News from Jill                             March 2011

 

 

Greetings!

 

On March 13th, our focus will again be on "saving time."  As  Daylight Saving Time approaches, I've been thinking about how our expectations and patience have been altered over time. 

 

Here's something interesting I discovered in watching an old musical on tv recently.  No, it wasn't "The Sound of Music" released Mar . 2 in 1965,  nor was it "Singing in the Rain" released Mar. 27, 1952.  The one I  watched did have Gene Kelly in it, however.   As "Brigadoon," a 1954 release rolled onto the screen, I found myself bored to death during the first 30 minutes and couldn't figure out why.  This was the movie with the "vanishing village" that had fascinated me as a child.    Disappointed with my movie choice to blast me to my past,  I quit watching the movie and joined my hubby in the next room watching something on ESPN while characteristicly switching back and forth between Discovery Channel.  Then, it hit me! I realized why I was so bored with Brigadoon!

 

It's our attention span.  We are bombarded with information. We are quickly expected and forced to deal with tsunamis of information coming at lightning speed at a relentless pace.  When we sit to watch tv, even the time of scenes/camera angles have been dramatically reduced to keep up with our altered expectations of how we spend our time on a single focus.   I counted the scenes on ESPN...16 seconds...13 seconds.... that seemed to be the longest time allowed for each scene and actually that was too long for me! 

 

I went back to Brigadoon....3 MINUTES on a single scene.  Jeez.... No wonder I was bored.     Then I started thinking about what we've gained and what we've lost with these demands of so little patience with time.   The Monopoly game was invented in March 1933.  Remember how long it takes to play Monopoly?  Does anybody out there play it?   Sure, we all have at least ONE version of Monopoly in our game closet, but does anybody actually play and FINISH it?  Even as a kid, I remember thinking....oh that takes so much time! And there were always so many other ways that I wanted to spend time with my friends when they came over to play! 

 

So, it's only appropriate, that as Daylight Saving Time begins on March 13, we think about, "What are we really saving time for?" 

 

Here's my thought:   Be EXCEPTIONAL in every minute.  Think about this minute, this hour, this day, this week, this month, this year, about what time really means to you and if given an extra minute, hour, day, month, year to live, what would you be doing with it? Your answer to that question is  what saving time is all about....  Using time for doing what is most important to you. Funny, deciding what is most important to us is what most of us spend so little time thinking about  and even less time in DOING it.  This month, this year, here's to saving time for doing what is most important to you! 

                       

Wishing you the time of your life!

Jill Hickman

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Time.  Time is a word, a concept, so drenched with extreme emotion and polar attitudes; elusive and coveted like the gold at the end of the rainbow.  We often hear time is money and know examples where money can't buy time.  As a Trainer and Instructional Designer, one of the most popular business classes that I develop and train is on Time Management.   A recent conversation with Jill even involved outsmarting my own work and family life time-waster gremlins.  Every day and every moment is an opportunity to practice time management skills.  if we don't learn to manage time, time manages us.  We're going to all be faced with a major time challenge, Sunday the 13th.  How will you deal with it?

 

If you're like me, you're going to walk around and pout for at least a week about the hour that was stolen from you on Sunday the 13th.  We'll walk into our offices, school and all sorts of work places on Monday to grim faces complaining about how "off" we all feel due to the time change.  I just now figured out how to turn my car clock ahead.  I mean, whose idea was this anyway?  And don't they know I'm already behind on my laundry for the week?

 

So what  if you got that extra hour back (that was so mercilessly stolen from you) on any day at any time you chose?  What would you do with it?  How would you spend it?  Would you do something you always wanted?  Or would you do something you needed to catch up on?  Would you read a good book?  Play with your kids?  Take a nap?  Catch up on work?  Go through the mail?  My advice would be to spend that hour on an important goal you have or something that is very important to you.

 

This brings up a critical question.  How do we choose to spend our time overall?  What will matter at the end of the day?  At the end of the year, five years, ten years...on our death bed?  Make a list or a pie chart of the things that are most important to you and in what proportion and be sure that you are dedicating your time to those things and to that degree overall.

 

There will be days where you'll be spending a disproportionate amount of time on work, family, or other commitments.  You won't be able to divide your time equally daily.  But in the end, keep an eye on things and be sure to balance things out.  Be true to what's most important to you and allot most of your time to that, then to the next item of most importance on your list and so forth.  Then you should feel that your time is well spent...even if you lost an hour on the 13th.  But be of good cheer, you get it back in the fall!

 

Let me leave you with a few "freebie" time management tips.  Enjoy!

 

1.  Always "schedule" time in your day for unexpected interruptions.  They WILL occur.

2.  Tasks will take longer than you think.

3.  Plan for prep time and wrap-up time before and after meetings.

4.  Prioritize your work.

5.  Can you delegate some of your work?

6.  Use your peak energy time to get your most important work done but...

7.  Don't wait to get motivated.

8.  Use flags, folders, tasks, reminders, calendar in Outlook to manage your time.

9.  Learn how to manage drop-in visitors.  Remove chairs/candy from your office; stand, politely ask if you can continue the conversation later.

10.  When all else fails, keep an honest hourly daily log for at least a week to see where your time is spent.  You will be surprised.  It will be time well spent.  Make adjustments accordingly.  You may also see that what you thought was wasted time is not.  Either way, it will be worth seeing where your time is going - especially helpful if you are transitioning to a new position. 

 

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Jill December 2010

Jill Hickman, SPHR

Focus on Success Coach

Founder, The Women's Leadership Advisory Board

 

 

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