Have something important to discuss with your boss, but don't
know how?
7 Steps to Communicating Effectively with Your Boss
1. Prepare yourself
Make a list of your questions,
concerns, needs, etc. and review it thoroughly.
Determine your main goal, as well as clearly defining your primary issue
or concern. By being focused on these
main points, you will be able to keep your communication clear and to the
point.
2. Ask for a meeting
Do not be specific about the issue
at this time. Simply state that you have
some concerns to discuss, and want to be sure that you will both have time to
address them without interruption.
3. Choose a positive angle
To reduce resistance, you will
want to approach the topic without blame.
If possible, acknowledge the positive elements, good intentions or
appropriate aspects that led to what is now a problem.
4. Get their response
Once you have stated your case -
briefly, succinctly, and without blame - ask your boss for a response. Your purpose here is to get information. If immediate change is not possible, ask your
boss to tell you what he can and will do.
Have him be as specific as possible.
5. Propose solutions/suggestions
Most likely your boss has spent
little if any time thinking about this issue before you brought it up. Be prepared with your own ideas for a
solution and suggest them if you are not satisfied with those offered.
6. Discuss follow-up or next steps
Do not expect this issue to be
fully resolved in this one meeting. More
information may be needed or other approvals granted. Make a concrete plan with your boss for
further discussion and follow-up.
7. Show appreciation
Before ending the meeting, thank
your boss for his/her time and attention to your concerns. Be sincere and specific. This will go a long way in building trust and
re-establishing a healthy work relationship.