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Bridal Shows, Inc. Newsletter May Edition
May 28, 2008

Greetings!

Once again, summer is here! And with summer comes more bridal shows! Oh yeah, and maybe a few weddings too. ;-) We hope everyone is geared up for a prosperous season and encourage you to join us in an upcoming bridal show if you have not already done so.

Exhibiting in the summer bridal shows gives you a fresh lead source to work not only through the fall and winter months but to start booking into 2009 as well. Many of the brides in attendance are planning far in advance. Give your company an edge by meeting with brides face to face to show them how you can help build their dream wedding.

Categories are closing, but there are several openings remaining. So call us today to see which opportunities are available to you for the Dallas Bridal Show on July 12-13, the Fort Worth Bridal Show on July 19-20, and the Plano Bridal Show on September 14.

in this issue
  • Stop Chasing the Clock
    by: Sarah Zink
  • Register Early to Save Money!
  • Correction from April Newsletter
  • Exhibiting 101 Testimonial: Never Give Up!
  • Plano Chamber of Commerce Ribbon-Cutting
  • Naomi's Notes: "Changes for Positive Results"
    by: Naomi Hulme
  • Paul Salos on America's Got Talent!
  • Referrals Anyone?

  • Register Early to Save Money!
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    Hopefully you have already marked your calendar for the educational event of the year, the Wedding Professionals Business Conference, on November 19, 2008.

    What you may not realize is that by registering early you save $20 per person! We are currently taking reservations for the event and since we know how busy summer can be for everyone in the wedding industry, we encourage you to go ahead and purchase your tickets before prices go up!

    Register your entire staff to attend today!

    Over the next couple of weeks we will solidify the conference schedule with seminar speakers and topics. In the meantime, take a look at some of the exciting speakers already lined up:

    • Jane Salos, An Elegant & Royal Wedding
      "The Power of Positive Thinking"
    • Jeff Crilley, author of Free Publicity
      "Marketing Without Money"
    • Naomi Hulme, Bridal Shows, Inc.
      "Exhibiting 101"
    • Margaret Lake, Margaret Lake Photography
      "Networking"
    • Shama Hyder, After the Launch
      "Facebook Fortunes"
    • Linda Rollins, Rollins Rules
      "Cooking Up Customer Service"
    • Tim Chisum, Perfect Wedding Guide
      "Chasing Leads"
    • Jean Hammer, Uniquely Kneaded
      "Stress Management"
    • Jeff Klein, Klein Creative Advertising
      "References vs. Prospects"
    • Sarah Zink, Sarah Zink Business Training
      Topic TBD
    • Linda Bingham, A Gathering of Hearts
      "Stop Chasing Your Comfort Zone"

    Don't miss out on the opportunity to hear some fabulous seminars, meet with the exhibit floor, and network with fellow professionals. Save money, and register today!


    Correction from April Newsletter

    It has come to our attention that the link to view photos from the Exhibiting 101 seminar was not working in the last newsletter. Below you will find the appropriate link to view the pictures.

    Thanks again for all who made the Exhibiting 101 seminar at the Special Moments Chapel in Lewisville such a great event!


    Exhibiting 101 Testimonial: Never Give Up!

    We have been encouraged to hear so many great things from last month's Exhibiting 101 seminar and continue to get testimonials! The following letter is from Exhibiting 101 attendee, Sheila Williamson with Tea N' Mystery.

    After reading this testimonial, hopefully there will be no denying the benefits of networking and learning through such events, and you will be encouraged to book your attendee reservation for the upcoming Conference!

    Bonnie and Naomi,

    I am so sorry it has taken me so long to write this, but, nevertheless, it still comes from the heart!

    At the Exhibiting 101 Workshop, several wonderful things happened to me that I wanted to pass along to you both!

    1. Carolyn (the host) became interested in my business because of the referral from Naomi and has booked a Murder Mystery on July 12.
    2. Rebecca of Anna Skye custom invitations has become interested in my business and we are going to be working on a joint venture, www.bridalteaparty.com
    3. Naomi gave some tips about following up on leads and how not to give up on brides or customers in general until they tell you to quit calling!

    A few weeks before that, a customer had called and spoken with my husband about being interested in a graduation tea party. Of course, I called this person several times, never reaching her except for her to say, it was inconvenient and she would call me back. Of course, she never did! The next day or so, after the workshop, I was organizing my desk, found her number, and decided to call her once more. Of course, I got her answering machine and I promptly threw the note away.

