The Advocates' Voice
November/December 2011

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In This Issue
Register for DCADV's Annual Meeting by December 7
Save the Dates! Upcoming DCADV Events
In the News
"It's Time to Talk" Day
16 Days of Activism
Free and Easy Ways to Support DCADV
"Pick a Prize" Raffle Winners
Zeta Phi Beta Raises Funds for DCADV
Racing to the Top Against Media Messages
Avon Supports DCADV
DELTA Teaches Healthy Relationships
Disabilities and Domestic Violence

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2011 Annual Meeting 

Join Us for Our
Annual Breakfast & Meeting 

Wednesday, December 14
9:00 to 10:30 a.m.
Dover Downs
Delaware Room
Dover, Delaware

Remarks begin at 9:30 a.m. This event is free but registration is required.

Click here to register online by December 7. 

 

DV Meeting Calendar

Click here for the December DV Meeting Calendar.

Upcoming Trainings

To view a listing of upcoming national and regional trainings, 
 

DCADV Events

Save the Dates!

DV101 Training 

When: March 6 & 7, 2012

Where: Delaware Technical & Community College, Terry Campus, Dover 

DCADV's Annual Advocates' Retreat 

When: May 14 & 15, 2012

Where: Atlantic Sands Hotel, Rehoboth

 

Look for details and registration information in early 2012. 

In the News:
DCADV Press Releases 

Conference to be held for teachers and parents examining the impact of media messages on children, September 5, 2011

  

Local leaders to be honored for protecting victims of domestic violence, October 19, 2011

"It's Time to Talk" Day
It's Time to Talk

This year's "It's Time to Talk" Day  will be held on Thursday, December 8, 2011. Liz Claiborne Inc. and its partners have been joining forces for It's Time to Talk Day annually as a way to encourage greater public dialogue about domestic violence.

 

16 Days of Activism 
16 Days of Activism 

The 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence campaign is international, starting November 25 -- the International Day Against Violence Against Women and ending December 10 -- International Human Rights Day -- in order to symbolically link violence against women and human rights and to emphasize that such violence is violation of human rights

 

Free and Easy Ways
to Support DCADV
Every Day  

DCADV is now part of GoodSearch.com, a company that helps nonprofits raise funds through the everyday actions of supporters like you.  

Here's how it works:

Use GoodSearch when you search the internet - they will donate a penny to DCADV every time you do.

Use GoodShop.com when you shop online - they work with more than 2,500 major brands, have over 100,000 coupons, and donate a percentage of every purchase you make to us.

Enroll in GoodDining.com  - they will donate up to 6% of every dollar you spend when you eat at one of 10,000 participating restaurants.

Please join our community on GoodSearch.com and help us raise money for our mission. Get started by clicking the "Become a Supporter" button on our profile page here!

 

Purple Ribbon Event 

 

Mona Bayard, Carol Post, Jessica Schiffman, and Sue Else

On October 20th, DCADV members and supporters from throughout the state gathered at the Delaware Center for the Contemporary Arts in Wilmington for our annual Domestic Violence Month Awareness Month event. They helped us honor Dr. Jessica Schiffman with the Vision of Peace Award and Mona Bayard with the Spirit of Advocacy Award. Click here to read about the honorees.

 

At the opening cocktail party, over 150 attendees enjoyed live music by the Ellen Liebowitz Jazz Trio and elegant refreshments including a purple martini crafted for the event. First Lady of Delaware Carla Markell welcomed guests to the ceremony. Other speakers were Cherelyn Homlish, DCADV Board Chair; William R. Allan, President of Verizon Delaware; Mario Turco, President of the Verizon Wireless Philadelphia Tri-State Region; Lieutenant Governor of Delaware Matt Denn; and Carol Post, Executive Director of DCADV. Keynote Speaker Sue Else, President of the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV), concluded the ceremony after Dr. Schiffman and Ms. Bayard were honored. The event, including the "Pick a Prize" Raffle (see below for a list of winners!) raised over $24,500 for DCADV's media, advocacy, and general operating costs.  

