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2011 Introductory Retreats 


An introductory Courage to Lead retreat provides an opportunity to experience renewal and self-reflection among a group of peer nonprofit leaders. Many attend an introductory retreat in advance of deciding whether to apply for the full 13-month program. We have scheduled two introductory retreat opportunities:

 

July 20 - 22, 2011

 

OR

 

Aug. 31 - Sep. 2, 2011 

  

Retreats start at 4:00 pm on Wednesday and end at noon on Friday, and are held at La Casa de Maria retreat center near Santa Barbara, California. The cost of the two-day, two-nightIntro retreat is $500, which includes room and board. Scholarship funds are available to help make the program financially accessible. Applications are available online and are due by June 15, 2011.



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After a long career, eight books, and more than one hundred essays, Parker J. Palmer (who created the circle of trust model used in our Courage to Lead program) has embraced Facebook!  Over the past few months, he's been posting most days, and corresponding with his thousands of "fans."

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Dear Friends:

 

Please enjoy this Winter 2011 issue of our Courage to Lead newsletter.   

 

In each issue, we include a personal perspective from a nonprofit executive.  Niki Sandoval's column below about the importance of holding tensions in times of conflict is thought-provoking and important.  Please make time to read it if you can.

 

Also, it's official!  Courage to Lead is growing again!  We will launch our third cohort later this fall.  And in advance of that, we are providing two Introductory Retreat opportunities this summer to experience a Courage to Lead retreat and see what it's all about.  So if you haven't yet experienced our program and feel there might be something here for you, this is the year to consider trying it out!  You can find out more in this newsletter and on our website.

 

      Ken   

 

Culture Matters

Ken Saxon


When I moved to Santa Barbara 15 years ago and was looking to engage with my new community through volunteer service, I got a great piece of advice.  A longtime nonprofit volunteer told me to choose the organizations I worked with based on the culture and the people, not the cause.

 

At first, this seemed counter-intuitive to me.  What could be more integral to fulfilling volunteer service than a cause one was strongly committed to?  Wouldn't that make it all worthwhile, even when the going got tough?

 

Actually, no.  I've served on boards of organizations where I love the cause but not the people, or where there is a significant amount of interpersonal dysfunction, and my experience is that nothing makes that service fulfilling for me.  I just want to flee.

 

On the other hand, I've had several experiences serving on boards of nonprofits that are going through very difficult times, but where I really like and respect the board and staff leaders I serve with - and that keeps me committed and coming back.

 

Why do some organizations attract and keep great people, even through hard times, while others are more like a revolving door?  Why do staff and volunteers engage and give the best of what they've got some places, and at others they do the bare minimum?Ken 

 

I think much of the answer to these questions comes down to culture.  In a nutshell, organizational culture is the "personality" of an organization - the attitudes, values, norms and assumptions that dominate there.  Culture is very powerful, and trying to make organizational change without understanding culture is futile.

 

The first step in changing organizational culture is to develop a shared awareness of the culture as it is now, what is helpful about it, and what about it holds the organization back.  This is a critical understanding, because when culture is not properly aligned with strategic objectives, it can be an enormous and often insurmountable liability.

 

What needs to change in your organization's culture?  Maybe you need a culture that is more engaged, or collaborative, or innovative, or risk-taking.  Some organizations need to get more externally oriented, because of a changing environment or a need for more resources.  Others need a more performance-oriented staff culture, or one more open to outcomes measurement.

 

Trying to change culture is a powerful intervention, but there are very real obstacles.  To begin with, culture change is not a quick fix, but a long-term intervention.  So many nonprofit leaders I see are always racing to make plan or keep the doors open and their programs going.  A focus on culture can feel like something they have no time for.

 

And as a leader who puts so much of yourself into your organization, it can be really hard to open yourself to change.  If you see the way things are as a reflection of you, then any talk of change may bring up defensiveness in you.  And you will be a big wet blanket on everyone else involved in the change process - either resulting in no real change, or to conflict as people confront you as an obstacle to change.

 

As a board leader over many years, my biggest frustration has been when I come up against leaders (staff or board) who have gotten rigid and who see new questions and insights as threats to be parried rather than opportunities to look afresh at one's mission and core programs.  Leaders like this tend to frustrate those staff members and volunteers who want to engage with a spirit of inquiry and curiosity.

