New Years Resolutions: Fitness in Moderation
Every year at this time, many of us make a New Year's resolution to start (and hopefully maintain) a fitness program. Being physically fit is important for everyone, but especially for those of us in recovery. Addiction is a disease that affects the body, mind, and spirit and recovery requires working on all three. Taking care of our body entails regular health checkups, stress management, eating healthy, and regular physical activity.
Daily exercise can be a valuable component of your recovery program and is beneficial for relapse prevention and long-term recovery. A regular regime of moderate exercise will help improve self confidence, promote a better night's sleep, boost energy levels, act as a relaxant, keep one's mind occupied, and improve overall mental and physical health.
However, those of us who are prone to living addictively need to be cautious about taking physical activity to the extreme as it can become a compulsive activity. Just like an alcohol or drug addiction, people who become addicted to exercise believe it gives them a sense of control over their life, when in fact the opposite is true - they become obsessed with running or whatever the form of exercise and it takes over their life. Often people are driven by a low sense of self-esteem and the image of having a 'buff body' compels them to work out more than what is healthy.
Over-exercising is also a form of escape for people. It can be a way to avoid thinking about or dealing with potential 'problems'. In some cases people experience a 'runner's high' which can occur with strenuous activities such as running, swimming, biking, and grueling workouts at the gym. Experts agree that while everyone gets a boost in feeling better, getting high is not a common occurrence.
Over time many compulsive exercisers will find they no longer find pleasure in exercise but feel it is necessary and they no longer have a choice. When confronted about their excessive behaviour they may insist their performance would suffer or they would gain weight if they didn't keep up their exhausting schedule.
How can you tell if exercising has become an addictive behaviour for you or someone you care about? Here are some commonly agreed-upon symptoms:
- Exercising for more than two hours every day without taking a day to rest.
- Fixating on the weight lost or calories burned as a result of each workout.
- Continuing to exercise despite injury, illness, or adverse weather conditions.
- Becoming irritable or depressed if working out is not possible.
- Turning down social events with family and friends in order to workout.
- Wanting more - always pushing harder when running or working out in the gym.
- Signing up for multiple fitness classes in addition to working out at home.
- Working out to the point of pain and beyond.
- Moods vary depending on the intensity of the workout.
Compulsive exercising can become a serious health concern and it may require the intervention of a family member, friend, teammate, or coach. If you are concerned about yourself or someone close to you, give your Cedar's counsellor a call for advice.
Fear of becoming an exercise addict should not be an excuse to choose not to undertake a fitness program. This January do consider making a New Year's resolution to start exercising, whether it is doing aerobics, cycling, running, swimming, weight lifting, yoga, daily walking or ideally some combination of different types of exercise. Just keep moderation in mind at all times. Our goal should be to maintain a healthy, balanced lifestyle. |
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Breaking the Weight Loss Boomerang Cycle:
April 8 - 10th, 2011 A Residential Retreat For Women: Healing Your Relationship With Food & Yourself
Have you been trying to heal from Emotional Eating? Do you overeat, binge eat and generally soothe yourself with food because:
- You feel stressed and struggle with problems in your daily life
- You find yourself in challenging and changing times
- You feel exhausted and overwhelmed by your present life
- You feel empty inside and out of balance
- You feel anxious
Take a step towards more happiness and ease in your life. Join Ina Stockhausen, a therapist who has helped countless women stop Emotional Eating for 3 days of healing. Gather with other women like you at a residential retreat that promises to change the relationship you have with your body, with food and yourself.
Incorporating art, movement, ritual and the map of Integrative Body Psychotherapy we will explore:
- Changing negative beliefs that you have about yourself that may be holding you back and are impacting your relationship with food
- Developing tools YOU need to cope with triggers without reverting back to disordered eating
- What you really long for when you reach for food
- Updating coping strategies you learned during childhood which no longer serve you well
- Making peace with your body and rediscovering your inner Goddess
- Connecting to your birth right to feel good about yourself
- Finding a new way to eat - connected to your body and your inner voice
Without the responsibilities and business of daily life you will be able to immerse yourself in healing self-exploration, integrating body, mind, emotions and spirit.
This residential Retreat isn't about dieting or weight loss. It is about addressing the underlying issues that drive emotional eating and re-evaluating your connection with food. It is also about connecting with other women.
Location: Cedars at Cobble Hill Residential Treatment Centre
April 8 - 10th, 2011
The Retreat will begin Friday April 8th at 10 am and finish Sunday April 10th at 2 pm.
Retreat Cost:
$ 495.00 - Registration Fee includes all the workshop material, 2 nights accommodations at Cedars and all meals.
click here for more details & to request a registration package, space is limited! Registration deadline is March 28th, 2011. |
Applying Spiritual Principles To Recovery
Each month Recovery Connection profiles a different "principle" that helps us heal and develop our inner spirit and achieve "full" recovery. Recovery is an ongoing journey that involves working on our spiritual and personal growth on a daily basis. To get the most value working with these principles, reflect on the monthly principle in meditation or by journaling about how in recovery you relate to the concepts that are described. Write the affirmation down and repeat it silently to yourself frequently throughout the day(s) in order to change old thinking.
This month's spiritual principle is faith - place your trust in a Higher Power, release your worries... and experience magic in everyday life.