 

Purple Ribbon Event Attendees
Purple Ribbon Event attendees
Click here to see more event photos and a list of our sponsors. We thank our sponsors, members, partners, and friends for making the 2011 Purple Ribbon Event a success, and we look forward to seeing you again next year! 

 

"Pick a Prize" Raffle Winners

Congratulations to the raffle winners, and thank you to all who participated in this important fundraising component of the event!

Joe Torres Baseball Package
Cindy O'Connor
Salon 828 Gift Basket & FacialKaren St. John
Rainbow Chorale Concert TicketsJanet Ray
Weekend at Rehoboth BeachElias Rhanim
Cultural Tour of Brandywine ValleyPamela Tyranski
DV Awareness Plate by First Lady
of Delaware
Faye Myers
Moore Brothers Wine Tasting PartyCarol Bouzoukis
UD Sports & Alumni PackageAnnabelle Tatman
Joseph Anthony Gift Basket
& Gift Certificate
Marie Laberge
Eagles TicketsCarl White
 

Sorority sisters from Germany to the U.S. East Coast raised funds and collected phones for DCADV

Zeta Phi Beta logo

The Atlantic Region of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. presented DCADV with two generous gifts during their recent biannual regional conference in Wilmington. DCADV was chosen as the region's 2011 Community Service Award Recipient and was honored at their Z-HOPE (Zetas Helping Other People Excel) Awards Recognition Dinner on October 14th. Carol Post, DCADV's Executive Director, was presented with a plaque, a check for $2,350, and

517 used cell phones collected by Zeta Chapters and Amicae Auxiliaries from Delaware, Maryland, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Tri-State (Massachusetts, Rhode Island, and Connecticut). These cell phones resulted in $595.75 from Shelter Alliance, a national company that recycles cell phones and smart phones, raising thousands of unrestricted dollars each year for organizations like DCADV.

 

To learn more about Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. - Atlantic Region, visit http://www.atlanticregionzetas.org.

 

To find out how your group can hold its own cell phone drive to benefit DCADV, contact Stephanie Ferrell at 302-658-2958 or  sferrell@dcadv.org.

 

Racing to the Top Against Media Messages  

Members of the Prevention Subcommittee with Senator Chris Coons and DCADV Executive Director Carol Post

On September 16th at Delaware Technical and Community College in Dover, the Prevention Subcommittee of the Delaware Victims Rights' Task Force and the Domestic Violence Task Force held a conference entitled "Racing to the Top Against Media Messages: How They are Hindering the Next Generation."

Keynote Speaker Mark Tappan with the Prevention Subcommittee
This day-long conference brought together nearly 100 teachers, youth service providers, parents, and other community members to examine the various ways harmful norms and media messages set the stage for violence and inequality while also impacting our children's social and emotional development, academic achievement, and health and well being. Featured speakers included Mark Tappan, Ed.D., Professor and Director of Education and Human Development at Colby College; Roberta Gealt, Associate Scientist, Center for Drug and Alcohol Studies; and Senator Chris Coons. For more information about the Prevention Subcommittee please visit www.safeandrespectful.org.

 

Avon Supports DCADV Public Awareness Efforts 

Debbie Wilson, Avon; Cherelyn Homlish, DCADV Board Chair; Carol Post, DCADV Executive Director; and Dee Wilson, Avon
is dedicated to women's empowerment, and fighting domestic violence is one of their major philanthropic focuses. DCADV is fortunate to have Avon's continued support for the second year in a row. Representatives from Avon presented the DCADV Board with a check for $27,500 on November 8th to support public awareness efforts.

Avon agrees that it is imperative to increase public awareness about the terrible cost of domestic violence in our country, where it's estimated that one in four women will be victimized in her lifetime. Their support allows DCADV to continue engaging in public education initiatives that are aimed at raising awareness in the community and providing information regarding the services and resources available to victims needing help. Over the years, public information activities have included public education campaigns, media interviews, op ed pieces on issues related to violence against women, and events such as our annual Purple Ribbon Event. DCADV also provides valuable information that connects victims with the resources and services provided by our member and partner direct service programs, including resource cards, posters with hotline information, and information and referrals via phone and our website.

