Shabbat Shalom!
שבת שלום


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From the Glen Rock Jewish Center
 
 ROSH HASHANAH IS LESS THAN A WEEK AWAY!
 
 
GRJC OFFICES WILL BE CLOSED SUNDAY AND MONDAY FOR LABOR DAY WEEKEND
 
OFFICES WILL CLOSE AT 1:00PM  WED. 9/8 (EREV ROSH HASHANAH)
 
LAST MINUTE
MEMBERSHIP ARRANGEMENTS OR REQUESTS FOR GUEST TICKETS...
 
 ... ANY QUESTIONS OR CONCERNS, PLEASE EMAIL OUR CENTER ADMINISTRATOR, ROANN RUBIN AT ROANN@GRJC.ORG
 
 LULAV AND ETROG ORDERS DUE
 
lulav and etrog$36 A SET
Email Rabbi Tow
to reserve your set
 
 
 
PLEASE REMEMBER TO BRING A BAG OF NON-PERISHABLE FOOD ITEMS AND A BAG OF TOILETRIES TO HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICES THIS YEAR.

ON ROSH HASHANAH, EVERYONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO HEAR THE SHOFAR...



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Please let us know of anyone who is home-bound or in hospital, rehab, or nursing care so that we can send a mitzvah shofar blower to help them feel part of the High Holiday experience.

Please email to rabbi@grjc.org and we'll make sure that everyone can hear the shofar as we prepare to welcome the new year of 5771 in September.
 

ALL GRJC FAMILIES WITH COLLEGE STUDENTS     

 

Rabbi Tow and the GRJC community want to keep in touch with our young men and women attending school away from home.

 

Please email your student's 2010-11 college snail mail AND email addresses to College Outreach Chair Robin
Rubinstein at
RLR57@aol.com or call her at 201-652-6680.

  

The High Holidays are very early this year, but if you can give us a mailing address by Sept 5, we hope to get High Holiday packages delivered in time for Sukkot!

VENDORS
 WANTED
for 
GRJC 2nd Annual
 FABULOUS FALL BOUTIQUE
 
Sun Oct. 19, 11-4 
 
Do you or someone you know sell craft or gift items, accessories, jewelry, etc? Contact
GRJC member Melinda Goldberg for table pricing and vendor contract information. 
grjc@grjc.org  or call the GRJC office 201-652-6624 
LOOKING FOR HOST HOMES
OCTOBER 8-9, 2010
IN WALKING DISTANCE TO GRJC

We have a group of guests  for a Bar Mitzvah who need a place to stay in walking distance to the synagogue.  We need 3 host homes.  The guests are both adults and children.  Hosts do not need to provide meals.
Please email Rabbi Tow (rabbi@grjc.org)
 
 
 
 
Remember to do your online  shopping through
shoptoearn.net/grjc
 
OVER 1400 RETAIL SITES TO VISIT!   IT DOESN'T COST YOU A PENNY EXTRA TO "SHOP TO EARN" $$$ FOR THE GRJC!
 
helping hand 
 
 
Yad b'Yad

A Helping Hand

Lending a hand, sharing good cheer

We're looking for volunteers who can help individuals in our GRJC community who could benefit from a little bit of social time, help with cooking or baking, and other things around the house (including snow shoveling and simple repair jobs).
 
Do you have an hour or two a month you can spare?

Do you know of anyone in the community who could use our help?

Please let us know.

rabbi@grjc.org
or 201-652-6624
 
 

FOOD BANKS IN NEED OF DONATIONS

Dear GRJC family,

During our recent deliveries of food we collected at GRJC to local food banks, we discovered that they are in desperate need of food donations at this time.

PLEASE CONSIDER BRINGING ONE (OR MORE) FOOD ITEMS TO THE GRJC THIS WEEK -- Ideas: SEND ONE IN WITH YOUR CHILD TO NURSERY OR HEBREW SCHOOL, BRING A CAN WITH YOU ON YOUR WAY INTO THE BUILDING.

NEEDED ITEMS:
Canned meat, canned hearty soup, canned veggies, mac & cheese, pb & j, Cereal, dry milk, canned fruit, instant potatoes, 100% juice, baby formula and diapers sizes 4/5/6, bar soap, toothpaste & brushes, supermarket gift cards



**PLEASE DOUBLE BAG FOOD DONATIONS**

Thank you!

