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February is Eating Disorders Awareness Month
Did You know?
- 2 out of 5 women would trade 3 to 5 years of their life to achieve their weight goals.
- Young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents.
- More than 80% of 4th grade girls have been on a fad diet.
- Approximately 7 million girls and women struggle with eating disorders.
- 80% of children who are ten years old are afraid of being fat.
- The "ideal" woman - portrayed by models, Miss America, Barbie dolls, and screen actresses - is 5'5, weighs 100 pounds and wears a size 5.
- Up to one-half of individuals with eating disorders abuse alcohol or illicit drugs, compared to nine percent of the general population.
Can You Relate?
1. Are you, at times, unable to stop (or start) eating even when you really want to?
2. Do you feel guilty about eating?
3. Are you, at times, afraid to eat?
4. Do you feel like people watch you when you eat?
5. Do you sneak food or hoard food so people won't know how much or how little you are eating?
6. Are you ritualistic about eating?
7. Do you obsess about food or body weight?
8. Do you spend much of your time thinking about what, when and where you will eat next?
9. Are you constantly making resolutions about eating and not following through?
10. Do you often feel panicked?
11. Do you regularly feel useless, unworthy, disgusted or powerless?
12. Do you often eat so much or little that it affects your plans for the day?
If your answer is "yes" to three or more of these questions, you may have a problem with food. In fact, you may have an eating disorder.
Now What?
Well, the most important thing is to approach this problem calmly. You did not "get" a problem with food or an eating disorder overnight: it will not go away overnight, either. There are many options for learning to live with your condition. Any effort you make in addressing your problem will have the positive effect of helping you accept yourself as you are: self-acceptance is a very important key to recovery.
Solving the Problem
In most if not all cases, working with a qualified therapist is very helpful. Many of us have found it essential. A therapist can help you evaluate what other forms of treatment might be appropriate in your case. Many of us have found working with a nutritionist beneficial as well. There is no magic about recovery. It is hard work. Those who have worked hard at leveling their pride, being honest with themselves and others, and attempting -- repeatedly - to "the next right thing" really do find freedom, happiness, peace and self-respect.
This work, however, typically requires much inspiration and support. There are bound to be setbacks and moments of terror and frustration. Support groups provide the necessary example and inspiration, and provide opportunity for turning the most deeply painful and humbling experiences to useful purpose. E.D.A. is one such support group.
What is EDA?
Eating Disorders Anonymous is a voluntary fellowship of individuals who meet together to share solutions for and recovery from eating disorders. The only requirement for membership is a desire to recover from an eating disorder. Our primary purpose is to recover from our eating disorders and to carry this message of recovery to others with eating disorders. For more information on EDA please visit http://www.eatingdisordersanonymous.org/ .
Attend an EDA Meeting at Cedars
Eating Disorder Anonymous Meetings now at Cedars on Monday nights at 6:30!
Sources: Article provided by EDA www.eatingdisordersanonymous.org |
Nutrition & Your Recovery
Addicts active in their addiction typically have poor eating habits. Poor eating habits can result in malnutrition and a host of health problems. Not surprisingly research has shown that recovering addicts need nutrition-rich foods in order to help rebuild damaged bodies. A healthy, balanced diet will not only help restore our various bodily systems to appropriate functioning, it helps improve our mood, sense of wellbeing, and ability to cope with stress.
Those in recovery are well advised to keep the following in mind:
Establish a routine. As addicts active in our addiction we probably didn't eat regular healthy meals. Regular meals - breakfast, lunch, and dinner - are a must as fluctuations in blood sugar levels can leave us feeling unsteady. We want to avoid feeling too hungry which can make us irritable, anxious, or depressed and thus prone to making poor decisions. Keep healthy snacks such as a handful of nuts or a piece of fruit readily available for between meals.
Drink water. Dehydration is common for substance abusers. In recovery we need to get in the habit of drinking lots of water as every system in the body depends on water for optimal functioning. Drinking water helps the body absorb nutrition and flush toxins from your system. To make sure you get enough water, here are some tips:
· Drink a glass of water with every meal - and between every
meal.
· Drink water before, during, and after exercise.
· Substitute water or sparkling water for other drinks (soda
pop, coffee) at social gatherings and work functions.
Watch out for caffeine. Too much coffee - four or more cups a day - can cause restlessness, sleeplessness, anxiety, jitteriness, irritability, and other problems that may hinder your recovery. If you drink coffee in moderation, you'll most likely be just fine. However you may want to avoid so-called energy drinks. They boost your energy because they're loaded with caffeine - and sugar, which can lead to weight gain and cause other problems. And the energy boost you get is only temporary, no matter what claims they make. Energy drinks are also loaded with other ingredients such as taurine, ginseng, and ginkgo biloba which are stimulants.