From time to time as we work on our recovery, we may need to call upon a 'Higher Power' to meet the inevitable challenges on our journey. Without faith in a power greater than we are, we frantically try to control what is not our business to control and fix what is not in our power to fix. Faith is a stabilizing force that allows us to live with uncertainty and to be guided by our inner wisdom. It allows hope to flourish and for miracles to happen. Faith is the light that guides us through the darkness. When we surrender and place our faith in a Higher Power, we can be assured our life will work out for the best. We can deepen our faith through a daily practice of reflection, prayer, and meditation. The more we let go and have faith in a Higher Power, the more our trust in the process of life grows.
Affirmation: I let go of my fears and worries and have faith that all will work out for the best.
This spiritual principle is taken from the "Act of Surrender Recovery Cards" which are available in the Cedars' bookstore. To learn more about spiritual principles go to www.actofsurrender.com. |
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Cedars Spirit Sweatlodge
XPEYEW 'T' HW THELE' (Cedar Place)
On December 3rd Cowichan elder Tousilum (Ron George) and Hwiemtun (Fred Roland) guided Cedars staff in building a traditional sweatlodge on site, followed by a sweat for those able and interested. Many traditional teachings were shared and the lodge was constructed and will be operated with utmost respect of Cowichan customs. This is an extension of our spiritual and cultural offerings and will be available to patients on an individual basis, staff and possibly alumni. It's an evolving opportunity so stay tuned for further updates.

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Discovery Program
This program is designed to help anyone who has a loved one in the midst of addiction. The group oriented process is designed to provide a safe and confidential atmosphere to allow participants to examine the impact the addict/alcoholic has had on their lives.
Through lectures, discussion, sharing and homework group members will learn about their role as an enabler and how to develop safe boundaries as positive alternatives to old behaviours.
Everyone will be encouraged to express their thoughts and feelings regarding their lives with their loved ones in treatment. They will discover that they are not alone in their experiences from the past and that they can develop new ways of thinking and living which will enhance their own lives and relationships with their loved ones.
"As an adult child of an alcoholic, I understand what it is like to live in an alcoholic home life. As an alcoholic myself I am aware of the rules we create for those who love us. Rules that keep us the center of your life, rules that require you to not trust, talk or feel." We at the Discovery Program have developed an in-depth program for you to learn that you are not at fault, you are not alone, and that you can create new ways of living that are healthy and strong.
"You are not at fault and you are not alone." - Joe Petriccione, M.Ed, LPC Discovery Program Director joe@cedarscobblehill.com
For more information please visit www.cedarscobblehill.com or call 1-866-716-2006 |
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Thank You!
A special thank you to Jeet (Alumni) for creating a delicious curry feast for the Cedars staff Christmas celebration.  |
In Your Words...
As I reflect upon my recovery journey I realize I am less than a week away from 2 years of clean living. I left Cedars however, 2 and a half years ago. I may have relapsed, and relapsed hard, but in the end it is what I learned at Cedars that helped me escape the old patterns. I can't name the exact lesson I learned, or technique I practiced, that stuck with me but the wisdom and dedication of the staff sure helped. The staff instilled an idea in my head that I was worth saving and that I could do it. Also, that in our own unique way, addicts are special people. I had never heard that before! I thought we were losers! I live a rich full life now. Although I didn't walk out of the Cedars door directly into my new life, I eventually got there my own way. Could I have done it without my Cedars experience? I really doubt it. Cedars at Cobble Hill is a special place for special people. And maybe you just don't know that yet!
Thanks to all of the staff and owners of Cedars!
- Jeff H.
Give Recovery A Voice!
It could be your story that inspires someone to start their own journey of recovery.
If you would like to share your testimonial, please send an email to lisan@cedarscobblehill.com . or submit via Canada Post:
Cedars at Cobble Hill P.O. Box 250 3741 Holland Ave. Cobble Hill, BC V0R 1L0
Unless otherwise requested, your first name & last initial will be associated with your submission.
If your submission is chosen for our Recovery Connection Newsletter, to extend our gratitude for your contribution, Cedars will present you with a gift of recovery.
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DISCOVERY
Jan. 9th - 14th
Jan. 23rd - 28th
FRIDAY ALUMNI NIGHT Jan. 28th, 2011 @ 7pm
DISCOVERY
Feb. 6th - 11th
Feb. 20th - 25th
DISCOVERY
March 6th - 11th
March 20th - 25th
CEDARS ANNIVERSARY
ALUMNI NIGHT
Saturday, March 12th, 2011 @ 10am
10am - AA Meeting
11:15 - Clean Time
12:30pm - Lunch
BREAKING THE WEIGHT LOSS BOOMERANG CYCLE - 3 DAY RETREAT
10am April 8th - 2pm April 10th - click here to register
Register by March 28th, 2011
FRIDAY ALUMNI NIGHT April 29th, 2011 @ 7pm
DISCOVERY
May 8th - 13th May 22nd - 27th
FRIDAY ALUMNI NIGHT
May 27th, 2011 @ 7pm
DISCOVERY
June 5th - 10th
June 19th - 24th
DISCOVERY
July 3rd - 8th
July 17th - 22nd
CEDARS ALUMNI SUMMER BBQ
Saturday, July 16th, 2011
@ 10am
10am - AA Meeting
11:15 - Clean Time 12:30pm - Lunch
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