for us to be grateful when all is going well. Can we be grateful for the unexpected visitor that comes in the form of an irritation, a disgruntled neighbor, or an illness?

Recently, I read the following selection by Rumi which offers us a challenge in this regard:

The Guest House

This being human is a guest house.

Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,

some momentary awareness comes

as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!

Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,

who violently sweep your house

empty of its furniture,

still, treat each guest honorably.

He may be clearing you out

for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,

meet them at the door laughing,

and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,

because each has been sent

as a guide from beyond.

Being grateful for whoever or whatever comes and recalling God's graciousness is something we need to do every day in order to cultivate a state of being grateful, to grow in an attitude of gratitude. The more we become aware and conscious of being graced, our gratitude and grace are multiplied.  Sharing this gratitude with others multiplies it even more. 

In community, we have a daily opportunity to share our gratitude with each other as we celebrate the Liturgy of the Hours and the Eucharist.  Let us continue to be aware of the opportunities that are ours as we pray a verse of Psalm 34: Glorify the Lord with me. Together let us praise God's name.