This is the second year Avon has provided this funding, but their support hasn't stopped there. DCADV's local liaisons to the Avon Foundation have gotten personally involved. Debbie Wilson, District Sales Manager, has joined DCADV's Women of Color Task Force, and Phyllis Russo, Marathon Division Sales Manager, is joining DCADV's Communications and Development Committee. Avon also supported the 2011 Advocates' Retreat by providing gift bags for our 130 participants and two beautiful door prizes. Click here to purchase products that support Avon's domestic violence funding.

 

DELTA Teacher Training Focuses on Healthy Relationships   

On October 7th at Dover Downs in Dover, the Domestic Violence Prevention Enhancement and Leadership Through Alliances (DELTA) Program Coordinators held a statewide teacher training on their Department of Education-approved "Healthy Relationships" curriculum. This day-long training for teachers and youth service providers focused on the implementation of the curriculum and provided helpful tips and tools for using the curriculum in their classrooms. The goal of the DELTA Program is to work with communities to strategize how to address the root causes of abuse before it ever occurs, so that we can move closer to eliminating the tragic and pervasive social problem of violence against women. These strategies work to change knowledge, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors around underlying factors, such as gender norms and forms of oppression, that contribute to domestic violence. These strategies are at the core of the Healthy Relationships curriculum. Read more about DELTA in Delaware

 

Disabilities and Domestic Violence    

Last year DCADV, with community partners NAMI Delaware and The Center for Disabilities Studies at the University of Delaware, was awarded a three-year grant from the Office of Violence Against Women to improve and expand services to individuals with disabilities, including mental illness, who experience domestic violence. This project complements the Mental Health and Trauma work begun by DCADV in a national collaborative in 2009. This article is Part 2 of a series on Disabilities and Domestic Violence; Part 3 will focus on the trauma-informed approach to care.

What is Mental Illness?
Mental illness refers to a wide range of mental health conditions: disorders that affect a person's mood, thinking, and behavior. Examples of mental illness include depression, anxiety disorders, schizophrenia, eating disorders, and addictive behaviors.

 While 1 in 4 adults experience a mental health condition in any given year, about 1 in 17 lives with a serious mental illness, such as schizophrenia, major depression, or bipolar disorder (read more at www.nami.org). Some conditions, such as those on the autism spectrum, are considered both a mental illness and a developmental disability. When a mental illness seriously impacts one's ability to function, the experience is considered a psychiatric disability.

People with these conditions may find it especially difficult to cope with the challenges of life. While there is no "cure" for mental illness, recovery (a way of living a satisfying, hopeful, and contributing life even with limitations caused by the illness) is the goal of treatment.

Why Focus on Women with Mental Illness and Domestic Violence?
The relationship between mental illness and domestic violence is complex. The experience of domestic violence is traumatic, and the reactions to trauma, including survival strategies, can mimic the symptoms associated with a mental illness. Also, the direct impact of domestic violence and abuse may lead to depression, anxiety, and other emotional problems.

In addition, a women who is diagnosed with a mental health problem may feel stigmatized, which can result in social isolation and exclusion, and make it even harder than other women to report or even to name their experience as domestic violence. When they do seek help, their credibility may be questioned and they may be unable to access any suitable sources of support.

A Challenge to Providers
Domestic violence is very prevalent among women seeking mental health services; some surveys indicate that at least half of all women who use mental health services have experienced domestic violence, and about 20% of them are experiencing current abuse.
 
Abused women are very likely to attempt suicide, with some surveys indicating that one third of all female suicide attempts are related to domestic violence. Women who have been abused are 15 times more likely to abuse alcohol and 9 times more likely to abuse drugs than women who have not been abused. In 2002, the Department of Justice found that 36% of victims in domestic violence programs also had substance abuse problems.
 
Mental health and substance abuse service providers are not routinely trained to address the social factors that entrap victims in abusive relationships, which can result in falsely interpreting survival strategies as disorders, and may not be aware of the advocacy needs (shelter, legal assistance, safety planning) of domestic violence victims, which impact the success of treatment.

We're very excited about our collaborative disability and mental health projects that are aimed at increasing knowledge among all providers who interact with victims of domestic violence and work to improve the services available to them.