 

So as a nonprofit leader, how can you keep from becoming an obstacle to change?  How can you lead so people with energy, creativity and passion will choose to engage (and donate and fundraise!) with your organization, rather than flee?

 

I think that's where renewal and inner leadership work, like the work we do in Courage to Lead, is a big help.  Courage to Lead supports nonprofit executives with a number of things that help them stay open to change, including:

   *  Regular time away - to provide perspective

   *  Opportunities for reflection - to connect with one's

          values and integrity

   *  Practices that support self-mastery - like listening

          non-judgmentally

   *  Trusted peer relationships - to provide inspiration

          and mutual support

   *  Rest & self-care - to support our better self to

          emerge in our leadership 

 

Investing in your own renewal and leadership prepares you for engaging in discussions about culture and change in a non-defensive way, and opens you up to alternative perspectives and new paradigms.  And that can help you attract and keep the kind of people your organization needs to navigate the perilous waters ahead.

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Ken Saxon has facilitated groups for 20 years. Following a successful business career as an entrepreneur, he put his skills to work in the nonprofit sector as a Board leader, facilitator and coach. It was there that he was inspired to meet and work with many nonprofit leaders - heroic people doing critical work.  Yet he was shocked at how little was being invested in them.  Ken founded Courage to Lead, a leadership and renewal program, to build support and community around nonprofit executive leaders so they can do their best work and live their best lives.

 

Ken is a graduate of Stanford's Graduate School of Business and Princeton University.  He serves on a number of nonprofit boards, including the the Eleos Foundation, the Orfalea Fund, and Santa Barbara Middle School.

 

Leading through Conflict

Niki Sandoval

 

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My muscles constrict.  My breath betrays me in sudden, shallow bursts.  The anxiety that results from conflict makes my whole body uncomfortable.  I would rather avoid friction.  In spite of my heart's desire to maintain peaceful relationships, I am aware of the necessity to confront discord.   

I work and live with human beings.  Intellectually, I know that it is healthier to acknowledge divergence and work through it.  I have moved through some of these struggles with grace, and fumbled through even more.

In my earliest experiences of Courage to Lead, the concept of holding the tension was one that did not speak to me immediately.  It patiently waited for me in silence while I continued to attack problems as I always did - surgically and swiftly.  Group work brought vexing quandaries that begged me to solve them urgently. 

I am living through a conflict that involves several strong and passionate individuals who are deeply invested in the outcome.  What we want to accomplish is in sync.  How we want to accomplish it is not.  Motivations differ.  Our dissonance has been simmering insistently in a heavy, tightly shut pot.

 

The concept of "welcoming all that is arising" has invited me to reframe the way I view this conflict.  The term is described in The Power of Collective Wisdom and the Trap of Collective Folly, by Alan Briskin,  et.al.  The authors remind me that in my unease, welcoming all that is arising "encourages us to welcome the pleasant and unpleasant aspects of group life, recognizing that even disruptive obstacles or difficult circumstances can be critical aspects of our passage to wholeness."  I Nikiam moved to lift the lid on our hot, bubbling pot and stir. 

 

I take this step in great faith.  In holding the tension between our immediate, painful, reality and the energy our friction brings, we may be propelled on an undiscovered and necessary path.  My hope is that we surface renewed and engaged in our commitment.        

Through Courage to Lead, I have given myself time to hold the tension in times of conflict.  In doing so, I see gifts of opportunity emerge.  I am learning to welcome all that arises. 

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Niki Sandoval, Ph.D., has contributed 20 years to cultural, educational, and philanthropic institutions as a consultant, leader, and volunteer.  As Education Director for the Santa Ynez Band of Chumash Indians, she guides educational investments in her community's people.  Her work embraces children and families from birth through adulthood by supporting kindergarten readiness, educational attainment, and career transitions.  A lecturer in UCSB's Education Department, she collaborates with students pursuing careers in teaching, academic counseling, and school psychology.

 

She resides in Lompoc with her husband, John Gustafsson, and their beloved dogs, Roy and Stella. 

Ken Saxon

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