Mary's Hope Workshops
March 2011  
The Journeyer
Mary's Hope Workshops Newsletter


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Daffodils in Snow

March can seem like the eternal winter will never end...but the crocuses and daffodils still persist in poking their noses out of the cold, cold earth to bring the gift of hope....  Sometimes the healing journey can feel like it never will end either, but there IS hope.  In this edition, we share the hope that survivors find. 

Pay It Forward! 

Person paying it forward with money

  Ever Wondered What Difference it Makes???  

 

 

As of March 1, 2011, in the 13 months since we began offering Pay It Forward

scholarships (thanks to a generous donation by one of our attendees), fully 66% of our attendees have received Pay it Forward scholarships. And of those, 52%  have been paid back.  One person set up a regular donation to pay back her scholarship and add to the fund for someone else! 

 

 

These are difficult economic times. We believe these people couldn't have come if we hadn't been able to offer financial help.   Their responses on the workshop evaluations tell us how much they valued and benefited from what they experienced:

 

      This workshop has helped me gain insight into ways of healing issues       that are very difficult to heal.  That there is hope for healing of childhood wounds.

 

 

Right now, the balance of the fund stands at  just $60.00.  That will cover ONE more scholarship. 

 

 

Won't you help fill the bucket back up?  If you were blessed by a Pay it Forward scholarship, and haven't yet paid into the fund...could you help out now? And, if others can chip in too, we can continue to offer the gift of hope  to all who would wish to come to our workshops, regardless of their financial situation.

 

 

Abuse happens in secrecy.  Healing happens in community.  Please be generous, and become part of the healing community for those who have suffered abuse and trauma as children.  Give today: 

 

Click to Donate Via Giving First 

 

 

or send a check to

 

Mary's Hope

8174 S Holly St. #463

Centennial, CO 80122

 

Please indicate that your donation is for Pay It Forward.   

 

 

Your gift of hope will be a blessing.

THANK YOU! 

 

 

Hope can be elusive...but when ours grows Hope, This Way

dim, we can borrow the hope of others on  

this journey.  Read more stories of survivors' hope: In the August 2008  

 edition, we  explore hope in the journey from victim to  survivor.

 Click here to access Archived Newsletters!  


HOPE

 

I heard from a friend whose family struggles with chronic illness --and right now the war is being waged on multiple fronts.... She sent me an email saying, "This is the first time I have really felt like there is no way out." 

 

I can relate.

 

Living as a survivor of profound childhood abuse and trauma, I have had days when I felt that perhaps this was as all there was.  That there was no hope.  That things would never get better.  That I would be forever identified by what happened to me. That I would be stuck in this healing spiral forever--that there was no way out.

 

But, after several years of therapy, spiritual direction, multiple Mary's Hope Workshops, 7 writing journals and 6 journals' worth of making marks on paper--I don't feel like that anymore, at least not most of the time.  I have come to the place where there is more hope on the horizon than despair.  I have come to a place where I can see a light at the end of the tunnel--and it doesn't come from a freight train bearing down on me!

 

On March 5th, we held an Advanced Workshop, in Centennial, Colorado, where over a dozen people --including 4 who will take what they learned back to their ministry in Indonesia--came together to learn, experience and share about the Spiritual Healing Journey.  We laughed, we cried.  We built stuff with playdough and Zome tools.  We challenged our restrictive and burdensome understandings of forgiveness, repentance and reconciliation and cracked open the door to hope and healing.  We gingerly held the possibility of baby steps to healing--as carefully as we hold that Rage Ball--so that we could examine the reality without hurting ourselves.   And we each took a baby step in the process of forgiveness, releasing one small thing to the care of our Creator. 

 

And, once again, for those people in that room, HOPE became a real possibility.  As we took those small steps towards knowing--really knowing--that we are beloved of our Creator, the "glorious light of freedom" beckoned.  

 

You just had to be there....

 

Elaine Oxenbury 

 

  

The Deep Well of Later Life

 

A water well in winter

There is a particular winter

without seasonal cure

where that which has lain dormant, innate, unattended

must be unearthed and fed.

 

The paths we've known, chosen or not

have petered out in the wood.

We've arrived here, heads down and focused

the absence of obstruction as compass

feet shod with the roles provided by our time.

 

 

So much time has passed.

 

 

Now, this nettle of brush before and beside every familiar move.

Dim light amid a nattering of insects annoying the skin.

The edge of panic a constant and uninvited companion.

 

Yes, there are limits now:

age, incredulity, resources.

But in the midst of all these,

when we finally banish the voices

of all those familiar judges

with their noisy gavels and demands for order

 

freedom

 

waiting to be welcomed with our weary, hard-earned maturity.

With it, glorious light

bright and unexpected

new insight, new shoes, new paths

and rich, refreshing

possibilities.

 

Who knew

at the age we are now

new life emerges

with its own indefatigable persistence.

 

by Skippy --a survivor on her healing journey 

 

Sherry Niermann and Diane Moore 

Mary's Hope Workshops

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303-377-0293

www.maryshope.org

maryshope@qwestoffice.net