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When Strange Things Happen
By HaRav Ariel Bar Tzadok. Copyright (C) 2009 by Ariel Bar Tzadok. All rights reserved.
There is a terrible misunderstanding about
religion that runs rampant in all segments of
religious communities. It has become a
common belief that because one is religious,
then somehow one's life is supposed to become
miraculously free of worry, hardships and
normal everyday troubles. Somehow it has
become a common belief that when normal
everyday troubles befall us we can simply
turn to words of Torah, recite certain
prayers or do certain rituals and then
magically all our problems just disappear.
Those of us who live in the real world and
live according to the real Torah recognize
that there is no such superstitious
connection between life's hardships and their
magical solutions. In other words, Torah is
not magic or superstition, it is real living
for real people facing real problems in the
real world. There is no mystical connection
between religious rituals, mystical prayers
or ceremonies and the challenges of real
circumstances that happen in real life.
Whether we like it or not, we are all subject
to natural daily troubles. As Curly Howard
would say, we are all, "victims of
circumstance" (nyuck, nyuck). And these, by
no means, are limited to the forces of nature
and the elements. I also include within this
the machinations and sufferings we experience
daily from other human beings. No human
being who has ever lived on Earth has ever
been free from daily problems. This is Torah
truth! Therefore, no religious person should
ever say or believe that just by being
religious makes one's problems to go away.
Anyone who turns to religion thinking that it
will somehow cure one of this or that problem
is making a serious mistake.
Life in this world is now and has always been
about hardships. In the words of the old
country western song, "I beg your pardon; I
never promised you a rose garden." We human
beings were kicked out of the Garden of Eden
and now we all live here on Jungle Earth.
Jungle living is no paradise. It is more
like Hell than Heaven. Indeed, were it not
for Torah we would have all degraded to the
level of the animal instead of striving to
become full human beings. Yet, in order to
become fully human Torah must be embraced
properly and in its natural and normal form.
Real Torah is about personal human
transformation. Real faith is the acceptance
of life's problems as having a greater
purpose and meaning in one's life. Walking
with G-d is like a test or even like a game.
This is the lesson we learn from every
Biblical and Talmudic role-model. Each of
them, without exception lived lives full of
turmoil and stress. We learn from them how
to we must deal with our own.
When something strange, bizarre and unusual
occurs, rather than lose control and stress
out over how one is to handle the unknown,
one should instead turns one's inner eye to
Heaven and silently says, "Ribono Shel
Olam (Master of the universe), I know there
is a purpose in this, I admit that I do not
know it and I certainly do not understand it,
nevertheless may You guide my mind, my heart
and my actions that I may navigate myself
through these circumstances with wisdom and
correctness. Let me do the right thing and
may you grant me insight, Amen."
This prayer expresses simple faith. Faith,
the Gemara (Macot 24) tell us sums up the
whole Torah and it is the definition of being
righteous (Habakuk). One who walks this
natural path of Living Torah has no need for
magical ceremonies or mystical rites
(Segulot). A person of true faith does not
believe in the fantasy of magic, nor does
such a one try to manipulate or influence
Heaven to go against its natural course and
in favor of one's personal desires. Such
attempts violate the very spirit of Torah and
contradict the very essence of faith.
Strange things and bad things happen daily.
Very strange things, even tragedies happen
regularly to even the most religious of the
religious. Those so afflicted may try a
number of spiritual remedies and seek out
numerous Kabbalists and Rabbis for blessings
and intervention. Sometimes these work, yet
many times they do not. When the promised
(and often paid for) magic does not work,
people often turn on themselves believing
that only if one were more worthy then
somehow the Torah magic would work. They
then turn to more and more strict religious
observances and prayers, only to find out
that still, they have not won the lotto or
that someone is still dying of cancer or that
still one cannot find a suitable marriage
partner. Magic blessings do not work any
magic. Only real hard word work brings about
real and tangible results. The best blessing
that one can receive is that one will be
granted the wisdom to see what needs to be
practically done and to do it.
When one has an issue in this real world, one
must pause, compose oneself, and silently
seek wisdom within how best it is to handle
the situation at hand. Magic does not work,
but practical, realistic steps do. G-d is
the author of the natural world. He is
Elohim (Gematria 86), creator of all the laws
of nature (HaTeva, Gematria also 86). What
is natural must be addressed naturally. This
should not be a revelation to anyone. It is
common sense and the foundation of our Torah.
In today's world we are bombarded with daily
confusion, troubles and turmoil. There is no
peace, not in the home, not in the society
and not in the economy. The present world
situation is enough to drive anyone insane.
Daily stress levels are literally putting
people in early graves.
To make matters even worse, everyday people
are acting in the most despicably impersonal,
inhuman and unsympathetic of ways. In the
business world, customer service is a joke.
It is more like customer abuse and no one
seems to care at all. Our politicians are in
a world of their own, apparently beholden
only to those who line their pockets with
election support. Our big businesses follow
interests which certainly seem not to take
into account the needs of the everyday worker
who makes those businesses thrive. We are
living in a heartless, immoral, uncaring
society and everyday matters seem to get
worse and worse.
Now, do not get all religious on me and start
quoting to me religious teachings about
optimism and the like. No, I refuse to look
at the world with "rose-colored" glasses and
say, "this too is for good." Our present
reality is pretty bad and we only lie to
ourselves when we redefine matters by turning
them upside down in order interpret them for
the best.
No, the world today is hopelessly corrupt.
And this is because the people in it are
hopelessly corrupt. Things will not get
magically better. No Messiah is coming to
sprinkle magic fairy-dust and to miraculously
change the hearts of evil and selfish people.