Eat whole grains. Food made with refined flour and sugar can cause mood fluctuations, fatigue, and sleepiness, and can slow down your metabolism. They also have less nutritional value for the body. Whole grains are good sources of complex carbohydrates, vitamins and minerals, and they're low in fat. They contain more fiber and are better sources of important nutrients such as selenium, potassium, and magnesium. Whole grains include barley, brown rice, buckwheat, bulgur, millet, oatmeal, popcorn, whole-wheat bread/pasta/crackers, and wild rice.
Pay attention to protein. High quality protein is essential for rebuilding your body and supporting vitality. Keep in mind that of all proteins, red meat is the hardest for the body to digest so while in recovery beans, fish, and poultry are probably the best options. Try to skip processed meats like hot dogs and cold cuts altogether - the best rule is to eat as close to nature as you can.
Know your fats. There are good and bad fats. The good fats are monounsaturated fats and polyunsaturated fats. These fats can improve blood cholesterol levels, stabilize heart rhythms, and ease inflammation, along with other benefits. Foods containing monounsaturated fats include nuts such as almonds, pecans and hazelnuts, seeds such as pumpkin and sesame, and oils such as canola, peanut, and olive. Polyunsaturated fats in high concentrations occur in fish, walnuts, flaxseeds, and in oils such as sunflower, soybean, and flaxseed. Omega-3 fats, which are found in fish, are also an important part of polyunsaturated fats - since the body can't manufacture them. Bad fats are saturated fats, and are included in many food products, but occur mainly in meat, seafood, poultry with skin, and whole-milk dairy products (cheese, ice cream, and milk). Trans fats are the worst of the bad fats and are found in most commercially prepared baked goods, margarines, snack foods, processed foods, French fries prepared in fast-food and other restaurants.
Eat your vegetables and fruit. You can't go wrong if you increase your intake of fresh fruit and vegetables each day. They are likely to be lower in sugar and sodium than prepared foods, they support proper digestion, and they have a higher nutritional value. By going for variety and colour you will ensure your body gets the mix of nutrients it needs to speed your healing process and keep you well. With all that said, what does a healthy diet look like? To start with, a healthy breakfast does not mean a cup of coffee and a Danish. The coffee provides a temporary energy boost while the Danish contains unhealthy fats, sugar, and empty calories. A better choice would be whole grain cereal topped with fresh fruit and fat-free milk. For lunch how about a chicken wrap made with a whole-grain tortilla, leafy lettuce, tomato and onion. Dinner might be whole-grain pasta with tomato sauce, a mixed green salad made with an olive oil and vinaigrette dressing, and some fresh fruit for dessert.
Good nutrition and recovery go hand in hand. By eating right you show respect for your recovery. And as you transform your health, you increase your ability to transform your life!
Sources: The following online articles were sourced in the writing of this article. Diet and Substance Abuse Recovery, University of Maryland Medical Centre, www.umm.edu; Nutrition in Addiction Recovery: How Eating Right Helps You Heal, www.drugaddictiontreatment.com; Proper Nutrition for Recovery, Recovery Magazine, www.drugalcoholaddictionrecovery.com; Health and Nutrition, Recovery Network, www.drug-alcohol-addiction-recovery.com |
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Breaking the Weight Loss Boomerang Cycle:
April 8 - 10th, 2011 A Residential Retreat For Women: Healing Your Relationship With Food & Yourself
Have you been trying to heal from Emotional Eating? Do you overeat, binge eat and generally soothe yourself with food because:
- You feel stressed and struggle with problems in your daily life
- You find yourself in challenging and changing times
- You feel exhausted and overwhelmed by your present life
- You feel empty inside and out of balance
- You feel anxious
Take a step towards more happiness and ease in your life. Join Ina Stockhausen, a therapist who has helped countless women stop Emotional Eating for 3 days of healing. Gather with other women like you at a residential retreat that promises to change the relationship you have with your body, with food and yourself.
Incorporating art, movement, ritual and the map of Integrative Body Psychotherapy we will explore:
- Changing negative beliefs that you have about yourself that may be holding you back and are impacting your relationship with food
- Developing tools YOU need to cope with triggers without reverting back to disordered eating
- What you really long for when you reach for food
- Updating coping strategies you learned during childhood which no longer serve you well
- Making peace with your body and rediscovering your inner Goddess
- Connecting to your birth right to feel good about yourself
- Finding a new way to eat - connected to your body and your inner voice
Without the responsibilities and business of daily life you will be able to immerse yourself in healing self-exploration, integrating body, mind, emotions and spirit.
This residential Retreat isn't about dieting or weight loss. It is about addressing the underlying issues that drive emotional eating and re-evaluating your connection with food. It is also about connecting with other women.
Location: Cedars at Cobble Hill Residential Treatment Centre
April 8 - 10th, 2011
The Retreat will begin Friday April 8th at 10 am and finish Sunday April 10th at 2 pm.