    Within, five minutes, the customer called back and apologized for not ever calling me and still wanted me to cater this party. As luck would have it, we were available on the date she had in mind, and she paid me a deposit immediately! I hired my staff, planned, shopped, and prepped. When the day arrived, she called just to make sure we were still coming! I assured her we would be there momentarily and then we proceeded to get lost. When we called again to get directions, she was apologetic again because the street sign was down. When we arrived a few moments later, it was to a 350 acre multi million dollar property unlike any other I had ever been to. The customer was lovely, the guests were so appreciative and we have already received a new booking from that!

    There is no telling how much business we will gain from this job, which, I had already given up on before I made the last ditch effort call.

    THANK YOU NAOMI!!!

    Sheila Williamson
    Tea 'n Mystery
    Catering Elegant Affairs

    We all know how trying it can be to keep after a particular lead... but throwing out a lead could potentially cost your company tons of business! Never give up and keep your follow up consistent, who knows where your persistence may lead you!


    Plano Chamber of Commerce Ribbon-Cutting

    Although we have been represented at chamber meetings for the Plano Chamber of Commerce for several months, on May 14th, Bridal Shows, Inc. was officially inducted into the chamber through an on-site ribbon-cutting.

    Members from the chamber gathered at the Bridal Shows, Inc. office in Addison to network and witness the Ribbon-Cutting Ceremony. Thank you to the following vendors for helping us host the event:

    • Delicious Cakes -- delicious cake featuring the Bridal Shows, Inc. logo
    • C's Florist -- three beautiful arrangements to brighten the office
    • Balloons by Design -- two balloon arrangements to greet guests at the door

    We look forward to continuing our relationship with the Plano Chamber and hope to see many of you there as well!


    Naomi's Notes: "Changes for Positive Results"
    by: Naomi Hulme

    We are all going to experience lots of changes in any business, especially over the long-term. Changes can open doors and create other opportunities.

    Sometimes changes happen out of our control. We have a choice in how we handle this. It is up to us individually to keep a positive attitude and continue to move forward to create positive results. This can also help you in generating great new ideas.

    Other times change is in our control and is a necessary thing. We might have to make many tough decisions that affect so many to keep things positive.

    Continually evaluate every aspect of your business to see what positive changes can be made. Some of the main components of your business to evaluate are:

    1. Marketing and Advertising to get the best cost per lead.
    2. Profits and Cutting Costs
    3. Reduce Risk and Loss
    4. Training and Coaching Staff
    5. Customer Benefits
    6. Customer Service and Value
    7. Product Improvements
    8. Using New Technology
    9. Personal Improvement

    We should look at change as a good thing and open our eyes to new directions. Welcome change into your business. It is often a blessing in disguise.


    Paul Salos on America's Got Talent!

    PAUL SALOS was the BIGGEST WINNER with his "Tribute to Sinatra, The Man & His Music" at 11:00 A.M. Thursday March 6, 2008 at the Majestic Theater in Dallas, Texas.

    When Paul started singing, 1200 plus people in attendance got on their feet and started applauding. When he finished the song there was the loudest roar of appreciation, a standing ovation and the entire audience chanting "Vegas, Vegas, Vegas!!!"

    The three judges all gave Paul very high compliments: "We have had a lot of people that said they sing like Sinatra, but you have the mannerisms, the style, the phrasing and most of all the VOICE! You were wonderful, superb and the best Sinatra we have had on the show. You are going to Las Vegas!!"

    The show will be video taped for National TV from Las Vegas from May 10 through May 16, 2008. The show will air June 17, 2008.

    Go to America's Got Talent for more information.


    Referrals Anyone?

    Is there a business you work with that has really made a positive impact on your company? Do you know of a vendor that helps small businesses and would like to introduce them to other business owners in our industry?

    If so, please let us know so that we can talk to them about exhibiting in the upcoming Conference! Or have them contact Bonnie Crumpton at 972-713-9920 ext. 106 or bonnie@bridalshowsinc.com.

    Thank you for your help in growing our industry!


    Stop Chasing the Clock
    by: Sarah Zink

    The following article regarding Time Management is by one of our upcoming Conference Speakers, Sarah Zink, of Sarah Zink Business Training.