No, the evil and heartless are not destined
to be miraculously saved. The evil and
heartless are destined by Heaven to meet
their rightful destinies which is none other
than to reap the fruits of their own
planting. They will be forced to live in the
world of their own making and to die because
of it. No magic will change this; no amount
of religion will make this go away.
We are again in a time like the generation
before the Flood and like the generation that
was enslaved in Egypt. Both generations
witnessed a great cleansing which
materialized in the downfall and destruction
of the present civilization. Why on Earth do
we think we will fare any different? But
yes, we do believe that we are different,
that G-d will miraculous intervene and
magically make all our problems go away. We
run "la-de-da" around in blissful ignorance
and denial about the present state of the world.
Yes, strange things are happening around us,
some of them are devastating; almost all of
them are bad. Our magical belief in
protection by religion will not save us nor
keep us safe. The only thing that can ever
protect us is our shield of practical faith
and our swords of wisdom, using G-d given
common sense bestowed upon us by Heaven to
see the coming storm clouds and to take the
necessary precautions. Faith is not what you
believe; it is what you do!
Many may believe me to be overly pessimistic.
But let me tell you this, I am very well
aware of the positive in this world, the
countless number of good people and the deeds
that they do. Indeed, those good people
whoever and wherever they may be are indeed
blessed by Heaven and Heaven will protect
them. But Heaven will protect only them, not
everyone else, not necessarily even those
around them. Do not think that you can rely
upon the merits of this or that Tzadik and
thus all will be well with you. Do not think
that your donation to a Kabbalist or to his
yeshiva will somehow magically save you from
future troubles. Do not be so superstitious.
Do not be so na�ve.
Do not be deceived into believing that you
can somehow bribe Heaven. When we give we do
so for the right cause; to help another, not
for what we get out of it in return. Those
who give with sincerity receive with
sincerity. Those who give with strings
attached often get nothing in return. One
cannot fool Heaven; one can only fool one's
self. Rabbis and Kabbalists can and do pray
for people and solicit Heaven with sincerity
to show mercy upon those in sincere need.
But this is the limit of their powers. The
true Sages live by faith and they teach
others to do the same.
We must never be afraid of the future or of
the many enemies that surround us. Granted
they are stronger than us and committed to
our harm. We cannot change this so we should
not bother to try. What we should be doing
instead is making ourselves to be better,
more honorable human beings. We should do
everything in our power not to stoop to the
lows of those heartless SOBs who seek our
harm. We must be better than this!
We are human beings created in the Divine
Image. We therefore must act like human
beings and not like wounded animals. We are
human beings. We have names. We are not
numbers or mere cogs in a machine. We are
not mere components in the system of "Big
Brother" to be used and discarded when no
longer useful.
We will not change the world. We cannot
control what happens to us. But we can have
absolute control over how we respond to what
happens to us. When daily confronted by the
heartless bureaucrat who treats everyone like
a number or like a thing, we can respond like
human beings. This does not mean that we are
always nice, smiley and turning the other
cheek in perpetual forgiveness. On the
contrary, such is not the Torah way.
Only when one is remorseful for wanton
behavior and expresses such with true
sincerity and change of behavior do we open
our arms to embrace and forgive. Yet, when
heartless people continue to act like
animals, it is then a mitzvah to treat them
like they deserve. We do no lower ourselves
to act towards them as they act towards us,
but we do keep our encounters with them
brief, businesslike and highly impersonal.
They do not like us and we in turn do not
like them. They want to treat us like
numbers or like fellow animals; we in turn
must remember who we are and act as human
beings. When our fellow human beings act
like animals, we distance ourselves from them
as we would from any other wild animal. Such
human animals are dangerous and should be
avoided at all costs.
I never believe in mistreating another, still
I never allow them to treat me with less
dignity than any human being deserves. Some
might consider this to be a path towards
confrontation and being non-conforming. So
be it. Let people consider what they wish.
They will not be around for much longer. Do
you really think the world can go on as it is
for another generation without fundamental
radical changes that will change the very
fabric of society itself?
We live in strange, uncertain, and unstable
times. Things will not be getting better
soon. The storm clouds are on the horizon
and those who wish to survive had better
start thinking about this now. My dear
readers, you have no idea of what is "coming
down the pike" in the short time to come.
You may not see it, notice it or maybe even
care about it. But it is coming nonetheless.
It is time for the sleepers to awaken, while
they still have the ability to be aroused.
The animals will perish and only the true
human beings will survive.
Torah teaches us how to be human beings in
our present jungle world. We cannot escape
the trials and tribulations of jungle life.
Torah does not transform our world into a
garden. All Torah does is to give us the
opportunity to transform ourselves. Bad
things will continue to happen. This is the
nature of the jungle. We cannot control it.
All we can do is learn to respond humanly
and humanely.
Do not turn to religion for miracles; rather
turn to Torah for wisdom, proper guidance and
natural (Elokim=HaTeva) direction.
Superstitions and misguided faith will always
let you down. Real Torah and real faith on
the other hand will always lift you up.
Trust in Heaven and do the right things, but
do not think that one without the other is
enough. Faith is what you do, not what you
believe. Stop believing in make-believe
religious magic. This is not Torah. Start
being real. Be a man! This is a lesson equal
for all males and females. Only in this is
Heaven's blessing. As Benjamin Franklin said,
"G-d helps those who help themselves." Do
not expect Heaven to do what we are supposed
to do, but do trust in G-d that He can and
will do that which we cannot.
The animals are being corralled, only to be
hunted down. The jungle will soon be cut
down. Chose wisely if you truly wish to
stand up and be human; for if you do, now is
the time to start acting it.
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Shalom, HaRav Ariel Bar Tzadok