Retreat Cost:
$ 495.00 - Registration Fee includes all the workshop material, 2 nights accommodations at Cedars and all meals.
click here for more details & to request a registration package, space is limited! Registration deadline is March 28th, 2011. |
Applying Spiritual Principles To Recovery
Each month Recovery Connection profiles a different "principle" that helps us heal and develop our inner spirit and achieve "full" recovery. Recovery is an ongoing journey that involves working on our spiritual and personal growth on a daily basis. To get the most value working with these principles, reflect on the monthly principle in meditation or by journaling about how in recovery you relate to the concepts that are described. Write the affirmation down and repeat it silently to yourself frequently throughout the day(s) in order to change old thinking.
This month's spiritual principle is Commitment - maintain a clear, consistent intention to take action... and bring forth new possibilities in your life.
Commitment is holding a clear and consistent intention to take a new course of action, no matter how daunting any possible obstacles may seem. When we are living addictively we are not very good at making or keeping commitments - we promise ourselves or our loved ones we will make changes, but then we don't follow through. Changing course can be a frightening prospect - so instead we use manipulation to get our own way. But finding and maintaining our recovery means we have to be willing to fully commit to a new way of being. We practice commitment when we make promises and keep them, and set goals and work to achieve them. Making and keeping our commitments establishes an inner integrity that gives us the self-discipline, courage, and strength to accept more responsibility for our lives. When we fully commit to a course of action, our Higher Power works with us to ensure we achieve our goals and realize new possibilities.
Affirmation: I renew my commitment to my recovery and my emotional and spiritual growth knowing that commitment builds inner strength and integrity.
This spiritual principle is taken from the "Act of Surrender Recovery Cards" which are available in the Cedars' bookstore. To learn more about spiritual principles go to www.actofsurrender.com. |
'Connections' Program
Connections (formerly known as Recovery Enrichment) is open to individuals with 6 months or more sobriety who are actively pursuing their recovery and staying clean and sober one day at a a time but are now faced with the challenges of really living....sober and straight.
Using individual and small group dynamics, we will help you focus on issues that may be preventing you from experiencing all that could be available in your recovery. You can stop being "your own worst enemy" and gain freedom from ways of thinking and acting that no longer serve your best interests or recovery.
In the course of this 5 day all inclusive program (accommodation, meals & materials provided) we will hep you to develop and strengthen powerful relapse prevention skills, and gain insight into your own recovery.
- Joe Petriccione, M.Ed, LPC Discovery Program Director joe@cedarscobblehill.com |
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Divinely Inspired Designs

Cedars Gift Shop is proud to feature Divinely Inspired Designs!
Trinity Donnell y MacRae lives with her SuperHero Jack and their black kitty Strawberry in beautiful Victoria, BC. Surrounded by Garry Oak trees, Trinity and her wee family like to play, rest and work together with their extended clan of family and friends. Trinity can often be found coming up with new pieces for her line of Divinely Inspired Designs: motivational messages, exercises and affirmations that help foster a lifestyle and attitude of gratitude at home, work and on-the-go."Watch me go as I collect, create and pass on fresh new ideas! Some of them I might even act on ~ others are for pure enjoyment and are all about the joy of daydreaming. Fantasy was my first addiction. Today, its just plain FUN" declares Trinity. Trinity's suite of products & services ties together her passion, natural talent and curiosity in four related areas: mindful parenting, recovery & personal growth, product creation, and helping others. Her personal superpower is that she is a catalyst. Trinity feels best when she is engaged in the solution. "I love connecting people with the tools, ideas and resources they need to live their dreams. Three words people use to describe me are conscientious, authentic, and passionate."
www.divinelyinspired.ca |
In Your Words...
When I first arrived at the Discovery program, I didn't know what to expect. All I knew is that I was there to help the person in recovery
and adjust to their lifestyle. Little did I know, I was there to help myself.
In my week stay at Cedars, I was on an emotional rollercoaster.
Initially, I was to shy to join in group therapy not realizing the purpose of it all. Mid-week, I was finally ready to open up. it was baby steps, but the point was, i was improving. I felt secure with my group as everyone was able to open up without any judgement. By the end of the week, I was seeing the big picture. In order to help someone, you have to help yourself. I have heard that saying so many times, but it was made clear in my week at cedars. I am a co-addict and I know what I have to do for my self in order to stay on track.
Since my week at discovery, I am putting my needs before others. I'm working hard to stay on track by setting boundaries that are ok with me, not being in control of everything and going for personal goals. I have rekindled relationships because I am more knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and am more understanding. I'm looking forward to doing step 2 in the future to learn more :)
Give Recovery A Voice!
It could be your story that inspires someone to start their own journey of recovery.
If you would like to share your testimonial, please send an email to lisan@cedarscobblehill.com . or submit via Canada Post:
Cedars at Cobble Hill P.O. Box 250 3741 Holland Ave. Cobble Hill, BC V0R 1L0
Unless otherwise requested, your first name & last initial will be associated with your submission.
If your submission is chosen for our Recovery Connection Newsletter, to extend our gratitude for your contribution, Cedars will present you with a gift of recovery.
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