Ahhh-Yes!                                   March 2008
Ahhh-Yes! is an occasional and brief inspirational letter from Karen Valencic. The intention is to help you generate the power to get your "it" done with grace -- Spiral Impact  It!
You have asked;
I have listened;
now I act


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Spiral Impact:
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Use Conflict Creatively
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Stay Calm in Intense Situations

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April 5th
Book Signing
Borders Books
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Indianapolis
2- 4 PM

and

April 30
Women's Leadership Conference
Indianapolis, IN
1 PM

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Help someone discover something good about himself and he will never lose sight of the good in you.

Dear Colleague:
Einstein, initially, didn't know the full potential of his e=mc˛ equation.  Likely, the creator of email didn't know the vast power he or she was about to unleash either, both constructively and destructively.

Ever been involved in an Ewar?  This is where an email goes on a wild ride through un-chartered territory, bringing in all kinds of unanticipated responses and people into the mix.  All of a sudden things just get out of hand, misunderstood, and very murky - virtual war (okay, okay maybe it's just a battle).

This is about the time unplugging the computer, hiding under the desk, or screaming seems like a good idea!

E originally stood for electronic, although has gathered many other meanings:

Eternity -   how long the message can exist.

Endless -    the number of times the 'forward' or 'reply' button can be pushed.

Enormous - the number of people who may get involved.

Escalate -   what it can do to a small issue or       misunderstanding - the root of all Ewars!

Embarress - what happens when you forward a     message without checking the truth of it.

Want to End the war?

Simple: Pick up the phone or walk down the hall and talk!   A good idea is to begin with your initial intended purpose.

Want to Escape future wars?  Remember email is great for Exchanging concrete information.  Anything with Emotion involved is dangerous.

We are human beings, the subtle beauty of our communication gets lost and misread in electronic communication.  True connection requires voice or in-person energy.

Feel free to forward, or better yet print a hard copy and go share in-person!

Yours in Epeace!

Karen

Karen Valencic

(317) 257-0684

Communication creates movement;
Stillness fosters clarity.
To be moving and clear
This is true power.
 
copyright 2008 Karen Valencic
Other Notes of Interest:
-Tri-State University, Karen's alma mater, featured her in their Magazine click here to read

-If you've ever experienced the illness or loss of your mother, you know how helpful connecting with others who have shared this experience can be. My friend Susie Beiman, is collecting poetry or short prose about this topic for a book.  If you'd like to contribute please contact Susie at: Susie Beiman

- Great  book to read:  Einstein by Issacson.   I was amazed how many myths we have about this brilliant man.