    It's time to take control of your time! And if you're a business owner that means you have to organize your time and find the sources of information that get you what you need to know NOW. If you're a business professional working for a company, that means that you have to organize your time and find resources that help you get and stay focused.

    Who ultimately owns your time?

    Think about a given day for yourself. If you're like most people, you are behind from the moment you get up to the moment you go to bed. In addition to that, the number one reason that many people have trouble sleeping is that they lay awake thinking about all the things they didn't get done that day, or all the things they have to do the next day.

    Depressing, isn't it? But it doesn't have to be that way! Years ago, I heard a saying that has revolutionized the way I think about my time and my choices: "Take Control of Your Destiny, or Someone Else Will." It's as true for you as it is for me. Your time is YOURS, and to re-take ownership of your time you have to stop the madness that takes place in any given day.

    How to Manage Your Time:

    Cost Your Time: Figure out what each hour costs you. The next time you want to spend time on a task, you'll consider the cost.

    Chart Your Time: Plan your day, or everyone else will! Block out two or three times a day to check and return voicemails and emails (rather than as they come in), block out time to do that report you hate (first thing in the morning is best), and block time to take breaks.

    Control Your Time: Be aggressive about managing your time! You must mentally prepare yourself to say "no" or "not now" to your friends, family and co-workers. Like a diet, people will want to get you off-track, but like a diet, only YOU keep yourself on track.

    Concentrate on Results: As you manage your time, focus on results. What is it going to take to get you where you want to be? Make time every day to take actions that move you toward your goals.

    Use a Clock and Calendar: When you find yourself challenged to finish tasks, begin by assigning priorities by date. Always ask: "When's it due?" That will help you put things in order by due date.

    This article is from the February 08 issue of Sarah Zink's newsletter, "Think Zink." To learn more about Sarah, click here.


    Naomi's Book of the Month

    This month's book selection is:



    Fish! Sticks: A Remarkable Way to Adapt to Changing Times and Keep Your Work Fresh
    by: Stephen Lundin, John Christensen, & Harry Paul



    You may request a copy of my "Book Suggestions" at any time.

    Happy Reading!
    ~Naomi


    Happy Mother's Day!

    To all the mothers out there, including my own (love you mom!), we hope you had a blessed Mother's Day. To celebrate motherhood, we've included some fun quotes. Enjoy!

    "A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie." ~Tenneva Jordan

    "All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his." ~Oscar Wilde, The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895

    "A man's work is from sun to sun, but a mother's work is never done." ~Author Unknown

    "A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest." ~Irish Proverb

    "When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child." ~Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty


    Bridal Show Schedule

    Dallas Bridal Show
    ** 19th Year **
    July 12-13, 2008
    Dallas Market Hall

    Fort Worth Bridal Show
    ** 10th Year **
    July 19-20, 2008
    Amon Carter Exhibit Hall

    Plano Bridal Show
    ** 19th Year **
    September 14, 2008
    Plano Centre

    Dallas Bridal Show
    ** 20th Year **
    January 24-25, 2009
    Dallas Market Hall

    Fort Worth Bridal Show
    ** 11th Year **
    February 21-22, 2009
    Amon Carter Exhibit Hall

    Plano Bridal Show
    ** 20th Year **
    March 8, 2009
    Plano Centre

    Dallas Bridal Show
    ** 20th Year **
    July 11-12, 2009
    Dallas Market Hall


    Visit us on myspace!! In order to connect with brides we have joined countless others on myspace.com. Check out our pages using the links below:

    myspace.com/dallasbridalshow

    myspace.com/planobridalshow

    myspace.com/fortworthbridalshow

    Do you have a myspace account? Add us as a friend to keep the network growing!


    New Posters Are Here!

    If you would like to display our Summer 2008 Schedule Poster, email info@bridalshowsinc.com with the following information:

    Your Name:
    Company Name:
    Street Address:
    City, State, Zip:
    How Many Posters Needed:

    A picture of the Summer poster is below.



    Motivational Messages

    "Neglected customers never buy; they just fade away."

    ~Elmer G. Leterman

    "The only way to know how customers see your business is to look at it through their eyes."

    ~Daniel R. Scroggin

    "It is not your customers' job to remember you. It is your obligation and responsibility to make sure they don't have the chance to forget you."

    ~Patricia Frip

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