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Advisory Board
Mr. William F. Cave

Mrs. Suzanne Herrmann

Ms. Maureen Maddison

Ms. Tara K. Martin, Esq.

Ms. Elizabeth A. Mattson

Mrs. Nora McLaughlin

Mrs. Diane Travers

Ms. Lydia Whitefield

Dr. Laura Winters

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Issue 3, Volume 1   March 2008
Meet Our New Advisory Board Members!
Please welcome four new members to The GOALs Center family...

GOALs - Gingerbread House

     Please join us in welcoming Mr. William F. Cave, Mrs. Suzanne Herrmann, Mrs. Nora McLaughlin and Dr. Laura Winters to our Advisory Board.  These individuals are all committed to the GOALs mission of helping people in grief and they bring a wealth of varied experience to our young organization.  Read More
The Challenges of Single Parenting
                                                                       by Diane Travers, LCSW
    
    Have you ever heard the adage, "Parenting is the toughest job in the world?" Have you ever gotten that e-mail about the 24/7 nature of the parenting job description?  Few can argue about the immeasurable joy being a parent brings AND the challenges and frustrations that often accompany this! 

     Being a single parent adds an additional challenge. Duel parenting often brings complimentary styles where one parent may be the stronger disciplinarian, but when you are the "chief, cook and bottle washer" there isn't back-up for the challenging times. One of the toughest parts of being the sole disciplinarian is how to set firm limits and still be respected by your child. Parents often struggle with wanting to be liked or being a friend to their children. This is an unrealistic expectation because it is very difficult to be firm and consistent while seeking your child's approval. With that said, sometimes we have to be the bad guy to be effective.  Continue Reading

GOALs Goes Washington!
 Recent Presentation to National Audience

     On Friday, February 22nd, Maureen Underwood and GOALs Center Advisory Board Member Dr. Laura Winters presented a three-hour session on Family and Trauma at the national conference of the American Group Psychotherapy Association in Washington, D.C.  The presentation described the impact of Traumatic Loss on Families, the Tasks of Grief, and the GOALs Model for Complication Mourning.  Maureen disseminated the successes of the GOALs programs to therapists who can replicate GOALs methods and strategies in groups and locales across the country.  Laura used poems as prompts for the therapists' own self care and for use in groups as well as film clips from In the Bedroom and Brokeback Mountain to explore the aftermath of loss for couples and various strategies for handling loss. 

GOALs Services Continue to Expand
Logo - White BackgroundGOALs Center offers two new support groups and continues monthly training program

     The GOALs Center continues to expand in 2008. February marked the start of a new counseling support group for families with children grieving the death of a parent. Groups meet on Saturday mornings in Morristown and the theme for these spring sessions is "The Growing Season". The program consists of multiple groups for children, an adult group and babysitting for children too young to participate. These groups will function as a closed group (not accepting new participants) until JuneRead More
 
If you have any questions about our services please contact me at your convenience.
 
Sincerely,

Kevin Duffy
The GOALs Center for Families
(973) 800-9661
kevin@goalscenter.org