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Issue: # 3 August 2008 

Dear Friends and Colleagues: 

 
Happy August! We are in the last month of summer. Even though the time flew by this season has been enjoyable and very busy.  I would like to thank everyone for reading this newsletter, participating in the interviews, all of your kind words and suggestions, and all of the new subscribers.The response has been a bit overwhelming you have my deepest gratitude.
 
I would also like to celebrate the life of Dr. Randy Pausch a professor at Carnegie Mellon University. He was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer in August 2006. Pausch was know for his "The Last Lecture Speech" that was delivered on September 18, 2007.  It is on Youtube if any of you are interested.  It is a bit lengthy but worth every minute. When I saw it last year I watched it sections. 
 
Pausch passed away on  July 25, 2008. One of the many things that I did take away from the speech is the following quote.
 
"The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough."
 
This month I had the honor to interview Porochista Khakpour author of Sons and Other Flammable Objects. She grew up in Los Angeles and presently resides in Brooklyn, NY. Her novel will be available in paperback this month. I also interviewed Ramona Singer, Jewelry Designer and the star of the BRAVO reality television show the Real Housewives of New York.
 
Enjoy the rest of your summer!
 
Peace and Blessings
  ~ Yvelette Stines

Q and A with Porochista Khakpour
Porochista Khakpour Photo
 
 
YS: What does your writing process consist of?
PK: For books, months and months and maybe years of just thinking, collecting scraps of inspiration, and one day-most likely a rock-bottom day-saying, what the hell, and beginning the first sentence. Then being on eggshells with the manuscript until a third of the way through. Then full speed ahead with maybe one more moment of "what-the-hell-am-I-doing" paralysis in there. All in all, once I have put pen to paper, I tend to race to the finish line-I like to see the whole arc, before I try to polish and perfect. Then I spend years editing and editing until I can't stand the thing.
 
YS: How was your transition from writing for magazines to writing books?
PK: Fiction mode and non-fiction mode have always existed in very separate realms for me. Journalism had the quick fix appeal-projects that neatly wrapped themselves up, got me paid, got my name in print, voila. For much of my twenties, that was enough to keep me entertained and satisfied. But I really had to learn patience with the book-just getting it to the point where you can hand it to a reader takes ages, not to mention the very cumbersome publishing cycle which can force you to live in limbo with your book for another couple years until it comes out. It often even astounds me to remember that I began writing my debut novel when I was 25 and it came out when I was 29-and actually that's pretty fast. And yet I have some serious disconnect from myself at 25, so it feels a bit strange.
 
YS: When did you start writing books?
PK:
I began writing before I could write-or storytelling at least. My family fled Iran, where I was born, during the Islamic Revolution and so in our journey through the Middle East and Europe all I really had handy for a "toy" was paper and pen. So I drew a lot and eventually bored with that, made my father write down my accompanying stories. I began orating very long tales! By the time we got properly settled in the States, I was able to write and then couldn't stop creating my own little books. I wrote a couple novels before I was 12. I never really knew any other life than a literary one, as it was my only preoccupation from such a young age.
 
 
YS: What is your advice to individuals who want to write?
PK:
 I would say in general, they should follow their own path and not seek the advice of other writers, living or dead, so much! I say this from experience. All I ever did as a young writer was read about how other writers did it and I can say in the end, that while it made me feel less alone, none it actually "helped." Even the rules of someone a half generation before me don't apply anymore-even last year's rules don't apply this year. The world is changing so fast, faster than ever it seems. The only way to navigate the rapids, is to follow your own path, to listen to your own heart, and use the old common sense. To my own shock, I have found almost everyone wrong at some point; to my own greater shock, I have found my own self right more often than not.
For more infromation visit www.porochistakhakpour.blogspot.com

Bedazzled

 Ramona Singer Photo 
 
As a new season is right upon us, Ramona Singer took time to share her secrets about staying fashionable and fabulous when it comes to jewelry.  "Everyone should have the classics and that includes, diamond studs, pearls, and hoops they can be real or synthetic," she says. 
    "Once the essentials are in place then look for pieces that enriches you and makes you feel special," she continues.  As a mother, entrepreneur and wife Singer always has an eye out for the latest trends. "Jewelry is getting bigger than ever, necklaces are getting longer, and this is a staying trend."
    For the fashionista on a budget Singer suggests "looking through magazines and see what you like, since jewelry filters down go to a store that is within your budget." With the jewelry in place, Singer reminds us "that jewelry is one of the best accessories because it can change the look of an outfit, add style and it can make you look and feel fresh."
For more information visit www.ramonasinger.com.
 
Photo Courtesy of Ramonasinger.com