ATTENTION ALL CURRENT AND UPCOMING BNAI MITZVAH FAMILIES!

NEW
 Bnai Mitzvah
Section on
 GRJC Website


batmitzvahOn the GRJC website, Bar/Bat Mitzvah families can now find many helpful documents and links.

Please start at www.grjc.org. Click on the "Rabbi's Desk" tab and then select "Bnai Mitzvah".

Further material will be added as we continue to develop this resource for Bnai Mitzvah families.

 

shabbat candles 
 
September 3-4, 2010
 25 Elul 5770
Torah Portion: Nitzavim-Vayelekh 
 Deuteronomy 31


Shabbat candles:  7:09pm
 
FRIDAY EVENING SERVICE BEGINS AT 8pm 

SATURDAY MORNING SERVICES, 9 AM

SATURDAY EVENING, SELICHOT 9PM
 
Shabbat concludes at 8:07pm
 
SUNDAY, SEPT. 5, 11:00AM
 
Annual Cemetery Service led by Rabbi Tow in the GRJC section of Cedar Park Cemetery
735 Forest Avenue Paramus
SELICHOT-The service that begins the season of Forgiveness

Preceded by a screening of

THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS 

Power of Forgiveness 

Saturday night, September 4, 9:00pm

 Join us for dessert, the movie & discussion,

and prayers of forgiveness and repentance

as we begin the High Holiday season.

Open to the Community...Bring your friends! 

The POWER OF FORGIVENESS explores the religious and philosophical role of forgiveness in various faith traditions and examines how the scientific community is now measuring the physical and mental benefits of letting go of grief and resentment.The multi-faceted documentary includes feature stories on the Amish, the 9/11 tragedy, and peace-building in Northern Ireland, along with interviews with renowned Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, Nobel Peace Laureate Elie Wiesel, best-selling authors Thomas Moore and Marianne Williamson, and others.  Other highlights include interventions that guide people through a process that allows them to forgive transgressions and get on with their lives.  For more information, go to www.thepowerofforgiveness.com

 

If you buy it, we will come...and build it.
THE 2010 GRJC SUKKAH RAISING PROJECT


sukkahIn honor of 2010, we're hoping to create 10 new sukkahs for our GRJC families! 

Look for information about sukkahs (and skhah:  natural sukkah roof covering) at www.sukkot.com.  We have a special 5% discount that you can use when checking-out.  The discount code is GLENROCK.
 

If you purchase a sukkah at sukkot.com, we will send a team of adults and teens to your house to help you set it up in no time!  And then you will have a wonderful addition to your Sukkot holiday as you eat in your Sukkah, surf the internet on your laptop or ipad, talk on the phone, take a nap in the sukkah-shade, and welcome friends and family for a fun and informal holiday experience.

Once your sukkah is up, you can decorate it with flowers, lights, pictures, and more.

The sukkahs at sukkot.com are the best deals around both for price and convenience of assembly and storage.



Shabbat Shalom from Rabbi Tow

            On Saturday night, we will officially welcome the High Holiday season as we gather for Selichot prayers.  Selichot means forgiveness.  It is a ceremony that begins a season of forgiveness.  We forgive ourselves.  We forgive others. 

 

            What is special though about this time of year versus any other time?  Don't we always have opportunities to forgive throughout the year?  Why do we gather now, and late at night, for the Selichot prayers?

 

            We have opportunities throughout the year to both seek and grant forgiveness.  This time of year, though, is one that we have set aside with a particular emphasis on confronting our misdeeds, honest confession, forgiveness and reconciliation between people and between people and God.  It is a time that we believe God is closer and God is carefully listening to the words of our mouths and the expressions of our hearts.  God may be judging us during the days ahead, but that judging is full of compassion.  God is a parent Avinu Malkenu who is, in a way, waiting for us to realize our faults, to apologize, and to forgive as God prepares to give us a big ethereal "hug".

