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Issue no. 19|August 2, 2010

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The Illusion of Control

Mark recently watched a consulting firm executive manage a team that was putting together a final presentation for a client. The presentation recommended new behavior, new systems and brought together six months worth of data which the team of six had been collaborating on.


The only person in the room who knew what the final outcome should look like was the leader. The fact that the leader's vision for the presentation was taking precedence makes sense - he's senior because he has more experience, and owns the client relationship. But he hadn't communicated it, because he wanted to shape it all, and wanted to "make sure." What this meant was that everyone had to come to him with every change, and every question. They needed guidance because they couldn't see the final result, because in the leader's mind it was hard to say it out loud, but he knew it, and that was enough. He became increasingly irritated each time the team came to him for guidance. It got to the point where he was calling everyone 'stupid' under his breath because they were asking simple questions to which they 'should know the answers'.


Unfortunately this was a self-fulfilling prophecy. Even thought they might ought to have known - because the tasks they needed guidance on were simple - they didn't have a critical piece of information: the desired outcome.


When you, as a manager or leader or even project coordinator, keep to yourself the desired outcome, several bad things happen. You have to be involved in more minor details [even minor details require reflection on the bigger picture - think about it]. Your team doesn't get to get to be involved in the details. Your team doesn't get developed by learning how to make decisions. You can't reconsider different, perhaps better, outcomes. More communication directly with you reduces communication among fellow team members. Work slows. Ideas are censored, because without context their value can't be assessed. Quality suffers. And you become less effective, over time (as you become more frustrated).


And your team hates it, too, by the way.)


And, it's completely your fault. It's one of the major faults that happens to new managers, or particularly intelligent managers, or managers who value expertise power highly (an awful lot of us). This is hard to hear if you're one of those types of managers, we know. The answer is to share more, and share it early. Trust more during and involve everyone throughout. The only thing worse than going through a project like this, is learning that you will have to go through the next project like this, because no one learned anything of any value, and you haven't got any better.


The more you trust your team, the better the outcome. Yes, mistakes will be made, but you'll have time to correct them in part because you won't be the one making them all.



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