 

            We offer Selichot prayers at night (traditionally at midnight) since this is a time that has been associated with calling out to God since the writers of the Psalms put pen to paper.  Psalm 119 tells us, "At midnight I rise to give thanks..."  Midnight is also a time of saving, as in the Exodus from Egypt, "And it was at midnight that God struck all the first-born of Egypt..."  The Talmud teaches that King David would rise at midnight upon hearing the wind blow through his harp.  He would engage in Torah study and song until dawn.  These sources led the mystics to develop a ritual that can be recited daily at midnight called "Tikkun Chatzot", the "Midnight Ritual" that involves chanting psalms and other prayers.  Although we will recite Selichot at the GRJC before midnight, we fulfill the spirit of offering our prayers late at night after many people have already gone to sleep.  There is a sense of quiet and peace and also loneliness and yearning for God's closeness at the time we offer these prayers.  Our voices echo into the night just as the sounds of the shofar will carry through the walls and into the world.

 

            May all our prayers this High Holiday season come from the truest and most real places within our souls and ourselves.  And may God always hear us with gentleness and compassion. 

 

            Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Tow      


 

פינה עברית


במוצאי שבת, נעשה תפילת ה"סליחות" יחד עם קהילות בכל רחבי העולם.  התפילות האלה נתחיל עת ימים הנוראים.  לא כל לבני אדם להתחיל לעשות סליחה, תשובה, וכפרה--פעולות רוחניות המרכזיות בימים הנוראים.  תפילת הסליחות היא מין פרוזדור לפעולות האלה.  היא הזדמנות לחשוב על עשיית הפעולות האלה והתכוננות עצמית.  תקיעת השופר בחודש אלול גם עוזר לנו לעורר את רצוננו להכרה על כל מה שעשינו (ולא עשינו), על כל מה שאמרנו (ולא אמרנו) בשנה עד היום.  השאלה הקלאסית בארצות הברית היא, "איך מישהו מגיע לקרנגי-הל?"
התשובה, "תרגול, תרגול, תרגול..."  אנחנו צריכים תרגול כדי להתכונן לימים הנוראים.  ואנו מתחילים כבר עם הידע שה', ברחמנות, יסלח לנו כאמור בתורה, "ויאמר ה':  סלחתי כדבריך."
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GRJC Members:  Please spread the word to friends and neighbors

Join Rabbi Tow at the 3rd Annual

 

apples and honey  APPLES & HONEY: TASTE OF THE HIGH HOLIDAYS

 

THURSDAY, SEPT. 9  2:00 PM

                          GLEN ROCK JEWISH CENTER SANCTUARY

 

Appropriate for everyone:  young children, singles, families, seniors

The service is free of charge (although RSVPs are required)

open to the entire community.

 

Seats may be reserved by calling the GRJC office,

 

201-652-6624.

 
golf 
 
Join the Men's Clubs of GRJC and Temple Beth Sholom for their 2010 Golf Outing at the Town of Walkill Golf Club in Middletown, NY,
on Tuesday, September 21, 2010. It's a fundraiser offering a fine Fall day of golf, catered kosher lunch and dinner, and prizes for all.  GUESTS ARE WELCOME!
 
For further information email ROB WEISS at rweiss@mclaughlinstern.com or call him at 201-612-0674 (evenings).
 
The registration form with all the details is available on our website:  www.grjc.org
 
Do you like Israeli dancing?

horas

What if you could do the hora, the mayim step, the cherkasiya, etc...right here at the GRJC?

Fun, no experience necessary, social, an easy way to exercise...


Would you like to see Israeli dancing at GRJC?

We've heard from over a dozen individuals!  We'd like to hear from more couples and families. The next "step" will follow sometime soon.
Open to the community
Retired (Jewish) Men Unite?
retirement

Are you retired?
Would you like to get together informally with other RJMs?
Let us know if you'd like to help organize/participate in a monthly (or periodic) meeting, nosh, schmooze...
grjc@grjc.org

melton

The North Jersey Jewish community has come together to keep the Melton Adult Education programming going!

THE GRJC IS A CHARTER SPONSOR
OF THIS COMMUNITY-WIDE EFFORT

Many in the GRJC community have taken this amazing, in-depth, compelling course in Judaism!

SAMPLE A FREE CLASS AT
 "A TASTE OF MELTON"
 
Monday, Sept. 13 10:15 - 11:30am or
7:30-8:45 pm at Temple Beth Rishon, Wyckoff
 
Monday, Sept. 20 7:00-8:15pm at
Temple Emanuel, Woodcliff Lake
 
Tuesday, September 21 7:30-8:45pm
Temple Emanu-El, Closter
 
RSVP to Fran at 201-820-3914
 
Weekly Melton I Classes Begin in October